I have been secretly having sex with my mother-in-law since 2009. I'm so frustrated and don't know what to do, because recently she'll go months without having sex with me and then out the blue she'll say/do something to tease me & lead me on to believe she wants to have sex again. I ALWAYS take the bait and try to have sex with her the first chance I get and she'll let me...most of the time. My problem is those other times when I make a move on her, she'll act like ”what the heck are you doing?” Like the other night, I walk into her room and ask her may I borrow something. She gives me that naughty look and says ”sure...but it'll COST you” We both quietly laughed cause we both knew what she was talking about. So, that same night when everybody is asleep, I creep my way to her room and make a move on her, how it usually happens. She begins to act like she doesn't want it at all and I leave the room feeling dumb. At first we were having sex a couple times a week, but this year she's been gradually cutting back, ALOT. I'm beginning to think she wants end our ”friends with benefits” relationship. What do you all think?

 

Went thru that too. She could just be feeling lil guilty now but still feel the need to be wanted hence the teasing. Just about every female wants to feel wanted just a matter of how far they take it. Good like it may come back but try talk to her bout stuff and if u get a chance at it again change it up make it more exciting

 

I have tried that. All she'll say is that she feels guilty and thinks she is a horrible mom, BUT she'll still come onto me. That's the frustrating part. It's like she doesn't know what she wants. I'm only giving her the attention that she doesn't get from her jerk husband.

 

good to see you get a long very well with your mother in law

 

Oh she's told me that she feels guilty, but she shouldn't. I'm the one that first came onto her cause she wasn't getting any attention from her husband. How do you suggest I change it up to make it more exciting?

 

Thanks

 

it takes two to do the tango

 

The only thing that surprises me about this is that she hasn't told her daughter about it. She's got a lot of leverage here, and one of these days she's going to use it. And when she does, your life is going to take a major turn for the worse.

 

I agree

 

[QUOTE=I think u should let it go. Instead of two ppl getting hurt it will be only one. And that's u. Not u n your dad.

 

Well, I agree with her! From my point of view, she really is a horrible mom!

Whatever her "jerk husband" does, or doesn't, she can find a thousand dicks apart from the dick that's (supposed to be) fucking her daughter!

If you get caught, threre will be four people hurt - your wife, your mother in law, your father in law and yourself...

 

She wouldn't dare. She knows I know about her having sex with her husband's brother, her step dad, co workers, etc.

 

Blackmail?

Could I possibly use what I know to my advantage? Like threaten to anonymously tell her husband that she's slept with his brother and tell her mom that she's slept with her stepdad if she breaks our ”friends with benefits” relationship off?

 

I don't know dude. Threatening her could tip the scales against you. But if she tells, she screw you. You shouldn't have done it in the first place and you wouldn't have to worry about it. I'd just wait and see. She knows how much is at stake with her life. Maybe she wants to settle things down but just trying to do so slowly?

 

I'd hate to be in this situation, knowing that every day I go to work and whatever money I manage to make and save will eventually go to my wife in a big fat divorce lawsuit.

 

When or if?, yes, this is what I was thinking, as well as if this could be some kind of `test'.

 

A great uncle of mine, who is in his 80's, just recently started losing his memory, and it slipped out that when he was stationed in the Philippines he had a Philippina wife and fathered 4 kids. You can imagine my great aunt's reaction

Anyway, I'm sharing this little story with you because down the road, this woman you are fucking is going to, on a long enough timeline, end up in a nursing home, possibly with dementia or schizonphrenia or any number of old-age related ailments ... THAT is when your marriage is going to take a nose dive, even if you THINK everyone is on the same page today. My own mother became progressively schizophrenic, over the last 20 years, and I ended up putting her in a nursing home. It was in that time, I learned who she cheated on my dad with. I'm not trying to spook you, but DUDE this is a doomed scenario. I'd almost think the BEST thing for you to do is stage down your marriage and divorce for "irreconcilable differences"; at least you'd get an even shake in front of a judge. If you wait until SHE reveals all, your ass will be hung out to dry.

 

Your Fucking With Fire!

If you have any love for your wife, your fucking too close to home will fucking devastate her and remember it'll be your word against her mother who says you seduced her. Believe me she won't believe you!
Just Saying, Think!

 

Cut it off, fucking your mother in law is just sick anyway. I mean you're going into the vagina in which your partner came out of. That's some redneck shit right there.

 

TAKE