Glad to know it

I knew there were plenty of guys that were sucking cock on the side. A lot of us just had to move on when the wife stopped fucking. I do wonder why some men have affairs with women and some choose sex with men?

I had a couple of one night stands with women after 2 years of waiting on the wife to get her groove back. After a few of those and all the drama that came with them I started getting BJs from other guys. I quickly moved on to mutual sucking.

Now I mostly just suck cock. The main reason for that is age and it's not as easy to get hard in these quick, looking over my shoulder and not totally focused situations that cocksucking can be sometimes.

I know I'm leaving myself open for criticism here...but sex with a women feels more like cheating on my wife to me. I love her but I'm not getting my needs met sexually so I choose to get it elsewhere. Not an ideal situation but it is the way I worked it out when I had to find some relief.

Not too many of you guys responded to other parts of my post..I'd really like to know how you feel about these other question...

--Does your wife have any idea, if not how do you work it out to be able to suck cock?

--Anyone tried it and didn't like it? Any of you 'confirmed' cocksuckers that know they will always suck cock now?

--Do you have a regular suck buddy?

--Do you swallow?

Thanks!

 

I became a cocksucker very close to the time of the breakdown of my marriage to my ex-wife....










At least that's what she called me before walking out the door.


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i have a gf, we have a great sex life. i would love to suck a cock with her someday.

 

And yes you are BI,....
LOL sorry guy, I had to say it just cuzz

 

I started sucking cock at forty and thanks to my bi wife for helping me admit that I love cock and pussy

 

you do not become because of his wife sucks cocks.
cocksucking is born!
Perhaps your desire was for a long time hidden.
I am bisexual and always when I think a blowjob to my pleasure and not the faults of others

 

I would rather suck a woman's pussy.

 

I have to agree, it is very sad...

Life is a choice, everything in life is a choice, we each make our own choices and have to live with the choise we make. I have seen the research, done the research, and highly recommend everyone doing the research on their own. Sex is a gift and marriage is an even more special gift. One can choose to work on it or move on. I choose to take both of my gifts and treat them as such, very special and work very hard to keep them amazing! Though I come from a very loose background and even RP group sex to this day, I could never imagine cheating on my husband. And I certainly would find a way to fix things even spending all our money on help if need be, whatever it takes.

Love is as much of a choice as commitment, I am very commited to my marriage and my husband and our sex life. If I were not so committed. he'd drag my butt into couseling after couseling until we found what works for us. Oh and BTW there goes a wonderful argument for prenupts. We HAVE to do counseling for several years before we could divorce, it's in the prenupt. By that time I'd be so worn out I'd be like here do with me what you want... So I am glad I choose to love my husband no matter what through good and bad forever and as long as counseling lasts -

As for choosing to like penis - hey if it's your thing then it's your thing but it is a choice you make. I also do not buy into "my wife won't give me any so I want a guy." It is merely a choice one makes. Now I do get the attraction to a penis, that is in fact why I married my husband. I do sooooo love his penis. However, my husband would never look for a male if I were not putting out. He'd wack off or grab one of our toys and have at it, if it went even longer, he'd have a go or two or three with a few of our machines, and if I really hadn't out in a while, he'd jump on any one of our sex dolls and do them till he was raw. There are way to many other choices and going the man route is simply not one of them. Heck I only recently got him to take his own cum and he still won't let me do him with a strapon (thought I don't push the issue).

But back to the yummmy penis. As I wrote, I get that it is one nice piece of craftmanship. I don't have one but I sure do like'em so I get that others do as well, even guys. I also get that other men might be more available for sex that your wives. But even on an island of only men there are coconuts and bananas and they make for great sex! Now if I were on that island I'd be close to heaven. I'd have all those cocks for myself, unless all the darn men only wanted each other, oh well... oh yeah wait I STILL have my bananas!

 

I guess you could say that I started sucking cock when I was 13 years old. That was when I sucked my first adult cock. A police officer in my home town sucked my cock first, then asked me to return the favor! I did and was hooked on sucking cock at that moment! I ha already fucked my 15 year old cousin. So I knew that I loved fucking girls. I have been sucking cock since and love it!

