"Nice guys"

Do you think that you are?

Do you think that you deserve things because you are nice?

I fired a "nice guy" last month.......Fucking shit at his job and I couldn't wait to get him off the Site.

Really nice Guy though.

He probably thinks it was unfair, I think my work is a much safer place.

 

Or on the bottom with the woman on top. . :excited:

 

Thats the best time to be on the bottom.:excited:

 

Being a nice guy only gets you used. I was under the illusion that woman wanted a nice guy, you treat them good, they treat you good sort of thing. From my experience, women wants a guy that does just enough to get by. Your young but don't marry the first girl that fucks you, she will treat you like total shit! Learn from my mistakes!

 

Yes it's true. Nice guys really do finish last. I know that from experience. Women often talk about wanting a nice guy. As most of us already know, they are full of shit. Women almost never say what they really mean. They speak in a coded language that only they and other women can understand. The sad fact is this, women only date assholes. Nice guys never get any pussy. That's just how it is guys. Life isn't fair. No one ever said that it was.

Don't believe me? Have you ever heard a Fifty Shades of Grey? For those of you who don't know, it's a book. The book is about a man who sexually abuses, degrades and humiliates a young woman. Women love this book and it's title character Christian Grey. I rest my case.

 

Being nice, shy, reserved, respectful....these are all great qualities and will gain you many female friends. These qualities, however, will definitely not get you laid. Many women say they want a "nice guy" but not for sex. If you can wait it out, though, and endure the heartbreaks and broken relationships, I think that being a nice guy will work for you and you'll find a fitting partner. Good luck.

 

From past experience you have very little knowledge of how women work, this is highlighted by your reference to a poorly written soft porn book that comes from the mind of a teenager who like you has no experience in life or reality.

Women do not date only assholes, either that or you classification of an asshole is way off. The fact is that some women avoid arseholes and only date the guys that you call "nice", the fact is that these guys are not wall flowers and do have the ability to talk to a lady with out acting like a fool, the evidence is all around you, when you see a couple walking hand in hand smiling, or when you see the parents having fun with their progeny, all you see is arseholes because you hang out with them or are possibly one yourself.

I will let you get back to your poorly written book, have fun with it.

 

How about just be yourself and find the right match for you? If you want a real relationship with mind blowing sex then keep looking for the right one. Now, on the other hand, if you just want mind blowing sex without a relationship thats out there too. One thing I will add....IF SHE DOESNT SUCK YOUR COCK AND SWALLOW NOW, SHE NEVER WILL!!! RUN IN THE OTHER DIRECTION DEAR.

 

"Assholes"

Do you know that you are?

Do you think that you deserve things because you're a prick?

I had the power to fire a nice guy last month because I'm an "Asshole"....I'm the boss so what I say goes.

I'm really a fuckwad, though.

He probably thinks it's unfair, and you know what? It probably was, but I got a rush from firing him because I had the power to do so.

 

You are spot on!

I couldn't have put it better myself. You have this guy pegged.

 

Hang on. You can't be weak (and incompetent) and a little bit of an asshole. That's even worse than being a nice guy. You have to be strong to succeed in this life.

michael saint didn't fire a guy because he was nice. He fired him because he was weak and incompetent.

 

I don't think nice guys finish last. I think they let opportunities pass them by. If you're into a woman let her know and even if she rejects you then keep trying.

 

I always finish last. I let her orgasm at least twice before I shoot my load. I'm nice like that.

 

Funny thing about that book is it's a big hit with people in their 70s and 80s :excited:

 

Yes, they do.

Being the friend that listens to them isn't the way between their legs. Sometimes you have to pretend that there's something more interesting to do besides hearing their complaints about life and the guy they're screwing instead of you.

 

I was paid (what I thought was) a back-handed compliment once by a woman I was crazy about: she told me that I was "too nice" and that she would not have relationship with me because she would "use me and take advantage of me".

It was only some time later that I realised quite how hurtful that comment was: she suggested that I was spineless and unassertive, which really is not me at all! Sure, I'll back down to please a woman (or to keep the peace!), but I wouldnt let her 'walk all over me'.

Like the OP I've always considered myself a nice guy, but it's not got me very far in life. As a middle-aged man I wish now I'd been more of an aggressive bastard as a younger man. Maybe then I would have had more interesting experiences to look back on...

 

I'm a nice guy but I had enough of being the guy women brought their problems too. So I just told them I had enough and they need to talk to their girl friends. Just because nice guys are nice and don't like conflict doesn't mean we won't show you the door if we think we are being used.

 

you can be nice and assertive at the same time
dont ever get runover by anyone
stand up have balls and if she isnt into you find another one
but never fear the unknown the reason it is unknown is because you feared it to start

 

I would love to hear what you guys think a "nice guy" is; the qualities he has that makes him one. As a woman that gave up the "asshole" years ago & prefers "good guys", I can tell you that not every guy who claims to be a good guy is one. They may appear so, but it doesn't make it so.

 

nice guy qualities
listens and actualy listens and cares and participates in the conversation

treats her as if she was the only other person in the world

knows he does not deserve her

understands that she is always a goddess

will not desire to change her
but she cannot desire to change him

basic respect and adorement then eventualy unrelenting love and faith