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  1. blowmee

    blowmee Porn Surfer

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    Ladies I need your help. I would love to perform oral sex on my new wife. However she is not interested. She really doesn't tell me why, she just tells me she'd rather have me in her than to do that. Intercourse is painful for her and she cannot achieve an orgasm from intercourse so I'd like to make sex good for her as well. I think she has a bit of a hangup about it being dirty or gross, but she really won't say.

    Do any of you ladies have any ideas on how I might approach this subject so I can improve our sex life for the both of us?
     
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  2. changchang

    changchang Porn Surfer

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    Sorry to hear about your problem. Life is short, find a woman who will allow you to perform oral sex.
     
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  3. meforyou

    meforyou The Spurtinator

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    I'm not a lady, but if intercourse is painful, urge her to see a doctor. I'm sure that whatever it is, is treatable. Has she ever enjoyed oral?
     
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  4. SensualRobin

    SensualRobin Porn Star

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    I know personally, I've been very shy about letting a man between my legs to perform oral. The fact that your new wife is not very open to talk about it leads me to believe she may be very self conscious, and even as you say views sex from a totally different perspective from you. You need to find some way to encourage her to trust you enough to open up in words what is wrong. Be patient, and the biggest turn off is making her feel like she has to accept something. Finding ways to slowly open her up to her sexuality, being tender with her... that's what I can think of.

    Another member said for her to visit a doctor. I agree, because sex shouldn't be painful for her every time. It may be all she needs is more lube or something, but as far as not achieving orgasms and afraid to do oral sex, that could all just be a psychological block from how she was raised, something traumatic, etc...
     
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  5. OzChick

    OzChick Porn Star

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    Could you offer to try it straight after she's showered in a pitch black room to ease her into it?

    I don't understand why women wouldn't want it. It's the best. But I was talking to a married woman once who had never even tried it and I was shocked. She was just too embarrassed. Worried about smell, taste, and the look of it from so close up.

    Good luck and I hope for her sake she tries it. She will realise what she's been missing out on.
     
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  6. monica22

    monica22 Porn Surfer

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    I don't like oral, it's painful for me...
     
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  7. OzChick

    OzChick Porn Star

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    How so? I couldn't even begin to imagine how it could be painful unless they bite.
     
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  8. Aussie Wombles 23

    Aussie Wombles 23 Sex Lover

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    Does he have a sandpaper tounge?
     
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  9. knoxvillainswife

    knoxvillainswife Porn Star

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    It sounds like she might have some past history, either raised with shame or a traumatic event. Don't force her or she'll never enjoy it. It seems like more then just oral sex is at issue...if sex is painful something is wrong.
    Have you tried loving foreplay and just that? Just touch, no intercourse, nothing that would bring up more, leaving her wanting your touch.
    Don't forget, every woman is different, in the end she may just wind up not enjoying oral sex...I'm one of the few that doesn't. Sure, it feels good, but I get more from giving then receiving.
     
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