How do you judge how good a blow job is? Is it just an issue of whether or not they make you cum, or is it something more? Can someone make you cum with a blow job but you still think it was so-so?

 

I heard this on the Don Imus Show maybe 12-15 years ago--he asked his brother Fred, "What's the biggest turn-on for guys?" Fred's answer, "Oral sex."

Don--"What's the biggest turn-off?" Fred--"No oral sex."

At the time I thought that said it all and I still do. Some women are better at oral sex but I've never had "bad" oral.

 

IMO there is such thing as a so-so blowjob even if you cum. It's how into it you are.

 

It's much more for me. Starting with the idea that my partner is not totally responsible for my orgasm(s) or ejaculation(s). I've had some spectacular blow jobs that meandered all over the place for long periods of time, but never ended in a pop shot. I've had outstanding blow jobs that took about 2 minutes and ended in a hot, sticky mess.

For me, a good blow job starts with a partner that is into the act. They have to be in the moment, let go of the inhibitions, worship that cock and really enjoy themselves. Next most important would be technique, followed by the feeling of satisfaction I experienced when we were done (whether or not a load of jizz was involved).

 

As others have said...

but from me in a word...


ENTHUSIASM :excited:

 

there is so-so bjs, just because you can make a guy cum during oral doesn't mean it was great. Sometimes the person giving head loses rythem when are cumming or about to cum and it just doesn't give off that great feeling like the person that knows how to work it

 

I've never had a bad bj experience obviously some are better than others but never one that I can say "I didn't enjoy it" , but I have heard a few horror stories from a few of my m8s when we were still in high school, like the girl scraping most of the time with her teeth leaving the skin rawr and accidentally scratching with braces. But personally I'd prolly say the bottom one of my list was a chick who had only been with 1 guy and when she went down on me, she was enthusiastic about it but wasnt really sucking just kind of bobbing her head up and down and ofcourse the occasional scrape but... it was still hot, just could've been a bit better.

Flat out ladies. As long as you're into it, and you show that you're enjoying doing it maybe look up at us every now and then... You will have a satisfied man on your hands everytime. I think of it like sex. none of us want a dead fish in the sack... if you're jsut sucking and showing no enthusiasm what so ever, sure we'll still cum, but it won't be anything close to what it couldve have bin.

 

Blow jobs are like pizza, some are better then others, but they are all good!

 

If your partner is receptive to the nonverbal clues that you're about to come, can stave off the inevitable without pulling away and makes you want to blow your load against your strongest will not to, that is the sign of a decent technique. But that isn't all a blow job involves.

It also depends on who is there working you over
Sometimes, that is the only thing that matters.

 

Black girls with very thick lips give the best bjs I have experienced.

Also mouth temperature is important factor.

To me personally the sluttier and more splicit my partner gets the bigger the turn on.

 

Blowjobs

anytime a guy gets his dick sucked is a good thing, how the blowjob is performed is a different story. I have received blowjobs where I have had an orgasam as a result of a job well done, and I have had blowjobs where I would lend some support just to get it over with. If women swallow cum, its a real turn on, too many times women will not do it and thats just wrong. But men should return the favor of oral sex to their partner. The cleaner the pussy the better.

 

A great blow job has to have these things:

1) The girls is into doing it.

2) They can sense your sweet spot and works to stretch out the pleasure

3) Really works her tongue on you.

4) Not cum phobic

 

For Me?

A blowjob is a great beginning but, I've only enjoyed it as a prelude to something better and more complete. Out of the 16 women I've had sex with only three have been successful at getting me to cum (with no help from me) and a few the blowjob was anti-climactic. Unlike my male counterparts I don't believe blowjobs are the be all to end all I much more prefer to eat pussy to stimulate my cock!:excited:

 

Do BJ's rate? Hmmm?

Thats a very good question and there is definitely such a thing as a bad one. I've had good and I've had bad ones. They can be too quick, Toothy as well as too confining. All in all even these I've mentioned can still be called either way. I guess the real quality aspect of a BJ is for the biggest part, How into the sucking of my cock the cocksucker is. Do I doubt in the slightest at all that they are not immensly enjoying what they are doing? Well I for one wanna be truthful here so I'm going to have say Having an orgasm or rather blowing my load could not be considered to be a fair indicator of the quality of felatio. I really love the feeling of having my hard cock surrounded by a warm wet mouth for long periods at a time. If I am made to believe this act is being genuinely enjoyed and gotten into then I'm going to rate it as being anywhere from very good to excellent and visa versa If I don't feel as if they enjoy doing it I'm still able to achieve an ejaculation however I may very well not feel at all satisfied and would then have to rate it anywhere from so so to bad with poor execution and dismount. other than that a blow job is a blow job is a blowjob, I'd consider any proposition to perform felatio on me. be the perpetrator Female or possibly even a Male, I would on this point mention that any accepted cocksuckers gender would matter little to not at all!..

 

How good it feels.

I much prefer intercourse, so a good bj is one that I want to continue instead of stopping to start fucking.

 

Stimulation tool???

Isn't it an absolute, a universal constant a given or even a gimme that the taste or feeling or just smell of a disease free clean wet sloppy pussy is the ultimate stimmulation? I'm going to have to disagree however with you about fact that it is merely a step in the progression to vaginal penetration. There are other variables to be considered, Such as Cunnilingus is considered to be a delicacy by both M & F alike. I've met women who have absolutely no desire whatsoever to be penetrated but more importantly for them, the sucking of a mans cock is their main objective it is not always a buffet all three act qualify as a main dish. I'm just saying this is my POV.

 

QQuestion about blow jobs

Anytime someone wraps their lips around my cock and gives me a bj I'm grateful!!! What separates good from WOW is the amount of enthusiasm the provider puts into it and their fondness for... or lack of... for my cum. When my cock gets worked with enthusiasm by someone that wants my cum...regardless of whether i cum or not...am in heaven

 

A good blowjob doesent mean you have to make him cum. Such hard, go deep and use your hand a bit. That should have any man howling.

 

For me at least it has to do with the willingness of the person, wnthusiasm is key. I quite like lots of noise and apprication ( yeah I know massage my ego even if Im not hung like John Holmes) I like my balls being played with and sucked too.

 

I've definitely had a bad blowjob lol, basically, watch the teeth, unless u have a guy that likes it, but usually no teeth, use the tongue, and throw a hand in once in a while lol