I've cheated - I've been cheated on. It's not fun at the time (the latter, not the former) but it isn't the end of the world, either.

 

Yes I did!

No consequences!

I am too clever!!!

DON'T make cheating a way of life and... don't let it affect your budget, your family, or people you know!!!

It can be great, or it can be a nightmare!!!!!

 

Well, considering I have been with my wife (not necessarily married the whole time) for 20 years, and been with 4 other women during that time, then yes. Three of those four however were before we were married, when I was a stupid teen.....

 

I've never cheated.

 

I believe that sex is fun and pleasure.
I do not believe in sexual exclusivity as the only way of existence, but I respect those who choose to be sexually exclusive.

 

Have you ever cheated on a partner? Yes, w/3 women

How long had you been together? 1st girl 2yrs. 2nd girl 25mins. 3rd girl 6mths.

Did they find out? No

Are you still with them? No

And most importantly, how did you feel about it? I was on cloud 9 getting filthy, naughty sex the way I liked it, from women that were so lonely in their marriages.

Did you feel guilty? Back then, not really. Now a days,..yes. Forever yes.

 

never

 

Yes I Did!

I have no regrets, I waited one and a half years to become sexually active with my virgin bride (she had to be married to the man she made love with) 6 months after marriage she said to me that we were having too much sex (Hindsight: 6 days a week, sometimes twice in a day may have been a lot) but, the fact is I should've had a say or been able to discuss reasonable terms! Instead, I tried working within her limits (understanding her feelings) then she started putting it off this night moved to that night and that night wasn't right. She'd complain of headaches and that aches.........So she allowed me a short leash to fuck someone else 3 times in our relationship, like Pavlov's dog when things became to stressed at home I roamed! Accumulating mistresses (one at a time) and occasionally going to whorehouses I needed her to understand that I wouldn't be denied the one perk of marriage and believe me if I was being taken care of at home I wouldn't have roamed at all. We were married in 1986 and I cheated on and off till the last in 1998! That's when through intense discussions she finally realized that she could stop me by being available or let me go, we'restill together and happy 25 years married I don't need to cheat now!:excited:

 

No, but now I wish I had. Pay back is a bish.

 

Did i ever cheat on my wife?? totally depends on what you consider cheating. Only After marriage? or anytime once you're exclusive?

After marriage...NO !

before marriage, yes. It was with 2 guys. One time each. I was curious and she wasn't into the whole Bi thing. i couldn't ignore it any longer. She eventually found out years later and it broke us up after 11years.

I never cheated on her with another woman. No matter how i tried to convince her otherwise,but i guess once ou suspect it's hard to NOT believe you're right..especially for a woman.

 

Nope never done it when I was exclusive with a girl, when I was dating around I was with different girls but that is just dating.

Edit: I never will either, I think it is dirty and disgusting.

 

my wife walked out on me for another women . we were still legally married when i met other women . then a women wanted to dilly dally on her husband . we had fune for about three years and i am pretty sure her hubby knew about us . for wharever reason he did not make a fuss about it . right now she has kept her disatnce from me . no phone calls or e-mails from her . i expect that to change soon as her b'day and Christmas are drawing near and i am sure she expects something from me . i might send her a missletoe .:excited:

 

Nope, not yet. The only time I came close I ended the relationship I was in and then it all fell apart with the object of my desire. Cost a fucking fortune.

 

Depends on what you consider cheating. if you consider making out as cheating then yes i cheated while being married and before marriage. but if u don't consider that cheating then no i haven't cheated. i made out with one of my husband's friend because i thought my hubby cheated so i made out with another guy. i did not have sex with him though. i am with another girl, but my hubby gave me permission so that is not considered cheating since he knows. we have been married 8 years(once it hits December).

 

yes

 

Not yet. right now its been 2 months since we've had sex. she hasn't participated in sex in about a year. (she usually just lays there and doesnt want to do anything). here lately her favorite excuse is, "You have the worse timing", its either too late, too early, this, and that. So yeah im frustrated to say the least. I've never cheated on anyone, and I really wouldnt know where to start.
If Brothels were legal where i live I would be set!

 

The risk you take, eh?

 

No, I have never cheated. I've always looked at it as such a cowardly thing to do. But now, as much of my naivety is gone, I often find myself considering it. I know full and well I would be able to get away with it and I already have the man I would cheat with in mind. In my opinion, regardless of if I go through with it or not, I have already cheated just by considering it, and sadly, I know there's no stopping the momentum of my actions at this point.

 

Sounds like you're just justifying it at this point, to be honest.

 

I'm not trying to justify it. It's wrong, I'm wrong. It's actually the first time I've acknowledged it and I guess I'm just trying to figure out why the hell I am willing to do it at all.