Being a dude, I've learned mostly from porn and my partner's facial expressions how to do a few things with my tongue for a lady. But, ladies, your diversity of techniques with the almighty BJ are stunning. Out of admiration and respect, I ask an open question to y'alls. Dudes with experience feel free to chime in as well:

Open question: How did you learn your first blowjob technique or style? Was it learned from porn? Friends? a boyfriend?

Also, for the sake of posterity, what was this technique or style that you learned?

 

Trial and error.

The first time I was asked t give oral - I didn't have a clue and from what I know now, it must have been lousy for the guy (he was far more experienced than me).

 

I would like to say something to any and all who read this thread.
please, please, please don't presume that just because your friend told you a guy likes something, that it means all guys like it.

my ex had a pierced tongue, and she was utterly convinced that I would love to have it flicked against the tip.
saddly, she was so stuck on this idea that she never took the hint when I would tell her things that I did want done to me.

that said, ask questions not only of your friends and people you feel comfortable asking, but also of your partner.

 

i found a porn video in my grandparents bottom drawer when i was 12, so i learned from that. it was called "the devil and mrs jones"

 

I agree with the above, trial and error. Many repeated attempts with multiple subjects to gain a wide array of knowledge. Also, some good stern coaching never hurts. Many of my early experiences were the guy telling me what to do, or not do. I just listened and learned. Same with everything else.

 

I was 11 when I gave my first blow job. I just went by feeling his cock throb and pulse in my mouth. I also thought about what I would like. So I went from there. The more I sucked on my bud's cock the more I learned. Also I would time how long it took him to cum. Tried different things and and different positions. Body language is also a signal. Pay attention to your parteners breathing and movement.

I learned a lot from my bud. He let me know what was good and what was not.

 

Trial and error. Lots and lots of trial and error.

Later on, I saw more porn and picked up a few hints...and a few very good teachers. But all those boys in high school just let me do whatever I wanted, and I figured if they came, I did it right.

As far as style goes, I was always kind of showy when I started out...licking them a lot, teasing them. I used my hands a lot...kind of the combined handjob and blowjob thing. And I always liked it if they watched. But I also learned pretty young that saliva was a good thing, that teeth were a no-no, that a slow, steady rhythm was the thing, and that I needed to be patient. Good lessons.

 

The smae way you get to caringe hall. pratice, pratice, pratice. Listen to partner. I first thought if he wsn't yelling ouch, I was doing something right.

 

My first time I just did what felt natural. He seems to like it and so did I.

Lots of practice and good communication is important. Not all men like the same things. Its OK to ask what he likes.

 

EXACTLY! I did all the above! I'm going to have GIFs of me in bed soon so you can see my technique.

 

I have a gay friend who told me how.

 

I was just told to do what you enjoy, and the rest will come natural.. and It did...

 

Trial and error here. I have a couple of techniques up my sleeve ;p

 

Lots and lots of porn and asking different partners what they enjoy. I once had a guy tell me I watch too much porn because I was giving him the proverbial porn "blowjob eyes" (looking up seductively and making eye contact while sucking) lol! He enjoyed it, but I was kind of embarrassed! :excited:

 

Honestly, I never met a man who didn't like that look that says "I adore making love to your cock and gulping down your cum, and I want you to watch me do it."

I also never met a man who didn't like me to stop now and then and tell him how much I love sucking his cock. I learned that in high school too. Guys like girls who are...you know...into it.

 

You hit it on the nail with that one!

 

We're waiting to see those GIFs, sweetie....

 

Soon! Hehe. I'm doing it frame-by-frame to blur him and myself. It's GIFs from a whole sex session. I don't think you'll be disappointed. :excited:

 

I'll just be disappointed I wasn't there to join in. You have a nice body.

 

Thanks! I have yet to have a threesome! Well since you remembered I mentioned GIFs here you go. Is it up to par with you Kimiko? For more check out my thread:

My BJ technique.


My deep throat technique. I only get a couple trusts at a time. It is a GIF so the repeating frames make me look better at it. hehe.​