Nice girls (well, ALL girls) should finish first. At least twice (maybe 3 times) before the guy finishes.

Seriously, Maggie, keep the faith.

 

Sweetmaggy, be urself and love it. Life is way to fucking short to dance with the "fat guy" at the party all the time. Do what feels good, if it doesn't then don't waste ur time. It's way to valuable to throw away. Be a nice girl when u want and a lil devil when the mood suits u. Have fun with life. Don't we all deserve it? (if ur the "fat guy" no harm was meant, just a saying and I've had lots of fun with u 2)

 

I think everyone has a lil inner demon in them, some just more than others. But I do agree that life is too short, be yourself and enjoy all that life has to offer....Both naughty and nice.

 

I think that applies to women as well about not knowing what they want.

 

that is assault. There were probably no witnesses and it doesn't sound like he did enough to leave any marks so pressing charges would be difficult. A guy like that either has or probably will rape a girl.

I suggest getting mace and putting it on your key ring. if it happens again, mace the guy, then kick him in the nuts.

there are plenty of guys out there, that don't expect to get laid by a woman the first time you meet her.

 

he just all jelly cuase u wouldnt touch his meat, dont give up nice girls do get the guy in the end just stay as you are

 

I don't think u want to be bad...i think u want a satisfying relationship...those last longer and r far more satisfying

 

i wish i was younger and closer maggie, i love sweet girls, and we would be running around getting our groove on.
kisses sweet heart
i thought you could use a hug

 

Well, just look at it as a learning experience and be really glad it didn't turn into a date rape.

That being said, now maybe you see that "bad" girls may get more attention, but some of it will be attention they don't want from guys they don't want. You may be a banana and it seems like everybody likes strawberries better, but no matter how hard you try to be like a strawberry, you're still a banana. It's better to be the best YOU you can be. Figure out what your positives are and accentuate them. That way SOMEDAY you'll find a guy that likes you for what you are and not for what you aren't.

Don't rely solely on going out and parties to meet guys. I know it works for some people, but I'm more of the "girl next door" type and in my almost 40 years of dating I have NEVER had a relationship with a guy I met at night, under the influence of alcohol.

How have I met my boyfriends

A guy I carpooled with
A guy that was a high school friend of my college roommate
A guy that lived in my apartment building
A guy that was in a college organization I was in
A guy I worked with at a part time job
A guy that I met volunteering
A guy I met through a personal ad
A guy I met in a chat room
A guy I met through a dating website
A guy I met through a different dating website
A guy I met through Meetup.com group

Increase the flow of people in your life. Develop your interests, especially interests that guys might share. It's great if you like to knit, but you aren't going to meet guys that way. But if you like to hike, you just might. My brother met his wife through a Meetup.com group. The great thing about that is that you meet people that share common interests, men and women, from all walks of life.

 

:laughing:

me and him are no longer friends/ a mutual friend called to tell me he had said that i was the one that wanted to be with him but that he didnt want to be with me/ we both cudnt stop laughing< hes a fucking joke> he said not to tell him anything but thank god he knows me well enough to know it sounds nothing like me

 

thanks hun!

 

your right !

 

awwww thats sooo cute thanks so much hun.. i love it

 

Maggy, just be you, but do not let others walk all over you either. One bit of advice though, if you go out acting like you are looking for trouble or sex, it WILL go out of its way to find you. I would hate for you to get hurt.

 

Can't you let yourself be both?

Be the good girl you feel you are, the nice girl. Sweet and innocent is a pretty sure-fire way to melt a decent guy's heart. The ones who want your pussy but not your phone number won't be attracted in the first place, which isn't a bad thing.

Nice guys are out there. There ARE some guys who will love you for being a nice girl. You two can be naughty in the bedroom. There's no law saying that a nice, good girl can't fuck a guy's brains out.

 

I know we don't life in an ideal world but I have to disagree. Put the problem were it belongs..at the guys feet...it had nothing to do with the way she dressed or behaved...
It was the guy being a complete douche...Of all the guys that were there that night, who looked at maggy and thought, now that is one fine looking woman, that is all they done, the looked, they admired..maybe had a little fantasy about what they would like to do....mmm fantasy, Maggy, me....oops, getting sidetracked there......This wouldnt be the first time the guy has done this and it won't be the last...and it wouldnt matter what the girl said or was wearing, he would try and take advantage....

 

it was definitly a learning experience... i wasnt drunk only had 3 beers he was a friend, i never expected him to act like a fucking animal... he had expressed interest in me from the first moment we met but i am very picky or should i say cautious when it comes to relationships and who i open myself too...anyways thanks for the idea, ill check it out see what happens

 

really?? you fantasize about me??:excitedh hun your trying to be nice to me

he had asked me before, why i wouldnt date him, i told him that hes to used to having whores around/ easy sluts, who give it up no questions asked just because he has money... thats not a way to find meaningful relationship

 

D'oh......um, yes i do young lady....as for the DOUCHE,, like many men he is showing his immaturity, unfortunately you cannot tell the maturity of man by his age.
I was in my early 20,s before I realised what a douche I was being. It took a woman i really liked, to point out how i was behaving and how offensive it was to women..

 

see money doesnt buy everything he will learn in time charma is a bish may not be now may not be in the near future but he will be the one being pinned down and manhandled