ok so thanks so much for stereotyping me i really appreciate it anyway yeah i've had recreational sex before i met my husband and actually when i met my husband i had never had sex WITH anyone that i actually loved i might have developed feelings later for them but sex was just sex for me and it was until i fell in love with my husband i've had one night stands probably at an age when you were jacking off thinking about having sex with someone so thank bud REAL fucking nice

 

Sorry if I upset you. I wasn't speaking of you specifically. How could I? I don't know you from Adam. My point was that most of the women that I have known sexually, which numbers over a hundred, tend to need to have some kind of either love or emotional involvement in order to have sex. I dont see where my comments were directed at you personally but you sure took it that way. And as far as your one-night stands taking place while I was at an age while I was still jerking off, who is stereotyping now? You don't know me nor do you have any idea of my sexual history or my age. But I would bet everything I own that I was fucking high school girls on a regular basis while you were still just a gleam in your daddy's eye.

 

uh yeah because you're older than me but i'll put it to you this way i lost my virginity when i was 12 and not 12 about to be 13 like i had just turned 12

 

you mine as well just hand over everything you own to bnthrdntht now because you'd probably lose that bet.

 

How's this for a coincidence? The first girl I had sex with was 12 but sad to report I was an aging 14. So you definitely beat me to the punch on that one. I was so green I before I could even get it in I spurted all over her.

 

mine didn't have that problem lol he was 18 about to be 19

 

Would you watch your spouse having sex?

Only if I didn't have true love for him (or her, as the case may be).

 

I think the idea needs to be put in context. The idea of a threesome....or more.....is very different than the idea that it turns you on to see your wife screwed by another guy.

I'll exsplain.....adding a third party (or more) because it is something you both want to exsperience is not the same as WANTING someone else to screw your partner. The addition of a third opens up many options that would not be possible for a pair. It can add to the sexual "fun" and is not nessisarily a problem. The key is that you are still primarilly interested in each other......the others are there to add variety not to replace our partner. I think that's the attraction of "swinging"....to add variety and is done for fun and to add to your sex life.....not replace it.

On the other hand.......I do know at least one man who is very turned on by the idea of his wife being screwed by another man.....and it is definitely a problem.

He is very vocal about how much he loves to see his wife being screwed by another man. It is very hurtful to her.......makes her feel unappreciated and "cheap". She hates the idea.......not the sex (that's OK) but the attitude.

How do I know this?.....because I was one of those "other men" invited to screw his wife. Didn't know what I was getting into at the time (in more ways than one) but it wasn't a "happy" face I saw from her.

Long story....short version....The wife will soon be my wife and a large part of the reason is because of his attitude. It's not that she objects to adding a partner to the mix.....for "fun".....but feels really cheapened by the desire he has to see her "used" by another man.

Fortunately for everyone involved (because she really does love him)....he is 20+ years older than both of us (and has health problems) so there will not be a messy divorce (we'll just wait until things come to an end naturally). Uncomfortable part is that he is my best friend....so a "natural" isn't such a great thing either.

However.....the attitude is enough that if things were just a little different.....it could have ended badly. Will I ever be involved with another man (or woman) in my relationship.......maybe.

The difference is that if such does happen it will be to add to our sexual relationship....not replace it. And I will never WANT my wife to screw another man because it turns me on.

Best example I guess is with my ex-wife (sex had nothing to do with our divorce and we are still best friends). She wanted to see what it was like to be with two men at once....so invited me to join she and her current boyfriend.

Some of the activities involving two men and one woman require a lot of "trust"....so she chose me to be the "third". However, there was never any hint that I would "replace" him and we were all close friends (damn, isn't a friendly divorce great). The idea was to add to her (and his) pleasure.....not replace anyone. And although a good time was had by all........no one felt "cheap" or used.

Guess it's an attitude thing. I can understand something that "adds" to a relationship....can't understand WANTING to see your wife (girlfriend) being usedd by another.

 

Some times its not a simple matter you can put in context. Example: I did 10+ years in the U.S.Army; there it didn't matter if your spouse was cheering you on while you fucked someone else, if they can prove you did it you can go to jail and your spose will get everything because you cheated.

 

hell yeah

 

I have a beautiful, cut, sexy, VERY PETITE wife. I would love to watch some other guy pound the living shit out of her! And watch her fuck the living shit out of him. I would love to watch her give him head and have him cum all over her face!
As long as it was very HARDCORE FUCKING I would love it!

 

Yes indeedy

Hey.

Interesting topic, especially considering this really is a growing "fad". I would and have watched my partners with other people. I was surprised to find out I get more of a thrill when it's actually a girl I'm in love with. It's still a shared moment... if we play like that it's alwasy with full consent and with each other present. We're doing things to please each other... albeit with the body of another.

My g/f of a year and I have been to a swingers club a few times but not found a couple we wanted to share. we have played with girls there though. Funny, my girlfriend actually finds it easier to have another girl join us than a couple of another guy. She is totally fine with me having another woman join us, but she feels strange screwing another man when she's in love... so she tells me.

I've only been put off the experience once... when I felt a guy who was with my ex was being a little too brutal and enjoying it a bit too much. Picking the right people to play with is everything.

 

Preface: I'm not married, so take my comments for what they're worth.

In high school and college I was insanely jealous of my girl friends. As I grew older, though, I realized that I enjoyed the idea/fantasy of my girlfriend with another guy while I either watched or participated. Fortunately, I have had the opportunity to live out that fantasy a few times, both with former girlfriends and with my current one. I have no doubt that the situation is completely different for those who are married and committed to a monogamous relationship but, for me, the opportunity to participate in threesomes with my gf, or even to watch her being fucked by another guy (always a mutual acquaintance and always safe),has been an incredible turn-on. Then again, maybe I'm just a freak.:-D

 

Okay, guess I can help you out with this. I'll step forward and volunteer.

As for my wife? That's why we have mirrors. I can see her get fucked everytime...by me.

 

my wife and I fantasize about it..

my wife talks about how she would like to be blindfolded and have sex with a stranger while I filmed it. she wants to have cum shot all over her.

 

you have a nice looking wife. I like the large nipples. thanks for sharing.

 

No, I don't share my toys very well, so it wouldn't work for me. Like I always say, "To each their own".......
If i watched it then I'd have to kill him or leave him. I'm sure I'd pick the leaving one!!!

 

I have been in a situaton where it was MFF and it was a married couple. I belive that the experiance made them closer and more open with thier sexual perferances. So I don't see why I wouldnt like to watch my man making sum other woman feel as good as he makes me feel

 

I do often.




In the mirror.



BTW I like your Oscar Wilde quote RP, yet when Margaret Thatcher quoted it people seemed to get very uspet.

 

Good man MM!!! That's the best way in my world too....
Thanks, I like the quote....Actually, I thought she had a great mind, so I'm flattered she used it.....Yours definitely fits you, have you chosen a title yet???