i have hired a escort for me and my boyfriend on thursday im nervous but excited, the reason im a little bit nervous is its the first time i will have perfomed any sex acted on a female and i hope i do good ,and i dont know what will happen when she turns up. will she ask for the money talk to us disscuss what goes on? i want soe one to tell me like right she will come in ask for the money sit you both down ask what your both comfotable with doing then just get stuck in kissing me and thn my boyfriend or whatever . i know every escort is different but i would just like a rough guide of what will go on at the start plz

any help/insight would be really appreacied

 

She maybe a he when the clothes come off.

 

what if you have no useful infomation for e dont comment how does this help i have hired her from a professional company i seen her pictues i just want to some advice really

 

A professional whore?
Oh fuck that is the funnest thing I have heard today.

 

A true pro should not ask you for the money. She would expect it to be laying on a table or whatever in plain sight. If you hired her through a company I assume they know you want someone to entertain you and your boyfriend as a couple. She will arrive and make a little small talk and if she's good everyone will be at ease in no time.

Is this a surprise for the BF?

 

It depends on the level of the escort. I mean, there are simple prostitutes which you can hire on non-verified sites. And there are escorts, which you can recognize bc the pics are way more refined and certified by the site, for which they pay.
I don't know which one you chose. So I'll tell you roughly what is likely to happen in both cases.
1) She will turn up and, if you don't give her the money, she will ask for it. If you want, some small talks can be done. But, in my experience, you will soon find out that it is limited and kind of boring. This, unless she has previously worked in a strip club, which teaches to keep the guys entertained. Anyhow, forget about deep conversation or a classy, relaxing atmosphere. You'll soon get down to business and, likely, she won't be very involved.
2) In this case it depends on the lady if she wants the money up front or not. Many of them decide basing on how you two seem to her. If you want to, an high class escort can keep up every conversation. And trust me, if she feels the two of you are uneasy, she will do everything to make you relax. She will also be relatively passionate. Or, better, she will be good at faking.

That said, there is no certain rule. My advise is to take the initiative. Always remember that you pay and therefore lead the game. If you'll tell her what you want exactly up front, she will either accept or tell you what she doesn't want to do. you'll discuss it and then have a lot of fun!

 

Is this a surprise for the BF?[/QUOTE]


no this is not it was going to be but i had to tel him due to his work he needed to make sure he was not on rota so my plan was a little bit messed up x


lifeslayer696 : thaank you this has really made me feel a little better about meeting her i know ill be nervous but i will have a little drink before hand to relax another question will she be aloud to accept a alcohlic drink ?

i want to have small talk with her but then again i dont want to waste time with her when our time is up what will happen will she just leave even if we are in the middle of doing soething or will she finish then ask for money ?

i know im over thinking this and should just go with the flow when she gets there but im a maticulus planner and feel the need to be in control before she gets there and i get to fuck the shit out of her pussy !!

 

let us know how it goes maybe a video or a pic or two would be nice

 

If she is professional enough, she will continue and might, or might not, ask for the money for the overtime. Legitimate escorts do not ask, or use the term money. They use terms like "donation" or "roses". This has been my personal experience. I know you're nervous, so was I each time. Once you get into it, the nervousness will fade. Let us know how it turns out.

 

Not.....They'll tell her what they want and she'll give them a price.

Not......A "crack-whore" sucks cock for a living. A "street-walker" sucks cock for a living. A "lot-lizard" sucks cock for a living. An "Outcall massuse" sucks cock for a living. An "Escort" sucks cock for a living.....etc. etc...

Don't buy into all the BS. The only difference is the manner in which they find dates, and in some cases the level of professionalism which CANNOT be determined by the supposed title as I have known some "lamp post inspectors" that blew my mind at the level of professionalism they had, and some supposed "top end" escorts that the average crack whore blowing winos had more professionalism then.

Yeah.....not.....Cute and clever things like that don't even hold up in court. They'll give you a number. You tell them what you want, and they'll say "450" as an example, maybe even "450 dollars". By that point in the game it's a little too late for anyone to be pretending as to what is going on.....Only idiots and ditzy girls "playing" hooker pull such BS.

In any case........

She will show (or not as some are simply not reliable/professional), and IMMEDIATELY you are expected to pay the service/time rate up front. That money is simply there for having her show up....Yes, it was supposedly for "X" time. Fact of the matter is it is what it costs to get them to the door.

Next she'll look you two over and make minimal small talk. The entire point of that is to try and get a handle on if you are police, what type of people you are, are you some serial killing maniac, whatever. If you stall too long with small talk or rush getting down to business, or in contrast begin asking a lot of questions about her she may bolt....The reason being you may be police. Once satisfied she should not run like hell, she'll then instigate a brief and frank discussion about "what you were looking for".

She'll listen, and if nothing exceeds her limitations she'll give you a price. Understand the "price" figures in EVERYTHING. What would you like for her to do to you, to your spouse, what do you want to do to her, how much of her clothing do you want off, is anything kink or fetish.....From even her shoes coming off to doing backflips while screwing she is figuring out a price.....When she knows what you want, she'll give you a number, and right then and there you are expected to pay (as many many people oddly don't have the cash with them).

"IF" she is a professional, safe sex all around WILL be mandatory.....That includes oral and even if she is receiving oral.....If she does not demand protection, know that means she doesn't with other people. YOU can get an STD from oral sex both ways, both giving and receiving. Even from anal...So safe sex is a must for everyones protection.

You can talk all you want......Oddly, a LOT of men and women do nothing more. That's fine...YET it still costs as her time is money.

Lastly, the rate is usually for "time", or until you orgasm. Meaning, if you cum in 30 seconds, it doesn't matter if you discussed an hour, it's over.

