I'm a husband that has become a cocksucker and I'm wondering about others that have done the same.

--Why or how did you start?

I started when my wife lost interest in sex. I asked, waited, begged then gave up hope of things changing.
At first I just went to ABStore gloryholes and got a BJ every 3 or 4 months. Wasn't long before I was giving them.

--Does your wife have any idea, if not how do you work it out to be able to suck cock?

Mine should have an idea, since I've told her more than a few times I'd like to try it since we were not having sex and I needed relief. But I think she thought I was just talking. I have never said, 'I suck cock" and I think she'd rather not know for sure. She actuallly said one time after I brought it up, "if you do I don't want to know about it."
My way of hooking up now is sites like Adam4Adam, Manhunt, SilverDaddies (I'm 58 ) and Craigslist.

--Anyone tried it and didn't like it? Any of you 'confirmed' cocksuckers that know they will always suck cock now.

I like it more and more and suck more cock every year. Don't have any plans to quit. I hope to find a similar situation guy, close enough to always have a cock to suck.

--Do you have a regular suck buddy?

I sort of do, we live about 50 miles apart and can only manage to get together about 3 or 4 times a year. We are both in sexless marriages and I trust him but there is always a little doubt.

--Do you swallow?

I didn't for a lot of years but as I've gotten to know a few guys that are semi-regular I swallow them. I like the taste of cum and part of the turn on for me is the taboo & kinky part of eating another man's cum.

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Part of the reason for posting this thread is because I feel more like I'm not this freak/pervert the more I see other married guys deciding to become cocksuckers. Partly, as a way of being more aware and informed about how others work out a way to handle their desires. Hopefully without any or few negatives.

 

Does that mean autofellatio (sucking your own cock) or that of other guys?
Did try autofellatio when I was younger and more supple, but never with another guy.

 

You are a lucky man Hank! :excited:

 

My first one was when I was 19. I just always had the urge and it was a favorite fantasy. As I have become older and no longer do my homework, I have become very interested in sucking cock. I started for real about 3 years ago and really enjoy giving nice cleancut guys head.

 

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My marriage is sexless too and more and more I am considering going for the cock. I haven't found the right cock to suck but I'm looking more and more.

 

My mariage is sexless too. Sent you a PM if you could read it.

 

My marriage is quite opposite. We are making love every chance we can. And my wife knows i am bi, so is she. I had been curious for a while, one day we were talking and i asked some questions about what it was like to take a cock in your mouth, the taste of cum, etc. She wanted a MMF, so we killed two birds with one stone. She told the guy to 69 me while she was cleaning up all the cum inside her, he laid opposite of me and began sucking on me. The moment was relaxing and no pressure for me to do anything. I had wanted this for so long, i leaned to my side, cupped his ass cheek, and rolled his soft cock in my mouth and felt it grow. It was everything i dreamed it would be. I have been doing it ever since.

 

My marriage has become sexless. I have been curious about sucking cock. I would like to find a TV/TS and suck their cock.

 

Trannies and crossdressers are all i look for. I personally get turned on by a man in drag. My wife enjoys it too but she is more turned on when the man gets naked. Fun for both of us!

 

I like watching my hubby suck other guys!! I think its so hot to watch him.....

 

my story is almost identical to ncbymails' my wife has never been into sex so I started looking elsewhere, had a few affairs but I fell deeply in love with one and still love her to this day though we haven't seen each other for years. any way, my wife will not give oral so I just wondered what it was like so I found a guy on craigslist and tried it, it wasn't so bad, don't mind doing it but I can't swallow. I like to try to take it all the way in so I've only tried a couple times with guys with 6" or smaller cock. last time I did it the guy must have been really sex starved because he came in less than 2 minutes, or maybe I'm better than I thought? I much much rather be sucking on a clit and sticking my tongue deep in a pussy but you take what you can get. My wife or nobody has any idea by the way.

 

Well it really is a shame.....

It's a shame in that so many women now a days actually drive their men to cheat. Years past and still today in other cultures, if a wife didn't want it tough titty, do your duty even if push comes to shove. Not saying that is right either, yet in western civilizations as women have demanded their equality, they have abused it, not really wanting equality but power, and to that end in that sex is the absolute weapon of women, sadly way over use it to punish, hurt, and dominate the relationship.

