Question aimed towards straight men or lesbians, but would love input from everyone.

so... i just spent the last three or four days (er not yesterday, the days before then) high as a motherfucking kite.

getting high makes me really horny. reeeaaaallly horny. so i fucked my friend senseless the whole time.

i'm talking four or five times a day.

though he claims to have enjoyed it, i noticed... i swear it seemed like sometimes he was exasperated like 'gosh darn it here we go again' (not that it wasn't amazing and fun and omg oh so good. i've been playing around with the outside of his anus for awhile now. the last night, he retaliated, despite my embaressment. )

so now that you know why i am curious about this, i gotta ask: do men dread meeting a girl that is TOO into sex?

 

Clarify: meant four or five times per twenty four hour period.

and please don't just say 'no' without thinking about it

 

The basic answer is NO.

But, of course, you have to mix the guy (or guys) into the equation.

Just about all guys CLAIM they want a girl (or girls) who want sex all of the time----but think about it: Most guys cannot keep it up for 10 hours a day and cum 10 times......girls can, if they want to.

So, it has to be a match. Maybe 1 in 10 guys under 40 could keep up with a girl who wanted to do it five times a day EVERY day (not just once in a while); 9 guys out of 10 would be exhausted after the second day.

So, again, the answer is NO. If you are a girl and you love sex and want to do it 5 times a day, you need to find the right sexual match with a guy that not only SAYS he wants that, but can actually DO that; OR a guy that doesn't mind having another guy (or girl) tag-teaming you.

 

Some do, some don't. I guess it all depends on their sex-drive and their stamina, which probably differs for all of us. Me? I'm a bit of a nympho, so I'd do it all damn day if I could, but of course reality doesn't agree with me!

:excited:

 

Motherfucking cell phone deleted my reply.
basically i said 1. thanks so so much umpire for not blowing my question off as silly.

2. since so few guys can keep up with that level of horniness, isn't the answer really yes for the majority?


actually, can a female body even take having sex 5 times a day long term? i mean my pelvis was hurting me whenever the weed wore off. i guess prostitutes do it all the time though...





9ff topic question that just occured to me: i've been fucking for like two months now. i was happy to learn i had a tight vagina that stayed tight.
..... it didn't feel as tight by the end of the fuckfest. it'll go back to normal in like a week, right?

 

If only we didn't have to pay bills

 

I think that for most people who have only just met each other and are excited and aroused, two or three times a day would be enjoyable, and probably would be happy to do it once a day on a longer term. (and even that might prove too much for most people!)

I'd say you know yourself best, so if your pelvis hurts then it would probably be wise to take it easy for a while. Your vagina will definitely get tighter if you give her some rest, but I'm not too sure if that's going to happen in a week or not, especially if you keep banging her up like you're doing..

Hmm.. Most prostitutes don't have five customers every day, and most of them lubricate themselves and don't allow themselves to get all excited most of the time. Most of them also refuse to do it longer than a certain amount of time, otherwise they'd just damage themselves permanently.

Have fun, but don't damage yourself! (I'm sure you don't want those pesky infections all the time either?)

 

That's one of the many reasons, yeah. Another reason is that I've learned to restrain myself, because there have been times I fucked so much and so often I had blisters on my dick. I've heard a few people say they sometimes wish they had a sex-drive like that, but trust me, it's not funny to be that way. Some of my ex-girlfriends thought it was awesome at first, but got tired of me pretty quickly, but these days I'm happy to say I'm able to enjoy other things in life.

:grin:

 

You answered that yourself when you said "prostitutes".

I've never had sex with one girl 5 times a day long-term. I can't remember the exact number, but this one girl I was with about 20 years ago would go any time, and once, for kicks, we kept track of how many times we fucked in a month (as you said, separate times during the day---not 2 or 3 times in one session) and it ended up something like 142 or 143 times in 31 days, or 4.6 times a day on average.

HOWEVER, having said that, I KNOW that was the most I ever did it in that length of time, with her or anyone else AND we were doing it like it was some kind of contest. "Normally", we were probably doing it more like 100 times a month during the time we were together.

I've also been with girls who did not want it more than once or at most twice a day. Everyone is different.

 

*Feeling gipped* we'd do it once a day normally. twice sometimes if i spent the night. and i don't see him everydday. so normally it'd be like 11 times a month. *disgruntled* i want 100 times, dammit!





my friend- i will call him john.- did that with his hand. did a handjob so hard that it got all sore. then we fucked and a part of it started bleeding. from like a scab or something.


