Do any people in here have rape fantasies?

 

Are you asking about being raped or being a rapist?

 

Of course they do. Anything that is taboo, most people have fantasies about.

It seems to me that every female I talk to likes to be submissive. Some might not extend to being submissive enough as to be 'raped' though.

 

Mainly wondering if guys like to think about raping other girls

 

No I do not have fantasies of raping women. Now, fantasies of women raping me is a different matter.

 

Occasionally I do but I fantasize about a lot of things. If you can ignore all the long term mental scaring it can cause to the victim then it can be fun to think about if only briefly. If what your looking for is a deeper answer then that you wont find it here on the forums. There a good number of rape victims who post here and they will take whatever said very personally.

 

Never say never, there is always something to try.

 

Depends if it is all in good humour or not. I have fantasies about dominating a woman with hog ties and rope but they would always consent so I suppose its not rape really is it. Just me being a kinky fucker.

 

I fantasise about being a judge who sentences a rapist and orders the key to be thrown away.

 

Rape has always been a huge fantasy for me. With it being my fantasy it is usually controlled with my rules so I'm not sure what to call it.

 

I have rape fantasies, I love to be forced and let the man get what he wants. Gang rape turns me on so much. If it ever happened to me I can't deny that through all the humiliation and fear, I would actually enjoy it.

 

I'm kinda with mfy, I'd rather beat the shit out of bully/rapists.

 

Yes. Moving on.

 

rape fantacy

I understand that rape is bad, in fact i hate rapists. I was sexually molested as a child so i know the type of impact that can have on a person
But here is my problem when i read rape stories even though I feel disgusted and sympathetic I also get extremely aroused more so than by anything else. This confuses me is something wrong with me and why is this happening to me.

 

Possibly because you, like most, enjoy the erotic fantasy of the story and can separate the fantasy from reality. Fantasy is a great way to explore your sexuality and potentially experience the fantasy through role play in the future. When we read erotica, we place ourselves in the situation which makes the story intimate in our mind which is the center of our sexuality. When our mind is erotically stimulated, we eliminate our inhibitions and intimate barriers we place on ourselves, which enables our senses (sexuality) to reach new levels of arousal mentally which can facilitate phenomenal orgasms.

Continue to allow yourself to enjoy and explore your sexuality through fantasy and make sure your vibrator is close by and fully charged kacey_s... :rose:

 

When I joined this forum and made my post I was not sure anyone would be of any help but I was pleasently suprised. All of the replys i recieved for my post were well thought out and helpful in one way or another I now have many ways of thinking about my bodies reaction, none of them negative. Thanks everyone you have no idea of the weight that has been lifted off my shoulder, I was drounding I guilt and very ashamed by my interest with no one to talk to.
Thanks for the time you spent considering my problem.

 

^ yup, same here.

Dude,..you changed your avatar pic?

 

yes

I am consumed by rape fantasies...I even fantasize about me being the girl and being gang raped, which is so weired because I am not gay. Anyone explain that one for me?

 

correct me if i'm wrong, but it's all in how it's presented...correct?

i mean, i'm very submissive sexually, and i enjoy the humiliation and bondage type things. here's my point though, the thought of a man somehow getting a hold of me and taking advantage of me over and over is very arousing, knowing that it's all under control, and knowing that he's supposed to tie me to a chair and violate me.

so technically my rape fantasies aren't actually "rape" in the scheme of things, its me pretending its rape and actually just me letting someone do whatever they want to me, and i think that is what makes it acceptable.

 

Yes you are a horny weirdo!

Oh no, my mistake that's me.

Honestly? I can sort of understand it. The rape fantasy (notice I say fantasy - the reality is nothing at all like the fantasy) is the ultimate expression of the submissive / dominant relationship.

Most people have a submissive and a dominant side to their sexuality. When you fantasise about being the perpetrator you are exploring your dominant side and when you fantasise about being raped you are exploring your submissive side. The urge to play a submissive role can exist in all of us, including what you would consider a full heterosexual male.

I myself find myself fantasising about being the victim a great deal more than the perpetrator and I consider myself a heterosexual man.

Just for clarification real rape is 1000% evil and I too would be quite happy to blow the balls of any real rapist. What I am talking about here is masturbatory fantasy.