thanks! haha :excited:

Well I think it's just their dumb theory because women are finally saying what they like and now that men can't control our sexuality, they call us sex addicts.

 

In all seriousness I think women that can be open about what they like and dislike sexually to be refreshing....and cuts out alot of bullshit guessing games

 

I think they need to work on their definitions.

After spending a long time working closely with a vast group of other women who are comfortable sharing very intimate details with each other, I discovered that despite all the hubub about women and low sex drives was really and truly bull. I thought my personal drive was merely abnormally high, and it turns out, most girls my age (20-30) DO have high drives, but are one way or another too inhibited, or otherwise unable to be free in their sexuality.

Saying we're addicted to sex simply because we enjoy as much as men is utter malarky.

 

What I find is people jump too conclusions far too often. When I was single, yes I got around...and then around again. I don't do drugs, I don't drink, I worked 11 PM to 8 AM, but it was quite likely that I'd have sex somewhere between 4 to 6 times in a week, those were my pick-ups. I also had four men that knew I was fucking other guys, who I saw regularly. That's another 4 times a week, if I didn't spend the day there during thier days off. Not a whole lot of time for sleep, I know, but I loved it. I was careful, I used protection, was on birth control and I didn't lie to anyone. Strangely enough, I can go from that to a relationship where it's a mandatory 6 month celibacy out of a year due to not being with him. (going through immigration atm, and that's my legal time).
People have called me a sex addict, but could an addict really go from one extreme to the other? I just figure I have a high sex drive, and am comfortable with men approaching me, I don't feel the need for every sexual encounter to be "THE ONE".
The amount of men that can't accept a woman who is comfortable with her body, and it's needs, is amazing.

 

Just another lonely sad man trying to put chains and shame on women who enjoy sexual things.

 

Personally, I think the guy is nuts. This site is a godsend in a way. It's a way for me to meet (only online so far, but hey, hope springs eternal) women who can celebrate their sexuality. My first marriage was a disaster because while I got along with my wife outside of the bedroom, she was very uptight sexually, and it eventually grew into a wall that separated us. With a site like this, you can get the sexual stuff out of the way, and then move on to more important things.

Someone, please, go kick that guy in the balls, ok?

 

Your siggy.... "Slut = woman with the morals of a man" is ideal for this thread.

 

They may mean it pejoratively, but I tend not to take it that way. If a sex addict is a woman who loves to fuck, and needs to be fucked on a regular basis, count me in. I don't really mind if they call me a slut, either.

 

Personally, as a man, I have always have had this problem!

If a woman likes to have sex, than she, "automatically" is a slut!

Now, what about me, who's had sex with so many women and so many times?!?

And, honestly, I really am a reliable and respectable citizen...

 

Uhhh.. Is this bad?

 

I'm not sure if you are asking about the slut label...

Anyway, if this is the question, here is the answer:

In the "retarded" society where I live, if a woman is considered a slut, she will surely be oftenly invited to spread her legs...

The problem is that her chances to be asked for marriage are very close to zero...

 

I meant being a sex addic

 

Oh for the love of all that is Good. Did not the Good Lord tell them to go forth and multiply???? Was not SEX the way they did it????

Well then Porn is just as good for women as it is for men...I love watching as well as doing hehehehehe....I find a go at rp/cam can make my time in bed with my husband more interesting...as well vice versa! Believe me we watch Porn together. That guy is WAY Uptight!

 

PC Balderdash!

They used to label women who were comfortable with their sexuality as sluts.
Now they label women who are comfortable with their sexuality sex addicts.

If a woman is giving gloryhole blowjobs to strangers every couple of nights (only meant as an illustration to make a point) or if she can't carry out normal daily activities because she is so obsessed with sex, then I may agree there is an addiction.

If on the other hand she knows what she enjoys and enjoys it in a healthy manner I say she is simply self actualized.
As far as I'm concerned in these type cases "sexual addict" is simply the politicaly correct way to say slut, or whore, or whatever else you care to fill in the blank with.

 

When I come in contact with women on porn sites, I definitely run, right into her bedroom so I can fuck the hell out of her as many times as I can. There is nothing better than having sex with a sex addicted female; feeling her wet mouth and pussy wrapped around my cock, urging me to cum in her over and over...

 

um cum in me over and over...

 

After seeing that cute little ass of yours, I have a feeling I would be cumming in you for weeks

 

Women addicted to sex? So am I.

 

Women porn addicts....and the problem is? Am I missing something here, or was this simply a reason for us to scream from a mountain "THANK YOU GOD!"

huh.....weirdo

 

I gave up on these "studies" when one was actually funded to try and find if it was true that a dropped piece of buttered toast fell face up or face down more often......

People in certain fields gain status from publishing things, and it seems not to matter what you publish as long as it has your name on it.

No one has to agree, your methods can have more holes than swiss cheese and your conclusions debunked by a thousand critics. Its published so hurray for the author.

And in this case who defines terms like excessive? to my flatmate more than 15mins of tv a day is excessive god knows what she would class as excessive thoughts on sex , for all I know she thinks of it more than I do.

I can't see it can be classified anything if your life is not impacted adversely by it in some way. Missing sleep or work or socialising away from the net etc. I may have excessive thoughts about sex compared to the auther but then again I'm a young woman who has left a conservative upbringing to a modern university, I'm am not a 50 year old married phych with 3 kids who has been having sex with the same person for over 25 years and thinks the highight of the sexual calander for 2011 was doing it outside the bedroom one afternoon when the kids were at Granmas.