Do you look down on a girl for being more freaky then less? Should I say do you lose respect for a woman who will let u fuck her ass mouth and pussy all in one night or do you respect the girl that would tell you no? Do you believe this is all just based on a person by person basis?

 

Depends if I'm looking for a relationship or a fuck. I think its hot either way.

 

I'm talking about in relationships, not fuck buddies not much respect there anyways.

 

it does depend on the person but most of the time i fucking love it. it takes the relationship to a another level. love being able to just do whatever to my girl and let her do whatever for me. pleasing your partner to the fullest extent

 

I use the terms "whore" and "slut" as ones of endearment. They are high praise in my world.

Of course, I want her to be MY slut, not just any slut, but the freakier the better.

 

In a relationship and she is willing to do all 3 in one night I say it just makes her a woman that knows what she wants

 

i love that in bed or in private. but never in front of other ppl!

 

I am a firm believer in it's not what you say, but how you say it.

A little humiliation and degradation now and then can be pretty not too.

 

I think it depends on the person and the circumstances.

There is nothing wrong with being open about your sexual feelings and being honest about what you enjoy sexually.

If you are comfortable enough with the person to wish to experiment on your first night then go for it. Some people may want to wait before trying anal for instance, and some may be OK with it from the start.

 

It depends...

I cannot give you a straight and simple answer... and this is why:

Since now I'm 53 and happily married, I shall go back in time...

- If I'm with a girl that I've just met, and we immediately "get down to business", I understand that she's a slut who needs to fulfil her needs (mine included).
I won't despise her, but, in spite of the fact that I do appreciate straight forward attitude, I surely would have absolutely no intention to consider her as a potential wife of mine...

- If, let's say, I know that woman for some time, we've been bonding, intelectually speaking, reaching to find that we do have common likes and dislikes, her very "open" behaviour in bed will make me feel good, knowing that she does not hide her lust and needs...

- If I've been having sex with a woman for some time, and, at a certain point she opens totally, this will be, for me, a sign that she has reached the point to trust me entirely - if a woman acts "shy" in bed, than surely her trust in me isn't at the highest level...

- If I'm talking about a wife, than having sex all ways possible is just a normal attitude.

NOTE: According to my experience, not all the women will both suck the dick and fuck up their asses.
In fact, most of the ones I've been with, were either sucking dick, either fucking their asses.
Some, and not only a few, have only accepted straight vaginal sex.
The fact that they let you do all, just to please you, as a man, looks more like a "sacrifice", a "torture" for her, and a sensitive man will feel that and won't insist.
Having sex is supposed to be a pleasure for both!

And, finally, I'm sure that the most important is the person, the intellectual bonding - no matter how horny you may be, you cannot have sex 24/24.
In the rest of the time, beside sleeping, you must have some conversation, some activities...
If the partner is stupid, or likes only what you dislike, I'm afraid it will be just a one night stand or a very short relationship...

Sorry for the length of the post. :rose:

 

I really like him took it far ready to go further ..... Just kinda scared .... But he has liked everything this far I just don't know his cut off point

 

Well I guess he will tell you what his cut off point is. If you like him then how about easing up a little, press cruise control and enjoy the ride for a little before putting your foot on the throttle again. THat way you wil have a little time to get to know one another and what his kinks might be and any stuff he just aint into

 

Interesting Question

I guess I'd need a bit more info to answer this question:
1. Did you go into the relationship as open as you describe?
2. If not, did you change the expectations in the middle of the relationship?
3. Did it start one way, then move in another direction?

Bottom line in my humble opinion, never deny nor change who you are for anyone. If someone doesn't accept you for who and what you are, they're not worth your time nor effort. If you start changing to meet others wants, you'll never stop. And never really find yourself. That to me is a waste of living. Again, just my opinion.

 

It sounds like you both are going to be finding out you limits then before long. Have fun and enjoy

 

Really ?

How can you be sure he has a 'cut-off' point?

 

IM there

sounds like the start of a good sex life which can lead to some great relationships but don't let it be the main basis
and if he doesn't like it lots of us would

 

I don't lose any respect for a girl that A. Knows what she likes, and B. goes for it.. I've never understood sexual regression.. It only leaves you diss appointed , and unfulfilled, and that serves no point.. Be who you are

 

Neither ass, mouth or pussy is that freaky so, I guess what it comes down to for me is whether we know each other enough for you to give me this? I've never been a fan of quickies or one night stands except, for the occasional call girl way back when and as long as I don't get the vibe that your recklessly indiscreet with every guy or girl you meet, you sound pretty normal to me.

 

what you get to do while fucking has absolutely no bearing on respect.

 

I think it does all depend on the girl/lady concerned.

I certainly would not look down on or lose respect for any woman who wanted to get a bit freaky.....and all holes in one night is not really outrageous.

Are you doing anything later?