I was recently hanging out with a friend that I hadn't seen in a long time. This was the first time we'd ever been so flirty. We were flirting and dancing at the bars all night and eventually went back to her place and hung out until eventually we started making out and went to bed. Things were getting pretty heated in bed, but when I started playing around her vagina she slowly rolled over and I got the feeling she wasn't into it. I asked if she wanted to go to sleep and she said yes and thanks for asking, so we made out a little bit more and it got hot again but eventually went to sleep. Should I have just gone for it? I feel like that is wrong to do after asking haha. Why would she have stopped?

 

How would we know? You should know her better than us, she's your friend and we don't know her.

 

Perhaps she found out that you are not intact?

 

Maybe she's a virgin...
NOTE: Are we going to get a prize in case we guess right?

 

Couple things it could've been...

-She hadn't shaved and it looked like a jungle down there.
-She was on her period.
-She just felt gross; Our bodies secrete lots of juices in a day... sometimes it just feels like we need a shower!
-She didn't feel like having sex-- Not everyone just gives it right up!
-She didn't feel like having sex with YOU! Maybe she didn't wanna ruin the friendship.

NO, you should not have gone ahead with it after she told you no! No means no. Lots of guys think no means yes. That's rape.

 

?!?

I don't know how things go at your side, but here, the moment you cross the line, even with a mouth to mouth kiss, things just CANNOT be as they used to...

 

You should have continued in her sleep.

 

--- she saw your dick.

 

some female hurt when any thing is in side them.....could be/maybe size don't mater ANY THING.......

 

Take it at face value, maybe it was late and she was genuinely tired. You did the right thing to not push her. Talk honest with her, you've already crossed the line and your friendship/relationship could hang on being honest with her.

 

Look at the facts: You guys had a great time, you hung out, you danced, you drank and you made out back at hers.

It might have gone further but didnt

Hey things like that can happen, you had both being drinking and partying, it was late so maybe she was genuinely tired

I say dont question it, you had a really great time and perhaps there is a possibility you can repeat things and go the whole way next time. If not it is still going to be a nice experience

 

From my personal experience, I can only say that if she wasn't really drunk or a virgin, normally she should have continued what she has started.
Even if she was drunk, things could be "fixed" the following morning!

Now, regarding the great time they've had together - what's the use of it, if he couldn't get his dick wet?!?
Anyway, this is just my very personal point of view...