i know i sound dumb in asking this question.

anyway, i was at my local Denny's restaurant having breakfast.
there's this waitress, that waits on me every week. we known each other
for little over 10 years.

last Christmas, i gave her some Victoria Secret Garden Collection Set.
( can't remember really ) whether before or after the gift, she started
giving me hugs and ( sometimes kisses ) on the cheeks.

sometimes, she even says " i love you " to me.

mind you, she has grown kids and small grandchildren too.
anyway, by surprise, when she sat near me to catch her breath, she
ask me when was i going to take her out ?.

month's before this, we would " MUTUALLY " flirt with each other
with no serious intent.

" NOW ", i am wondering if this is serious ?. or, she is just be just a
FRIEND ?.

when she ask me that question, i responded back with
" i was wondering, when you were going to let me do that " ?.

she said, " anytime after two o'clock " . she then stated that,
she had to go home and get her daughter. ( maybe grand daughter ).
all i heard was daughter.

then, she said " after all, we're friends right ?.
i said " yeah ".

as this was taking place, she ripped a piece of paper off her pad,
and told me as she was writing, she was giving me her cell number.
she also said, she doesn't always have her cell phone with her.

i ask her, have she ever been to the restaurant

BONE FISH GRILLE ?.

she said, " no she hasn't ".

i said, " my treat ". she said okay.

again, is this turning into something serious. or, does she wants to see
what i am like away from her job ?.

can any woman, ( PREFERABLE MARRIED WOMEN ) can tell me about
situations involving married women such as this ?.

THANKS.

 

Oh come on you cant be serious.............

You have known this person for years, you chat,you flirt, you buy her stuff from Victoria Secret and you hug and kiss..

Errrr,... dude she is into you big time.!!!!!!

For fucks sake don't break her heart. If you think that a possibilty then come back and ask for advice on how to let her her down gently....

Go easy on her though, fucking with someones emotions is seriously uncool

 

So having "been there, done that" I'm guessing you'll have one of three possible outcomes.
1. She's in a boring or bad marriage and is looking for some companionship/sex. She might be the type that can lead a double life, or she may feel guilty and have the need to confess. If she spills the beans, you may find yourself...what's the word? Oh yeah, fucked.
2. She may just need to feel desired, and flirted with and it will remain harmless, (although meeting for dinner may move this back to item 1 category)
3. She might just be jerking your chain and going for bigger tips. Just like everyone believes that stripper really thinks their special and not like all the other customers.

I'm not the moral police, what you do with her is up to you, but please try to be very sure of her motives and stability. It could be a lot of fun, or it could turn out to be the most miserable experience of your life.

 

Hmmmmm......I've been to the Bone Fish Grille twice in the last month. Next time I go, if I see a grandmotherly waitress pawing at some confused looking guy, I'll stop by and say hello.

 

LOL

lol that would be scary, if you were fom my state too.

 

hmmmm

i do tip her the right amount, for the most part.

well, in the past it was always hi how your doing.

we're only 6 years apart. she is older. i only seen her husband in their like twice. when i bought her that gift, she was very happy. she said it
was one of the best gifts i gave her, as i overheard her, telling another
wait staff.

i was in there a few days after christmas early in the morning, after
coming off night shift. when i was done, she refused to let me pay
for my meal. i kept insisting. but, she wasn't having it.

i told her, atleast take the tip. i made her take the tip.
she was all lit up in the face, eyes wide and gleaming, and right
before i left, she said i love you.

now, that's when all the hugs, kisses on the cheeks, and i love
you started. we're both in our 40's. her husband looks like in his
mid-late 50's.

she's always saying, where's my hug. she would follow at times with a kiss
on the cheeks. once, she even bumped her hip with mine intentionally.
the whole bigger tip deal, i doubt that seriously.

today, i kissed her for the very first time on her cheeks.
i even worked the nerve, to pat her on her ass about a month or so
back. she didn't even get mad about it.

before than, she would always joke, ( in my eyes ) about leaving
work early and catching a movie. i would joke back, lets go.
but, i thought it was all in good fun.

when i'm eating and watching the t.v., she would rub my back
or shoulder lightly and very brief. she's so different. she's from out
midwest. MONTANA to be exact.

won't say where i'm from. so down to earth. a little on the plump side.
but, i am find with that. nice shapely ass and nice size tits too.
shoulder length brown hair and blues eyes too.

even before her gift, i had wanted to give her a plush robe and slippers
from Victoria Secret. but, i thought that might cause problems
between her and her man.

so, i thought the garden collection set, would be more neutral.
this year, i thought about a mall gift card. that way, she can go to her
favorite store.

now here's this. a little more than a month ago, i told her i was
trying to get my class b CDL license. well, her husband has a class a
and works about roughly 5 miles from the diner i think.

she told me, when i get my cdl, to give her a shout, and he can help
me get a job. i just said thanks, and left it all alone. no more thought
into it. i told her today, i had gotten my learner's permit for my class b.
she gave me a high five.

i am looking more to drive, tankers & haz-mat. i want to be local
and come home everyday. oh yeah, awhile back, i told her i might be
looking at another knee surgery ( which i don't want ).

she told me, to let her know when, and she will come over and visit me.
i was shocked by that. eventhough, she doesn't know me at all.
other than, just being a weekly customer.

lol i kind of thought, she may be in a unhappy marriage. although,
i really have no proof of that.

just have to wait and see i guess.

 

PHONE NUMBER

Krait,
Go for it and call her.

 

Ha, I love it.
I think she's looking for hubby #2.
S

 

Don't look a gift horse in the mouth.

Thinskin

 

FWB both of you married, bad idea.

you prepared to go all the way on this?

If not, best thing you can do is stop showing up at that place to eat for awhile, she will get the hint. You've been building this up accidentally for several years, so take a few months and just do not show up, and then when you go back and she asks you just say things needed to cool off, no more, no less, and then treat it as a business relationship from then on out.

Otherwise mijo, you may be fucking yourself hard.

 

Honestly?? Are you blind and dumb?? She gave you her number so you can call her and take her out, I can bet dimes to dollars that you get to nail her on the first date, you might even get it in the car.

 

hmm. Not good.

 

curious

you made the statement, " i have been building this up " ACCIDENTALLY ",
for the last several years.

how is that so ?. i never mislead this on in anyway. i always thought, it
was just MUTUAL TALK, while eating breakfast.

never thought, any much more of it than that.

 

LOL

NO, i am not blind and dumb.

during the weekly times in the diner, i would hear her once in awhile
talking about her husband to other regular customers. it's always
something positive.

NEVER, anything bad. she's also smiles and laughs too.

so, when a woman is happily married, or, if she is happily married,
why would a woman do that ?.

i have had, married women hit on me in the past. BUT, they were
much older women, who range 15 years or more than me.
in fact, i had grandmothers hit on me.

these were women, in their late 50's and up. also, the husband was
GAWKED OUT. hate to use that expression. their husband, was
bed-ridden with ALZHEIMERS & DEMENTIA.

sometimes, contracted of the upper and lower extremities too.
kind of like a pretzel shape. their husbands was not with it.
but, this ladies husband gets around. i seen him a couple of times.

i had text her, the sameday she gave me her number, after i
programmed it in my phone.

BUT, she never responded back.

 

thanks

thank you kindly, for your response/comment.