Beware! Be warned! More and more women are enjoying porn. Oh, for all those young men, older men, be alert, women who go on porn sites, have thoughts about sex and sometimes lots of them – just remember, they are probably sex addicts!


That’s the latest theory it seems from Dr Patrick Carnes, Executive Director of the Gentle Path program at Pine Grove Behavioral Center in Hattiesburg and an expert in sexual behavior.


In figuring out what defines someone who is a sex addict it was reported: a woman “who experience ‘recurrent and intense’ sexual fantasies, urges and behaviour for at least six months who also exhibit four or more of five criteria that include spending “excessive time” thinking about sex and engaging in these “fantasies, urges and behaviour”” was reported in the National Post.



I'm not sure how other women who look at porn and really enjoy sex feel about this, but from my point of view, yes I've begun to look at porn, yes I love sex... what's the problem?


It seems like just another, yawn, yawn, attempt to quickly label women who enjoy porn or love sex as something negative? What’s more yes, it seems women are beginning to become increasingly interested in porn, in discovering sex online, offline and in the bushes.


Maybe, just maybe that's great!



Shouldn’t we be encouraging this trend, say ‘yes to sexual freedom and exploration’ rather than wrapping it alongside derogatory labels that ho hum, try to link women and sex as something wrong.



Don't know, maybe I'm wrong.


Harriet

 

I watch porn, fantasie all the time, masturbate ever chance I get, I don't consider myself a sex addict, just a normal young girl.

 

WOW! What a disaster!!!

Look at the last "en vogue" Brasilian dancing moves!
They are not naked, but, in rest...

All the TV stations (excepting the religious ones) show LOTS of things with sexual connotation.

Every newspaper, magazine, advertisement, tends, in enormous percentage to involve sex!...

Not earlier than yesterday evening, a friend of mine who's younger kid is a daughter, was telling me that practically, if he would want to avoid letting her daughter see young ladies more than half naked at the TV, would have to... simply cut off the TV cable!

So, it seems that sex sells the merchandise - and for the money, the vendors will do ANYTHING! :wall:

At my age, I can still remember that theree were times when a young lady couldn't afford to go out in public with a skirt that wouldn't cover AT LEAST half of her knees...

Now, as far as I know, there have always been people with a stronger sex drive than others.

Socially speaking, although there have been reported some cases, the women usually don't rape, they are raped, so I, as a man, don't really feel endangered!...

And, last but not least - the gentleman you've mentioned needs to earn some money - his job, as you've perfectly described, is to make some comments...
Otherwise, he may just lose his job!

 

...and this is.....supposed to be......a bad thing?

 

but then - what's wrong with being a sex addict ??? Just wish hubby was home to meet the demand

 

I honestly don't know what the fuss is all about..

 

ditto!!

 

There is nothing wrong with girls being addicted or just having some fun I welcome it all the time

 

i just had to say this because it is the truth, some women don't get the love and attention they deserve, it may not be right, but even the faithful wife or girlfriend, use porn, cam. and chatting to fill that need. rather than having an affair. i have talked to several woman here with that exact problem. i feel bad for doing some of the things i have done here, but i also know it helps them get through the day. and it has made me feel like i am wanted, something we were both looking for, if there desires were taken care of i don't believe they would be here. some are sex addicts. but i feel most are just here to fulfill a need.
the smiley face is significant to someone special not for the way i feel.

rexx is out.

 

Very true. I have some female friends that are comfortable enough with me and with their sex life to talk about it... and while they talk about how their man treats them in bed as if it's perfectly normal... God, I just wish they could spend one night with me and see what sex can actually be like.

 

You gotta make a move eventually!!!
I had some female friends just like that,...and eventually it happened for us.
Go for it

 

Sorry, but the great achievement isn't what you do sexually during one night, but what you do with your partner after 20+ years of marriage!

 

Nah, these girls have both been with their men for 5+ years, live with them, probably gonna marry them. Making a move would just lose me a good friend.

<i>Sorry, but the great achievement isn't what you do sexually during one night, but what you do with your partner after 20+ years of marriage!</i>

I know that. I was just making a point. And you have to have a partner for one night before you can have one for one week or one year or 20 years.

 

Ok I'll keep this short sweet to the point. I'm all for sexual exploration, and freedom for both genders. With that said Ladies and Gents happy freak hunting.

 

its funny, they say "addicted" to sex like its a bad thing...yet if most of them met one of the supposed "addicted" women, they'd probably change their arguement completely.

i would say that nearly every woman on this site (myself included), very much enjoy the pleasure that it all brings and its not like we couldn't stop...but why would you want to???

 

*shrug* I thought it was common knowledge...

 

What's wrong with women liking pornography? This seems like those people scared because a comfort zone is being "threatened"... like a church when gay marriage is allowed

 

if women that enjoy porn, and are expressive with their sexual tates is concidered addicts then call me addicted to the addicts...if that makes any sense.

 

So in his opinion, it's fine for men to be sex addicts but not for women?

 

Your Right Harriet and It Is Your Right!

Sexual addiction is not the simple act of thinking about sex too often or doing it too often more? That you would act indiscriminately without thought for the care and well being of the other or others, to the point that only your pleasure matters over even your lover(s) satisfaction. Addiction is a selfish act of indulgence not an overwhelming thought, feeling, or any one singular act even, done many times throughout the course of a short period of time. Think of a woman who goes to work pays her bills with several men at the ready who knows she's not exclusive to them,just sex! Everyone plays safe and who knows maybe one of the guys likes her to be fucked before they eat her. In this scenario any woman is just adventurous not a slut or a whore and not an addict, I will admit of course "THAT I'D LIKE TO MEET HER!":excited: