I've only recently been having sexual relationships (2) and both times it seems as if the girl has very little interest in touching me. I'm very affectionate with kissing and touching and I love to eat pussy. It's just every time there is an opportunity for it to be my turn it never really happens. I don't want to force her to touch me, but it makes me feel like shit that she doesn't have an interest or the decency to offer anything in return.

I'm not really sure what I want out of this but I just wanted to get if off my chest because it's been bothering me.

 

if she only wants pleasure and has no interest in returning it...leave her

 

That's not really what I want either. We get along very well it's just that she doesn't return the favor. The girl I'm currently with is kinda new to all this and she says she thinks she is not very good so I'm thinking that she doesn't want to embarrass herself or something

 

Talk. Tell her how you're feeling, and what the cure for it is.

And make sure you bathe.

 

Have you tried talking to her, explaining what you'd like? If she doesn't have much confidence maybe she's waiting for you to tell her what you want, and is scared to initiate anything.
Try having the conversation, and try asking her for what you want next time you're having sex.

 

Sorry, but I really think you've started your sexual journey with a wrong step...

If you read here, (and not only here) how much men enjoy licking cunts and you really believe it, sorry but you must be naive...

No, man, just caress the lady and keep on pounding her cunt with your dick!!!

After, let's say, a month or so, when you already are used with each other, you can try to initiate her into oral, anal, or whatever else you can imagine!

Don't worry, if she's allready experienced, than she'll just let you know much earlier!

Not all the girls will be happy to suck your dick and/or not all the girls will be willing to feel your dick into their asses!

I don't mean to insult you, but, honestly, I'm just afraid you've been watching too much porn and... you believed it!!!

No, man, it can even take years until you convince your girlfriend to let her ass at your disposal - the same goes for her mouth, too...

Now, if you've already started to lick their cunts, from the very beginning, I'm sorry to say, but I believe you've made a huge mistake!

Personally, I've never done it, except for the two women to whom I was/am married!

Caress them, suck their boobs, kiss their belly buttons, but don't go south that easy! Take time and let yourselves know each other better first...

Anyway, I'm afraid you should have posted this before the action!

Good luck!

 

Tell her that practice makes perfect and that you will understand.

 

then talk it all out with her. I never understood how some. In relationships can fuck.....but not communicate their needs to one another

 

Is she inexperienced? She might think that all you want is to have your cock in your pussy, and believe what is commenly spoken, that men are always ready. She might not realize foreplay is for men too. At least your not falling into the trap of thinking your cock is all a woman needs, but now you need to help her relax.
If she's really shy, try having the lights out a few times, and I mean REALLY out, pitch black, so she has to find you and touch you to get you into her body. It's kind of funny how many women explore a little more then, s though because you can't see her, you can't feel her either. Just make sure you are very vocal about what her touch does to you, she'll learn to like turning you on, and you can graduate to lights in awhile.

 

Thank you everyone. You've been most helpful. I am seeing her today so hopefully I can chat with her and will update everyone on what's going on. Again, thank you. You have made me feel much better.

 

Maybe they're both inexperienced and don't quite know what to do. Have you tried gently guiding her hand to where you want her to caress you?

 

OMG...What a stupid post Ovid58 came up with....don 't pay any attention to his BS.
Many men....I bet way over half of the men I have been with would rather eat it than fuck it. Likewise many women enjoy going down on their men. You may have found one that doesn't. You can't change someone if she doesn't enjoy giving oral. Talk about it with her.....openness and sharing your feelings...discussing what you both like and don't like are the key...always talk.
Contrary to what Ovid says good sex is not about blackmail. I'll go down on you if you go down on me is for kids.

 

I couldn't have said it better myself.

 

Maybe my post is stupid - I can live with this...

Now, a male is "technically built" to fuck with his penis - if you and at least "half" the men you know preffer to use your tongue, lips and fingers, than you really have a problem...
AND don't tell me you ejaculate just from licking a cunt!

 

I think the point that he was trying to make Ovid is that some men really get off on pleasing their women sexually instead of just banging away at them like a piston. I know to you it's all about getting your rocks off, but some of us like to make our partners happy as well.

 

I may cry

 

My virgin wife was a slow beginner too, try asking her to touch you in less sexual spots first? You may find you have more erogenous zones you didn't know you had, remember the most erogenous zone on the body, is in the imagination of the mind so, be creative.

 

Ovid58.. dude, just because you don't like eating pussy it doesn't mean that it's true for everyone or most people. I go rock hard when i eat pussy, I just like it i don't why but i do, and i have had to try not to cum while eating pussy a few times because it makes me so horny. My girl also loved giving me blowjobs and never let a drop of my cum go to waste lol Different strokes for different folks

 

Well never push someone into it, guess you could just plead your case and she might change.

 

I think I'm going REALLY crazy!!!

If A woman doesn't have AT LEAST 3 (three) orgasms per date (sorry, I mean, didn't, since now I'm just old and VERY married!), than I am in trouble!...

No, maam, the woman IS the first to be SATISFIED!!!

The problem here is the fact that (am I so special?!?) I was REALLY making them come with my penis, pelvic bones, and, if really very drunk, with my fingers.
I just DIDN'T lick their cunts!

No matter what you may believe, or not, I just didn't have unhappy partners!...