I ask because I'm currently in a relationship with a woman who doesn't but I rarely ever encounter this. In the past, I have received many compliments on my abilities from other women and current gf says I'm good but it's just not her thing. Any other ladies feel the same way?

 

As far as I'm aware, it isn't that common, but all women are different.

 

I can't say I don't like it...I really do, I just prefer giving over receiving...

 

I enjoy cunnilingus as foreplay but I am not really into it to bring me to orgasm, except as part of 69.

Love,
Lynn-nyc

 

I love doing it for women. I've been lucky enough that the women that I have been with,..all love to receive it. :excited:

 

I love it, but I have to say, women are much better at it than men, as a rule.

 

i second that motion

 

Definitely LOVE cunnilingus! If you know what you're doing of course.

 

I love giving it and I'm good at it!!! She is very open to providing oral and sometimes I'd rather reciprocate without actually screwing but I know she's not digging it... It's sort of refreshing dating someone who always wants my dick but sometimes I crave the whole oral experience.

There's nothing quite like having your head crushed by a ladies smooth thighs while getting your hair torn out

 

I don't really care for it. It feels alright, but it's not going to give me mind blowing orgasms. I often get bored during it and prefer to give than receive.

 

Thanks for your input! I believe you're the first to state you don't enjoy it. Anything in particular that you don't like about the action or is it just not that pleasurable?

 

This I do not find surprising. As a guy who has never gotten a good handjob but who enjoys jerking off (as much as most do) I've often speculated that the same sex would be better at oral and hand work than would the opposite. I'm not bi and definitely not testing out this theory but such is my hypothesis...SCIENCE!

 

I love it, but there are definitely people who need more direct and stronger stimulation. There's no harm in trying, though!

 

I really don't like it either
To be honest it just completely bores me..
I suppose its too 'soft and gentle' for my liking

 

I'm flabbergasted! I've never met a woman who didn't like it. I mean, I've met some who have been given bad head (never thought that those two words could be found side by side in a sexual reference!) by a spouse or boyfriend, but, they still wanted it. <shrug> I suppose some with a medical condition might not find it stimulating. And I'm not bashing anyone who doesn't like it...I just don't understand. I've watched gals nearly lose consciousness from the orgasms. Just seems like it would be universally loved.

Hey, ya' learn something new everyday.

 

I'm not a big fan. I find myself waiting for the main event rather than enjoying the moment.
My guy absolutely adores going down on me, and I enjoy his enjoyment. I get more turned on by giving him a blowjob if I'm honest. It's not that he's not good at it; he's the best lover I've ever had. It's just something that doesn't float my boat.

 

That there would be so many women who don't like it...

I have to ask the follow up, has it always been like this? or could the partner just be doing it wrong?

you feel a bit disheartened hearing it tho, since it's supposed to be the thing that can only be right (provided you don't bite). I mean eating a woman out is one of the finer things in life, and i would like her to enjoy it as well...

I won't complain if one decided she liked giving more than receiving, sadly most of my partners were never that in to giving blowjobs...

 

An old friend of mine said she didn't like it, an old girlfriend of mine didn't much care for it, and my fiancée simply won't entertain the thought of it; the very idea of it turns her off completely.

I honestly can't say I'm complaining. I was never much into oral, giving or receiving.

 

It's always been like that for me. It doesn't feel bad but it doesn't feel all that good either. I haven't had that many partners, but it was the same with all of them, so I doubt it's a matter of technique. It could be something psychological on my part, or I could just not be wired for it. I'd much rather just get to the main event.

 

Thanks for the clarification. It sounds like you and my gf have this in common. It's nice to know others feel the same way