._______. anyways the only reason we fucked that much was cause the weed maade me literally horny 24/7. so i kept pushing the envelope and trying to go at it again. those days would have never happened if we were both sober.
I WANT 100 TIMES NOW, DAMMIT

 

Personally speaking ... No I do not think a woman can be too into sex, granted after a time like you have described I'm sure that the long term running of 5 times a day would be difficult to maintain, however with a few day inbetween such moments to let the body recover on and off sessions of such is quite easy to do.

In short, no you are not silly for wondering about this, and ( again personally speaking) I wish I was your friend during that time.

 

You've got me thinking now; Actually the one girl I knew that wanted to do it the most was the one that had never had an orgasm---and the one girl I could never bring to orgasm, either.

We were 19 at the time and she had been with----I think----4 or 5 other guys before and had never cum. I tried everything I knew then, but could not get her off. She SAID that it did not matter, but she was CRAZY to get me to cum ALL THE TIME.

She probably would have done it 10 times a day if she was able (with me, anyway), but all she wanted to do was to get me off, see me shoot loads all over----I think it was a kind of power thing, too.

BUT, even at 19, I couldn't cum 5 or 6 times a day EVERY DAY. I just don't produce that much. So, she'd get me off a couple of times, then be after me a couple of hours later and we'd fuck again and she'd get me off once or twice again----then she'd be after me again a couple of hours later, make me cum and then get either sad or pissed off that my cock wouldn't get completely hard and I couldn't cum again.

 

This pretty much fits the textbook definition of nymphomania. She's compelled to have sex as often as possible, but for reasons that are more neurotic than erotic.

 

sounds like just a stint of 4 or 5 a day or whatever it was . i dunno about anyone else but i've had many stints like that and the girl usually claps out long before i do to be honest. I've usually found it generally balances out later anyway and there'll be days without any afterwards , especially for her because she'll just be too sore and you pay the price later .girls can take a good very frustrating week or so to get over soreness, so ya cut off your nose to spite your face if your not careful.
i don't really believe anyone , he or she's can keep that up day in day out , well I've never found anyone , not in a fully enjoyable state anyway . try it for a mth , bet you get sexed out.
but it's really important i believe or shits only gonna hit the fan later , in having roughly matching libido's , lots in common sexually also - same deal . so many people of both ,end up as frustrated as all hell with partners not wanting to do this or that.
one of my girls loved to watch me cum and wanted to see how many i could manage - me too . I did 12 , not sure where that is on anyone else's scale so to speak but it was a few on mine believe me. loved everyone of them too and could have gone one more that night but she fell a sleep . i think the last one she asked for it all over her face to sleep with , she did too she wanted it everywhere and got that too .

if you need 5 sessions a day every day , 365 a yr then yep you need someone with a very high libido but i doubt you would anyway but your still on the highly sexed end that's for sure .

 

Nooooooooo

 

In the long term I'd say it's annoying to men to be on call that often. It took me a long time to tone down my sex drive to where a man can keep up. Normally I'm a 4-5 times a day woman myself, when I can get it, but most men are usually once or twice a day.
You'll tighten back up OC, and it was probably his hand job that made you sore, men's hands are rougher then thier penis even if it does get harder, I notice I'm always tender after an extended session of fingerplay. Works out for them though, in a few hours we....well, we swell inside from being irritated, and it gets tighter for them.
Before I learned some self control, I've lost BF's because of my sex drive.

 

I actually prefer a couple of 2 or 3 hour sessions a day to jumping into bed 5 or 6 times a day. It is the extended foreplay, kissing and sensuality that I really enjoy along with licking and intercourse.....just fucking and cumming fast to see how many times you can do it was never my thing anyway.

 

so could you keep that up consistently ?
i've had lots of all day or night sessions , absolutely beautiful , there's nothing better with the right person. sometimes with someone new that's gone on for mths and mths but on average overall , apart from stints and stuff like that , I'd averagely need two a day or one really nice longer session i reckon. but if it was only the one even if longer , i'd still need at least one more cum at some stage .

 

Lets put it this way, last time I was single, I had 4 fuck buddies. I didn't do them at the same time, but I four men that I could phone. So sometimes, yes, I showered four times a day. It wasn't just wham bam, thank you sir, either, sometimes I'd go spend the night and niether of us would sleep the whole night. I was single for a year before I actually started to fall for someone and broke it off with them.
When I had BF's they usually got all cocky figuring I had to be lying, but by the third week, they ALL started telling me no. Which I listened too, but I still asked anyway.
Hell, one of them figured a lot of sex was once a week, which for two young people, with no kids, is ridiculous in my books.

 

i would have to say NO