Does your significant other know that you are on XNXX?.....mine does not, and I am curious how many others are in the same boat.

 

Yes mine does he don't care

 

I would imagine the majority of the people on this site know their others are here.

 

Cock slut....do you ever PM with guys to get off? and does he know about that?

 

Yes! The 'wife' knows.

 

mine does not know i'm on this site. she does know i look at porn though.

 

I would like to get off with someone in PM's....is that cheating?

 

Yes, he knows. the more open we are about our sexual interests the better our sex life is.

 

No I don't think it is cheating simply cause there is no real contact.

 

Oh yes...he knows.

 

The wife and I sit in the same room in the morning her on the family computer playing games and I right behind her at the dining room table on XNXX! Carrying on conversations and drinking coffee before work, there's nothing I don't share and yes there are some things she could find out about my life before her that she didn't know (she chooses not to pry) We trust each other and live for now not the "way back when" I've always told her,"I'm an open book, what chapter would you like to start with?"

 

Depends who you ask I myself believe cheating requires a physical contact so that letters, audio or video don't count and if it helps my sexual adventures,Cool! If a visual image was cause for alarm then my wife could get mad at the hard on I get when we watch porno together, she knows all my feelings end with her and she's secure as am I!

 

+1

 

I have not told my wife, I would like to because I'm not cheating on her and it is making me a happier person talking to others and sharing experiences. I feel I can't for the following reasons;

1) I don't want her feeling inadequate because I am discussing sexual matters I feel I couldn't share with her (sex is not an easy subject for her because she suffered abuse).

2) I am exploring my feminine side on here and this is an aspect of my sexuality she is not comfortable with. When we met I was totally open and honest with her about this and we shared many a steamy session with me dressed up in women's underwear / clothes. Then many years later, like a bolt from the blue, she told me she was not comfortable with it any more. It did feel like a knife through the heart at the time (she has rejected a part of me) but I accepted it and ever since my feminine activities have been a solitary experience. That is until I found this forum .

3) I don't want her worrying that I will meet someone through the forum that could turn into a real world relationship. I'm not after that but how could I stop her worrying about it?

Maybe once the kids have left I will find the courage to tell her but at the moment that is too much of a risk, my family means everything to me.

PS - I don't regard anything done over the internet as cheating, only when there is real physical contact would I consider it cheating.

 

Yes my husband knows I'm on here

 

My wife does not know.; She does not get turned on by porn.

 

No she doesn't know.

 

Well yes and no. She knew at one point I was looking around on here but I stopped for a while and have recently become more active on here. Which she does not know it as of right now. I want to tell her but I think she would have a problem with it cause of worry or fear of me meeting someone in real life from this site. The other thing is that she has a really hard time talking about or opening up about sex except when we are actually having sex but its cause of issues from her past. I on the other hand am a very sexually open person and like to talk and discuss it with others and talk about new things to try. I just don't know how to explain that to her but oh well I guess I'll stick with talking to you guys and gals for now.

 

Sounds a lot like my situation. I understand your problems. :rose:

 

Yes, we do. We have posted pics as well.