 

I have been extremely sexual all my life and have always had an oral fixation. I have had several relationships where everything is just fine, we get along in every way, have the same tastes, likes and dislikes and are very compatible.......then when you commit, the sex stops. I married my wife 5 years ago and she would have sex with me at the drop of a hat, any time I wanted, any way I wanted. Once we were married, that all went away. I'm 64, been married before and had that happen before. Now I'm to old to get pissed off and leave. I started to leave once, had every intention of it, but went back when I realized I loved her more than I had ever loved anybody.
Tried counseling, when I told the guy she had quit after we got married, he asked me why I did not just jerk off!!! That was the end of the counseling.
Ok, I'll jerk off but I don't want to go without sex. When you are denied sex many times in a row, it is not your headache, stress, problems with the kids, money problems, it is something else. Is she showing me she is the boss or what?

I decided long ago that I would not go without sex if I wanted it. I know that finding a woman with whom you can have sex on a walk-in-walk-out basis is impossible. If I found one, there would always be the issue of her scent or some other clue. And I would feel like I just cheated on my wife.

So I decided I wanted to find a guy who would suck me as my investigation into Craigslist revealed that there was a large selection of men who would gladly suck me but no listings for "come on over and let me suck you" from women.

So I have done it many times over the last year. I find a guy, he sucks me and I leave. I also found that I like to return the favor. I really like 69 and trade-off sucking.

I'm not going to tell her, she would not understand. I really don't want to cheat but I am not going withuot sex.

 

Not married, but if I was cheating is cheating. I am bisexual but I could easily give up dong for the right woman, even more important, a family.

 

I haven't done it yet but I do want to touch a cock maybe suck it that is not mine.............................

 

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virgin mouth

What an understanding and loving wife you have!
I too am in a marriage that has grown sexless. Before our marriage we enjoyed a very active affair. I introduced her to cunalingous, and after 20 years of marriage she experienced her first orgasum. After licking her sweet juice I wanted to share the taste but was not encouraged to kiss. She does not know what she was missing. Sex was always passionate, but conservative.
I have never had the pleasure of pleasing another man, but have always enjoyed fantasising. My wife does not understand this need, and discretion in necessary. At some point I shall find the right partner.
S.

 

Boring sexless she's gotten fat gotta get off so? looking for a cock to suck and to get sucked 2

 

I wonder sometime how I got to love sucking cock so much. I am almost 60 and was in my early 50's when I started having sex with men. As my wife got less and less interested in sex I got more and more interested in M2M sex.
Now sucking cock, especially big cock is all I want to do. Every year I get a little more kinky. I didn't use to eat cum now I love it. Didn't use to rim, now getting my tongue up another man's asshole, even a sweaty funky hole turns me on.
One I got a taste of dick it was on. I still don't feel gay because I don't care to know or be involved with men except to have sex with them. I do kiss some men because swapping saliva and tongues with another man seems so taboo and kinky.
That is the hottest part of man to man sex to me, being kinky. doing taboo, nasty stuff with the same sex.

 

I suck cock because I love sex.I will fuck any male or female as long as there clean and not a asshole(my wife is more picky).

 

Errrrrr how are you going to f*** a male if "not a asshole" ???

LOL :excited: :wall: :razz:

So sorry but I couldn't resist, I know what you meant but when I first read it is sounded like "I will f*** males but not their assholes..." too funny, I was thinking is he going to creat a new one for them???

Ahhhh what a goofy moof you put me in

 

Any new married cocksuckers out there? I seem to like it and suck more cock every year. If this and other forums are any indicator there are lots of husbands that suck cock now.

 

I'm not one yet, but I have always had a latent interest in sucking a cock since an incident when I was a teen and I tried to suck my brother's cock then he sucked mine. That was over 30 years ago and as the sex in my marriage has decreased I have thought about finding a new partner to fulfill my desires to have sex. Initially the thoughts were towards finding a woman, but more recently the memories of the time with my brother have come back and I have seriously considered finding a guy to suck and be sucked by...