The idea of your bride being a pure woman seems so ancient, and yet, believe it or not it seems that men still do, in fact want to marry a virgin.

On the weekend the China Daily ran an article in which sociologists argued that men still today, attach an enormous amount of value on women who have not had premarital sex and are just as likely to devalued women based on their sexual experience.

Okay, so that's China! Well, its not only China it seems. In 2008 a survey was conducted of 57,000 Australian men in which almost one in three claimed they still wanted to marry a virgin.

So, that's men!

Alas, now it's time to pop that emergency Valium, as the Journal of Sex Research published a survey that found in the United States 61% of young women still wanted to be a virgin as they walk down the aisle. While the survey was conducted in 2001, you'd probably be able to make a safe guess that not much has changed.

 

lol where i live all men want to marry a virgin

but it does not matter that much to me

 

Reality

As many men want a virgin as women that want to be one but the reality is it really doesn't matter that much to either

We both like sex and will justify it and enjoy it

Are u a virgin?

 

i have to say i want a virgin but odds are it wont happen

 

I wouldn't want a virgin. I think it would cause issues with the women wondering about what other cocks are like. Just eliminate that and get a women who knows what she likes.

 

Well if we got to the stage of actualy wanting to marry I would have hoped that we would have already had sex. I cant imagine dating a woman who didnt want to have sex until she was married, fo lots of reasons not necessarily related soecifically to do with the act itself.

I personally would not want to marry virgin I have no desire to have anyting to do with a virgin

 

My husband told me, even before he met me (we were an online romance) that he has absolutely no interest in a virgin, or even an inexperienced woman. Not because she'll be curious about other cocks, or she won't know what she wants, but because he thinks a woman that owns up to her body and her needs, her wants, and doesn't care about what society expects her to be, is a stronger person then someone who is constantly worries over thier acceptability.
He doesn't understand men who worry about whether thier lover is a virgin, or a slut.

 

for me all I heard since I lost my virginity was how great sleeping with a virgin was. . . . that was when I was 17 and I heard that for 15 years until I finally dated one!
I have to say she gave the perfect BJ-I didnt even know she was a virgin until our 3rd date when she told me. . . . .we had dome oral and I had fingered her on previous dates but couldnt tell the difference.
So for me. . . .it really doesnt matter, not deal breaker! I would almost want a woman who had been with a man just so its not akward. I suppose if I felll in love with a virgin my opinion would change

 

good luck finding a virgin past the age of 18

 

Well regrading to me, I hope so.

 

In a modern society where people have full freedom of choice marriage should be a serious pledge to be undertaken by two people who completely know each other.

If you have not had sex with someone you have not been totally intimate with them. IMO this is not a good position from which to base a lifelong commitment.

 

Hell I won't even buy a pair of shoes until I've walked around the shop in them. Guess I'll just never get married now!:excited:

 

I've never been with a virgin, but I would also like to go on record by saying that its never been that big of a loss to me.

Meaning virgin or harlot, I like who I like and that is all that should matter.

 

lol all of the sudden i feel like i am living on mars

totally made my day :excited:

 

me too i'm from the same country u live in and it doesn't matter to me too ...

 

Virgins

OK, for all you guys out there who want to marry virgins - take this piece of advice -

Virgin or not - NEVER, NEVER, NEVER, EVER marry a girl who won't swallow your semen!!!

If she doesn't - she doesn't love you!

 

IT DOESN'T MATTER TO ME

 

I will answer...frm the bottom of my heart...HELL NO!!

Why would I waste my time trying to teach a woman how to fuck? I want to have fun right away and everytime. Virgins don want to do a lot of shit. What fun is that??

So I say to muslims...dying and going to heaven where 75 virgins are waiting for you.....sounds like HELL to me.

 

Hear me out.

I really love the idea of being a teacher. I like being able to improve a woman and her outlook on life by showing her and letting her experience a proper first time. I'd enjoy seeing an expression of joy as her man takes his time and pleasures her in such a way to bring tears to her eyes, pushes all the right buttons and finds delight in causing her to climax.

Maybe something such as this would help me to fall in love with her in the process.