I'm seriously asking a question, and just trying to find out if it happens a lot.

I am sensing a pattern on here with women I meet. I send them an e-mail, they e-mail back. We chat a little bit, and things go well. We exchange Facebooks and cell numbers. We chat on Facebook, text some, and things go well. I ask them out for a date, they accept. We set a date and time and she says it should work fine. Then, usually an hour or two before we are supposed to meet, I get a text saying she can't make it because of some "situation" that arises. After that, the convos usually drop off, we talk about rescheduling, it doesn't get arranged, and we lose touch.

Question is, is this something that happens a lot?

 

being played

hi yes it is a thing that happens in my case when i was married i would go on line cause my hubby would ask me to tease i would chat online exchange info talk on phone send a few snaps get sum snaps back maybe meet once in sexy gear then drop it once it was getting to full on

 

You are asking us a serious question and expect a serious answer? You are fucking ambitious.

 

This might sound a little cold or even insensitive but do you need to be dropped on your head to believe it hurts ?????

I think thonglady nailed it.

 

I would say that 'there are no women on the internet', but that joke is so old, it now has alzheimer's :laughing:

 

Why don't you ask the people in the Personals Forum - they place ads all the time.

 

Yeah... I would think this is possible assuming that he has video chatted with Skype or another video chat program, or had a voice to voice on the phone with the person he wants to meet in real life. Otherwise, who knows?

 

I did warn you.

 

LOL ......... yes you did .

Seriously though .......... who would let that happen time and time again, first time shame on them, second time shame on you. It's like the definition of insanity: doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.

 

Umm... Have you video chatted or had voice to voice conversations on the phone with these people before asking them to meet in person?

 

What is, asking for a sensible answer on here or internet dating?:excited:

 

I've met people online, I know people that use online dating services just for casual sex , some sites are scams... , you just have to find one that is genuine +

 

You wouldn't even know my real name until after we swapped a little DNA and then only if you were good enough for a rerun :excited:

Tina :rose:

 

Oh, now that raises a question. What does one have to do to learn the names of all your pets you had growing up? From the bit that I've seen, it sounds like a worthwhile endeavor.

Just sayin'.

 

Hmm... I'll assume that no video chats or voice to voice phone conversations took place. Oh well:rose:

 

I'm guilty of doing this, but it's because I feel pressured. Even if I'm fully intending to have sex with a man, if I feel like he expects me too, I back out. I never met them in the evening either, it had to be in public, in the bright light of day, no drinking or ambient light involved. Wierd, I know.
I've met many men from online, and I think for every one I met, there was ten I blew off.

 

Oh, I understand... There's nothing weird about that.:rose:

 

Same here, sort of.

I have met people at night (my husband has an infared night scope

We haven't done that in a long time, we have friends and "socials" for our lifestyle but every now and then we have an itch to do something different and adventerous.

Tina :rose:

 

I have met many women from match and I have scored more times that I care to admit. Its not that hard for me not because I am the sexiest guy on the planet I just do well when I craft my messages. That and I am hinest...so when they do meet me they arent shocked or supprised.

One thing you have to remember is that on any dating site the men outnumber the women by at least...no less than...never less than ten to one. Many are fifteen or more to one. Women dont have the same problems getting dates as men and as a rsult are alot less likely to use online dating sites. With those odds you absolutly have to be alble to hook them and thats where your game has to be sharp.

 

I don't think I'd consider it as being played if you never meet the girl but it is kinda leading you on. Although on second thought if she chats you up and gives the wrong impression with no intention of meeting up with you whatsoever then that is playing you.

It's true women do have a lot more options it's the guy that puts the work in to things and has to work his game. Therefore at any given moment they probably have quite a few guys lined up so they can't go for them all therefore they must reject some of them, despite kinda giving the green light beforehand. It's kinda like when you have a bunch of friends doing things you can only decide to go out to one place for that evening, well unless you like hopping from place to place.

Any decent to good looking women can fuck tons of guys if she wants to while in order for a guy to do the same he must have good game or at the very least be rich or even very attractive.

I've only had women bail on me once or twice right before we were supposed to meet and I've probably done it a couple times maybe more but not more then 5 or so. Generally it's for just a fuck. Usually it's for a fairly legitimate reason on my part I don't like leading people on.