I had a talk with a guy friend the other day and he said no matter how he tries to explain men I will never get it because the male sex drive controls everything.

Is this true, are guys not in control of their sex drives? maybe some girls too?

I dont know..I am always in control even when ive been drinking, thats why I don't buy that excuse. Ive never been seduced against my will and I dont have casual sex just b/c im horny.

Lets hear it guys, are you in control or is your sex drive???

 

I would say for me atleast, my sex drive definitely takes control. Once it kicks in, sex is all I can think about and that need will not stop until the craving is fed! Now that doesn't mean I'm going to run out and boink anything I can get my hands on, but the desire doesn't subside until its fulfilled. It normally ends by me letting my wife know that tonight we will be taking care of some bidness!

 

Im not a guy, but my sex drive controls me.

 

I can control it, if I want to, and I think most men can control it, up to a point, if they want to. But if sex is offered to men, with no strings attached, nine times out of ten they'll take it. And they'll invent a reasonable, rational excuse for why they took it, so that it doesn't appear to them that they're prisoners of lust.

 

My sex drive controls me

 

+1 Thats me as well. I can control mine and I think any responsible man can control his. Those who cant/wont make up excuses to justify doing it.

 

i can control mine up to a point but when it kicks in i cant and i need some play time lol

 

I can definitely control mine. I have been put into situations where I have been offered NSA sex and have only accepted when I knew it was right. So it is possible to control those urges and therefore your sexual drives.

 

It controls me because I want to have sex all the time; WHEN I'm having sex, I control IT

 

I don't understand how people can say they had sex because "Insert blah blah excuse"

I'm hornier then anyone I've ever met...including men...and I STILL have enough self control to say no, when I'm inebriated, the guy has a GF, when I'm stoned, or I have a man, or any other reason. How can someone expect to be believed unless it was actual rape or a mental mind game?

 

Oh, I guess I misunderstood.

Sure, I can say no. I've done that probably hundreds of times; I thought Lisa was asking if sex was a controlling influence.

I goofed.

 

I can control my sex drive. I don't always do it, but I can chose when and with whom I have sex with.

 

Well, it HAS happened to me recently. As I told my husband, it was in the Paramus Holiday Inn, I was having a drink at the bar, alone, and this alien approached me. He started talking to me. He bought me a drink, and then I think he must have used some kind of a ray or a mind control device because he forced me to follow him to his room and that's where he told me about the end of the world.

 

Wouldn't you know it, the EXACT same thing happened to me the other day...except it was a female alien, and it was the Comfort Inn.

 

Wow I instantly knew that was from old school ghostbusters movie lol

 

I believe this full heartedly.

you can ONLY cheat if you are alone with another person.

I myself, can NEVER be alone with another man. ( if we are sexually attracted to each other)

all it would take would be a kiss on the lips, a grope, kiss on the neck.. other wise...physical attention.. and I'd find myself naked with another man's cock burried inside of me.

I KNOW first hand.... no matter HOW much I love my husband... i would have no self controll.

 

I think anyone can control their sex drive. Male, female or intersex. It'd take someone really unstable hormonally and chemically (medically unstable) to completely loose control of your sex drive.
But I think we all can get a bit "out of control" from time to time.

My personal experiences have been many and it only happens when i go for too many months without sex. I wake up horny, go to bed horny, have wet dreams as if i was 14 again, have to leave in the middle of a family or work meeting and go cool off.
I honestly think it's awful because it can get to a point where it clouds your judgement. Then again, that depends on how you deal with it and that's up to how mature you really are.

 

I agree in order to cheat you have to put yourself in a position to cheat, so part of the way of preventing cheating is never putting yourself in that position.

I'd consider myself to have a high sex drive and sometimes it can be hard to resist the urges however if I'm with a partner I'm faithful as treating others the way you'd like to be treated is definitely a rule to follow. Even if you suspect your partner is cheating on you it's not right to cheat yourself(two wrongs don't make a right), breaking things off is your best bet.

 

my mother cheated on my dad.. in a hotel room..then told him and I both that they just went there to "talk" hell i was 14 at the time.. I knew good and damn well what two adults went to a hotel for.

since then.. you can only cheat if you in a position to cheat..so like i said.. as long as im never alone with a guy whos just as attracted to me as I am to him...Ill never cheat.

 

Lol, if we get into that, sex is a VERY controlling influence. After all, most of us wouldn't be trying to find that special someone to have sex with, if it wasn't controlling that part of our brain.