I'm 20 years old, I've only had sex once, and I cam in less than 2 minutes... When I'm looking at porn I am so quick to cum, or with that chick, its so frustrating. Does anyone have tips on women, for a bigger man on how to last longer, or if there are any sex teachers out there that would be willing to talk personally & help me out...thanks

 

You're looking for sexuality one floor down. They can help you there.

 

Stamina has a lot to do with how sensitive you are. And in all honesty stamina is like a muscle, it has to be worked out. Like for me, when i was younger, i masterbated just about every freakin day. The result was that i lasted longer and longer. The first time I had sex with my girlfriend we did it three times in 5 hours, just about non-stop. I can easily last half an hour at my weakest, to several hours, or multiple times. It's all about repetition and practice. Also higher physical fitness helps out a lot. So only real way you can get better, is to do it over, and over, and over. But everyone has their peak, some high and some low, but you'll know it.

 

jerk off more, you'll last longer

 

Excercise your PC muscle. With kegel excersises (never tried them myself but I hear good things)

 

Try a cock ring, or a snug fitting condom.

I'm not sure how big you are, girt wise, but the Trojan Ecstasy brand works like a cock ring on me. Once in a great while we will have sex w/o one, and I cum with barley moving. Just put it in, and BAM.

 

It's also called the Asian method, and it does work. PM me for details.

 

I high school I would masturbate before having sex. I learned this trick from an older friend and it worked well. First time I actually did it in her parents bathroom before we left her house.

 

It seems to me like he is a little bit too eager. All the guys that came to quickly when we laid together :excited::excited::excited: were all over excited, not able to contain themselves.:excited::excited: Then before you know it "pop goes the weasel".

 

Don't judge how fast you cum from one experience at 20 years old. Also, don't judge from masturbating. Don't worry about things just yet. It takes a while to figure everything out. A lot of experienced men will cum quickly the very first time they have sex with a woman just from the excitement of getting a new "piece".

 

i had the same problem at your age, as you get more used to intercourse it will get better.
In the meantime try condoms, masturbating or getting a bj before intercourse and relaxing your PC muscles, just concentrate on your anus and push out very gently. it helps!

 

I found a good urologist

He gave a 2.5 % cream to rub under the glans a half hour ahead of time and I can last as long as I want. You have to experiment where to place it so you can still get the pleasure .

 

Relax

Kegals are good, but relaxation is the key. Take it slow, pause now and again when you feel the pressure. You'll soon be lasting longer and longer when you have CONTROL!!

 

So, you've only have had sex once!...
Don't worry about anything!
Just keep on fucking!
The exercise will help you much more than you can imagine!
Good luck!