I have no control over my sex drive. I masturbate or have sex as often as I can and never get enough.

Whenever I see a woman that I am attracted to I cannot bare it. My testies draw up and ache. I feel my cock twinge. It is sometime all I can do not to drag her off and fuck her...or since that is not going to happen... i am ready to dive behind a bush and pull my cock out and beat off to get back to normal for a short while.

Wherever I am I think of sex, sex, sex. When driving I often message my cock. I jerk off at work, in the woods, bathroom, bedroom, car. I collect porn and catagoise it. I spend too much time on xnxx looking for a turn-on prior to manipulating my penis to the point of seminal emission.

Nope, no control.

 

Girl right here, you can say I'm my sex drive's bitch, lol.

 

bad question for me

well, this is a bad question for me, lol. my sex drive controls me. too bad for me though, i have a low sex drive, and always have. i was a weird kid who hardly ever got my self off, or wanted sex that much. i didn't even have sex until i was 18. ohwell. it won't ever change though either. but this site sure helps me to want sex.

 

It's a natural flow between the two (control and being controlled), but it's definitely in control of the man more often. It's rarely irresistible, but it can be hard to ignore. It's just biology. We wouldn't be here (or at least so successful) if at least some of our ancestors had powerful sex drives (namely the males). I think this is part of why rape still happens at the rates it does. Societal factors aside, genetic factors that influence rape have survived because it makes babies, honestly.

This is mostly a masculine perspective. Women appear to either have a sex drive more dependent on circumstance (emotional state, relationship status, location, etc.) or they're just better at hiding/controlling it. Whether that's natural, or societal, I'm not sure.

 

*...if at least some of our ancestors DIDN'T have powerful...

 

Wow...you are weak willed!

 

Na, she is honest. As far as controlling my sex drive, I do it very well. I have chances to cheat constantly but I do not want to so I don't.

 

or strong sexual willed

 

I have enough control to know when I'm one in a million to a lover and not just one of the millions they've had! Freebies, quickies, and hand jobs will never top a hotel room and hours to spare discovering what leads us to the BOOM!

 

And who doesn't prefer that?

 

I too have had chances to cheat... but I don't want to..therefore, I never placed myself into a position where I COULD cheat...AKA..be alone with that guy.

 

Don't you find that elevators are really dangerous? I mean...all you have to do is reach over and press that big red button.....

 

Completely in control, to the point where I can essentially turn it on and off. The process by which I came to be able to do that was not necessarily one that I would have ever chosen, but as it stands I can now redirect pent-up frustration into my work, with the result that I can sit at it for an almost solid eight hours, barely moving!

Perhaps somewhat unusually, sex does not feature very high on my agenda. And, by the way, I completely agree with your statement about weak will.

 

lol I know alcoholics cant have one drink and drug addicts cant have one joint so I guess sex addicts can't be alone with one hot guy or vows or no vows, they are cheating! very sad though...

 

LOL! Nah.. I'm from Tenn, never been in too many elevators till I moved here (alaska) and the military hospital has an elevator... and well they are all in uniform and it's not approperate behavior. The husband could get in trouble due to my actions. I'm a good girl at base.

I also said he'd have to touch me..... But what I find sad is you asking a question then judging those who answer your question.

 

I can delay satisfying myself for sometimes weeks at the most, but during that time sex is usually always on my mind, and throughout the days I'm thinking about the next time I'll be able to come. So to answer the question, it absolutely controls me.

 

Yes I can say no but I know once getting fucked creeps into my head its staying there until I do something about it. The more I fight "the feeling" the hornier I get until I'm on my knees or back with a hard cock or strap on dildo buried deep inside me. I used to fight it as much as possible until one day I realized I like who I am and I love being fucked so now I just go with it. Why fight my "inner slut" when she has so much fun anyway?

 

This thread really illustrates a very important difference between men and women. I don't think women are controlled by their sex drives, however powerful they may be, for the simple reason that women (or at least, unmarried women ) can have sex pretty much any time they want, as often as they want. All we have to do is flash our boobs at a guy and indicate a willingness to have sex with him. Women's reluctance to have sex has more to do with fear of violence, disease, pregnancy, or loss of reputation than any lack of libido or lack of opportunity.

Men, however, are absolutely driven by the need for sex. Gore Vidal, who supposedly had sex with something like 20,000 men in his lifetime, once commented that he was glad when he reached the age of 70, since he was finally free of the "tyranny" of his libido. Men HAVE to fuck, and will risk almost anything when given the opportunity.

Just my $0.02.

 

best post ever!

 

my sex drive controls me all the time...