HTH

Hush.......an alias

 

I'm sorry but you're very much mistaken. In order for an arrest to be made, an agreement has to be made involving sex for money. This is why undercover cops usually wear wires so that the conversation is revised and documented. If the word money is not used, an arrest cannot be made.

 

Bunk......BS....You be wrong, be sure.....

On what planet do you live where such honest constraints are utilized by law enforcement? The very second you walk in the door the deal is done, the rest, all the talk, negotiation, what you did, what they did is simply to give the ignorant citizens a nice warm fuzzy feeling that they can do their own little bends of the law and get away with it because "they are smarter".

Fact of the matter is that it is ALL about the money, satisfying the majority of voters that you will vindicate their "voiced" moral standard even if neither you nor they do not, and past that being little past a monkey pushing a yes/no button as when push comes to shove it boils down to "were you or were you not doing "X"...No matter, "I" say you were".

I cannot count the number of cops, lawyers, judges and politicians that would say in one breath "condemn the harlot" as they in the next would whisper "don't worry about it, are we still on for Tuesday?"

What you're talking about is the stuff of movies and Fox cop shows trying to demonstrate there is due process....Let me guess, it takes a court order to place a wire tap and 5 minutes to trace a call and naturally you're always innocent until proven guilty?

Hush.......an alias

 

I never offered the escort a drink. I mean, I've been to dinner with them, but haven't offered anything in my room. But I guess it depends on her mood.

As far as the other issue is concerned, in case 1) of the above post she will watch the clock. In case 2) she will stay and ask or not for more money depending on the mood.

 

I never went out to meet them, they always came to me. I can see a cop going undercover as a prostitute, but not an escort. Why? Because they'd never be able to make an arrest. Money is never mentioned and the roses or donation was for time only. The x resulted between two consenting adults. I have talked to both escorts and prostitutes via the internet and phone and guess what? A few would not commit until I said sex and money in the same sentence. I never did. This would lead to a logical conclussion that they were cops and trying to sting me. Oh and Hush, I don't have cable, just real world experience

 

Really? Real world experience? I'd like to hear about it.

Now I'm not saying you didn't encounter that, however, it is BY FAR not the norm just some cute game someone invented "thinking" it would protect them. In kind don't buy into all the "entrapment, safe words, they have to ask first, etc. etc. bs" as a cop can walk up to you on the street, arrest you without reason, not mirandize you, beat you, rape you, take you to jail and by the time you get into court the report will read how you propositioned him, tried to rape him, attacked him, resisted, that you were read your rights, etc. etc....and the judge will go with what he says....period....as all cops are good, honest, and never lie (though in truth if they take your word over his the system breaks down) as in "why would he?".

Anywho
Before you start explaining your experience consider that the ONLY work I have ever known has been in the sex industry for more years then you are old. Though the particular odd jobs varied there was always one constant profession.......Escort, hooker, whore, mattressed backed ceiling expert, soiled dove, etc. call it what you will...Yet after working round the world in more countries then most will ever visit, from gutter to top end high rise, owning two of my own houses, truckers to politicians, so I just "might" have had a tiny bit of experience with prostitution, and more so how law enforcement works.

After all, Judges, Lawyers, District Attorneys, Cops and politicians were some of my most consistant clients.....and paid better then the clergy or doctors.....Well not the cops unless they had made "collections" earlier.

Hush.......an alias

 

In Milwaukee we just had a cop go to jail for sexually assaulting a woman who made a 911 call so the idea that they always get away with it is false, at least in the United States.

That said, other than being unable to confirm your backstory, I'll say that paying for sex is much closer to Hush's experience for most people. There are some pros who hope to turn you into regular customers who do girlfriend experience but not many and you almost always have to pay for it.

 

Were there witnesses or who did she know or who else came forward as well?

Hush.....an alias

p.s....How do you like my 3rd set of implants?

 

Nobody, my understanding is that she was raped and drove to the hospital where it was confirmed because of vaginal tearing that she was raped and the semen inside her was confirmed to be his through DNA testing.

I have no problem with looking at implants as long as they're not obnoxious. It's the fact that they feel like the dashboard of my car that's an erection killer.

 

Oh, well you failed to say he was a "stupid cop". I've known cops that would not hesitate locking someone up for a week or more with no charges simply to let bruising fade let alone "forcing" douches if the need was there. Worse still, all of the others went along with it...They may have thought he was in the wrong yet "a cop protects a cop first"....Finally, there is always the "you are now charged with X, Y, Z, factor if you resist.

Never underestimate the abuses that H.S. bullies who realized that they could legally continue on if they were cops are willing to do. More so never underestimate the balance of the system and their desire to not weaken it as after all.......YOU are expendable, and they are better then us, having to control us and protect us from ourselves, and DESERVE leeway and breaks due to the pressure they're under.

Anywho,

LOL, relax, I didn't get them for you and perhaps you should tell the gals you know to find better surgeons. If you held an actual implant in your hand all by itself you'd be hard pressed to not say that it feels exactly like a breast....Poor surgical practices coupled with impatience to be X big instantly is what causes bad boob jobs.

I just wish they'd come up with dick implants.....There's a trillion dollar idea huh?

Hush.....an alias

 

Hush, your experience has taught you what you know. I don't doubt that you have knowledge on this subject. I have knowledge as well. I personally know police officers, police chiefs, judges. So even if I got caught,I would walk out within the hour and no record of the arrest would be made. With that being said, in this state, unless the word money is used, an arrest cannot be made. Perhaps its different for each state, I do not know. Also, police officers here are immediately arrested or reprimanded if caught acting outside the law. It's sad that some cops act that way, but its life.