Dudes....what possible LEGITIMATE reason does a guy have for turning down pussy? I am not used to rejection

 

How it smells or looks could be an issue, but sometimes believe it or not some guys might not want to do anything...I've turned down girls before because I had something on my mind or wasn't feeling too good.

 

no idea never have

Crazy I guess

 

mine is beautiful, smells and tastes lovely(told by numerous dudes)... I think his priorities suck maybe

 

it depends what kind of relationship you had with him

 

Smell maybe...


Other than that, IM not turning it down

 

married to him, haha

 

I've never turned it down

 

Funny, it's usually the girl that rejects the guy

 

I know right!! even offered up porn...he'd apparently rather watch fearnet and drink beer

 

Alot of wimps out there I guess... sigh

 

My assumption on reading the topic was of a girl walking up to a random guy and saying "fuck me", in which case I can think of plenty of reasons to turn it down (chance of STD's being my top reason).

But what I seem to gather from the conversation is that your husband said no thanks. There could also be plenty of reasons for that. He might have a physically straining job, and might be too tired afterward to be in the mood. He might have some other issue with you, like maybe he's upset over an argument or something, and he doesn't feel attracted to you right now. He might have a mysterious itch down there, and doesn't want to spread it til he knows what it is.

Only way to find out what's really troubling him is to ask him, not us.

 

he gives me no real answer...just "lets do it tomorrow" and 2morrow never comes

 

Possible pregnancy, nervousness, concern.

 

Ive only turned down sex once in my life. I was very nauseated (drinking too much) and didn't want to vomit on the poor girl.

I did once fuck my wife when I had a fever

 

Oh, I thought this was like the first time it happened. If it's a constant thing, there's definitely a deeper psychological problem than any one-time excuse. He might be impotent, asexual, fallen out of love, finds you unattractive, finds himself unattractive (and feels embarrassed by sex), or has any kind of major stress in his life that is effecting his libido. Maybe there was a death in the family a while ago, and he is still mourning. Maybe he is unhappy at work. Maybe you have kids at home, but you're loud at sex, so he's always worried about waking the kids. I don't know what your homelife situation is so I don't know what might apply. Maybe he's worried about money, or worried about keeping his job.

Again, there are tons of reasons he might not ever be in the mood for sex. No one here can give definites, only possibilities. Talk to your doctor, if your husband won't discuss it. Your doctor may have better ideas.

 

probably fed up of yours after years (?) of marriage and is getting fresher (possibly younger) pussy away from home.

a nice juicy steak meal is lovely to have every now and again but have it every day for breakfast dinner and tea for years and you'll get sick of the sight of steak.


or maybe he's discovered he's really gay.

 

been married 4 years, been on pill all 4. I think he just prefers booze

lol nice, ur so sweet

 

take some mdma and when you're both properly high talk to him about what's going on... conversations without barriers solve a lot of problems.

 

guess those are all possibilities, but probly not. im 24. younger-ehhh why? We have no kids, and hes always been this way...

Just asking what good reasons men have for saying no to sex. He probably should see a doc