If i'm on top then i look down.

 

yeah a 1 nite stand but for a long term i would like the girl ease in to thing and not to be to much out there

 

Just so everyone knows I know it is not the greatest taboo in the world to do what I described. I just wonder where the point is for most guys? At times I would like to make love but for the mOst part the rougher mOre helpless and roughed up I feel the better!! I dont even know how to ask somebody to do something that may seem disrespectful!!!!

It make me a little nervous though only because I had an ex that would get so ugly and talk down to me for the things I ask for. He actually complained and said all I wanted to do was be fucked like a whore, but he said it with such disgust it made me feel like I should never told him at all.

I just dont want this guy to feel the same way because he is so sweet I know he would never say anything to hurt me. Of course, I'm probably over thinking things....again.

 

A girl tells me no and i punch her in her bitch face

 

25 years ago she said NO to all the above. We married and have been happy ever since. Premarital sex is not necessary with the right woman. If sex is the only attraction between you, then you are not right for each other. Its that simple.

 

That's the chance you take when you ask for a bit of humiliation is that the person you ask is generally a cruel person at heart and you open the door to true verbal abuse? I'm a true believer in only practicing S&M/B&D with someone I truly love or respect and they've shown the same to me, it's a game that can open many inhibited doors but, can also let out a demon or two if your not careful! We live to learn before we die but, it's best to die on your feet then live on your back?

 

What is she like outside the bedroom

By the nature of this forum, we kind of frame things as to what happens in the bedroom. To properly answer your question I would like to know what she is like outside the bedroom.

Is she respected by those who work with her? What do those people who know her but are not close friends with her say about her? Here's a good indicator . . . How does she treat the waitress / waiter in a restaurant? These things are important to judging what kind of person one is. All this contributes to how you think of a person in a bed.

If she's a horrible person outside the bedroom, then I would think of her as (and I hate saying this word) a slut. If she is a sweet person outside the bedroom, then I would think of her as a person who is very free spirited when it comes to sex.

 

if u want a serious relationship with a guy give him everything the moment you feel he is really into you, not before, not after

 

Well personally I respect girls 100% that's just the way I am wether they are freaks in bed or not just the way I am

 

Y'know, there isn't really a fine line, a guy wont judge you if you're open. Try telling the guy what you're into one thing at a time, if you're into everything, then there's no limits, that will let the guy explore and see if he likes what you enjoy. What you're into sexually is between you, yourself, you, and.. You.. No one else can say what you like. You let the man into your sexuality,


A man should respect a woman who trusts him enough to give her full body to him, period: end of story.

 

Yupp

Well put

 

I would have to say I agree with this one. In addition I am not worried about a woman being a freak in the bedroom as long as she is a freak with me and not the entire neighborhood. I value devotion, loyalty and commitment very highly.

 

I like a women how know what she wants....but tell me the kinky stuff after we are a couple.....and well both be happy.....:excited::shock:

 

No one knows how far to go unless you try. The worst thing that can happen is they will say no. I would respect a women either way, all people have different sexual preferences and just because I dont get what I want doesn't mean I have any less respect for her. Besides my wife still after 25 years of marriage still will not let me fuck her in the ass.

 

Respect

In a relationship? Of course.

 

If youre aiming for this to become a relationship, then, in my opinion, there's nothing sexier than openness and communication. Us freaks (men and women) always start off a little tentative, no? But if you know that you have these desires, how hot would it be to know that he may feel the same way too? The only thing is that nothing ever happens at the drop of a pin or the snap of your fingers.

I think back to one girl I've had in particular, sadly enough things didnt work out, but her and I had phenomenal chemistry; and not just any chemistry, but she was by far the nastiest, dirtiest, sexiest lover who enjoyed giving as much as she loved being absolutely dominated and torn apart at times. BUT, it was not something that was discovered all at once. It's a learning experience for both of you. Im pretty sure it'll do you and the relationship well to have gradual conversations with him about...and if it really comes down to the fact that you and him have irreconsireable differences in bed and that's the deal breaker...then you have your answer either way, no?

Sorry to ramble, just my two cents

If you don't talk to him about it, nothing will ever change.

 

I respect a woman who knows what she wants and ISN'T AFRAID TO SAY IT.

There's a huge stigmata between sexes that's really ruined the outlook on relationships. The whole idea that sexual satisfaction is a man's world, as well as the stigmata that a woman "shouldn't like sex" or more so, "women shouldn't be sexually outgoing."

A woman who enjoys sex is a sexy woman. There shouldn't be any shame or "slutty feeling" for enjoying sex the way you want it.

 

If we're in a relationship I would want u to do all of that so I dont have to go out and get that done with someone else

 

Hear hear.....100% correct. Just do it. If the other person can/won't or just doesn't want to then you must move on.

 

I respect most a girl who is not shy about taking what she wants.