Don't get me wrong, if a woman doesn't want sex, fine....Enough times and enough reasons though true or not, there comes a point where it is nothing short of cruel, and where if she was half a woman would give her blessing for him to look elsewhere.......Now I realize I've not been brought up with the reasons and logic of women. Frankly however when I'm feeling out of sorts (say sick or whatever), I'm proud to say my husband never goes wanting and will even find those I arrange almost thrust upon him as him being happy due to me is much more important then some insecurity.


All that said and out of the way....

Frankly I don't buy into gay sex being JUST a replacement for lack of a wifes attentions. Don't get me wrong, I have even known straight men to 'live' as gay assuming themselves to be gay simply due to the easy access to sex......However, in that there are countless outlets to straight sex for men, to say gay sex is the option of choice hints at a bit more.....There is nothing wrong with that, that's fine, but let's call a spade a spade.

Furthermore, I find it sad so many men and women live so many lies. Lies that they want to be in X relationship, feel forced to be whatever. All things end up for the best and if the magic isn't there time to commit (hence divorce) and go find it elsewhere....be it straight, bi or gay....but be true to yourself as you're cheating yourself not just cheating on your spouse of a full life otherwise.

Hush.......an alias

 

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is a turn on for me. I've seen two men suck each other while I was jerking off at a swing club pary. HOT!

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Eventho I am happily married I had some encounters with guys. My wife doesn't know. I wish I cud tell her but I kno she wudnt agree to it. My encounters hav been very hot. I keep an eye out for laid back guys for casual fun.....

 

Sucking cock is gay and thats a no no for big ray. Now on your knees boys and girls and practice the art of oral sex on ol' ray, lovely

 

I am married but separated, among the problems with my marriage was my wife's lack of interest in sex. As has been said here, I would prefer to eat pussy but you go for what you can get. The women that I have had sex with have always wanted relationships; with all of the emotional complications. Men don't turn me on but their interest in sex for sex's sake makes them available. However, I don't want cooties so I don't have a current male lover but am looking. I had a guy friend but his job took him out of town. We started out just watching porn together but then we started jerking each other off. Before too long I started sucking his cock and loved it. I never got into swallowing but he swallowed me. I am looking for another friend...

 

I am in a similar situation.My wife has stopped having sex pretty much. I like to watch guy's on cam jerking off. They have to have a large cock and must be shaved. I am getting the urge to have one to play with. Bi feelings?

 

Im in your exact situation. My wife has no interest in sex and my sex drive is still high. I finally met a guy on craigslist and gave my first bj. i really enjoyed it as well as getting blown. Would like to find other married guys like me to help each other out.

 

a little different maybe.
I've known Tgurls/trannies most all my life , and some years ago spent a night with a lovely real 'lady with a cock'. That was the first I sucked , and to her's and my surprise she came , yes in my mouth and yes I swallowed. Went with several other shemales , then one threesome with a fun lady slut, the guy was bi and after sveral hours of doing her , she asked me if he could suck me so she could watch.
Of course , and soon were both at my cock n balls. Then , "will you fuck him so I can watch". OK , and she wanted to see lots of penitrations, spread his cheeks to get a better look , guided me in while I spread him, jerked me into him and so on [all doggy]. After many repeated entries I just hammered into him till I blew. She was over the moon , he was fukd and went home and we carried on . My first mm.
Since , been with a number of shemales, all like to be sucked and fucked , all liked sucking me and some fucked me. So my first few cocks up the arse were shemales that wanted to.
Then got a lady wanted to watch her hubby suck a cock, sure , so he did mine , then, "I want to watch him take a cock up his arse" , so I fucked him. Wow , what a night that turned out. the best threesome I ever had with a couple, and longest.
Since have found it's quite a common fantasy for wives , so have done a few other husbands , and been done by several.
Another bi couple to meet in a couple of weeks , no guarantees of course , just have t wait n see.
Stayed four days with a shemale friend over the ski season, a couple of nights with another before xmas and again recently.
Have absolutely no interest in crossdressers or men on thier own , or kissing or cudleing, just shemales and fun in mixed company IF it suits , so I'm very selectively bi.
But it certainly never had anything to do with 'not getting it' or 'rejection' or anything like that. Was just a natural progression of being very sexually open minded , uninhibited and adventurous , and liveing a very interesting and varied life.