The balance is a "confident man" that doesn't settle for a piece of ass over a woman he can bend to his will and willingly? By being more creative than the last guy, have more stamina, have her orgasms measure multiple (rather than fractional) With or without great looks or a big cock she'll have reasons to come back for more ANALOGY: Men try to hunt for pussy rather then fish, as women know they can aim and at least graze their target? For us men it's what I learned from Penthouse forums and Fishing: 1) You bring the bait (the senses of sight and scent) 2) Bring enough tackle (have the towel, condoms, water based lube and a small new vibrator, optional) 3) Drop a lure not, a line! (lures are being charming, sweet, alluring, intelligent and/or interesting) 4) Be patient and Fish for what you want and not what your willing to settle for? (fishermen throw the small ones back!) Then women have just as much power as we do if we can truthfully say,"No to Mrs. Right Now!"

 

Brilliant.

Wonderfully stated!

 

Ya all the jiggling is hypnotic.

 

Poor baby! Here, let momma take care of your owie...

 

Hmm, the owie just happens to be on the head of my cock...

 

Mmmmm...that's momma's specialty. Ohhhhh, my, look what's all grown up!

 

Nope.. but I do find it depressing that I cant go to the corner store to get a loaf of bread without getting a sexual proposition

dont bitch that we're not treating you as sexual objects when you havent stopped treating us as them

 

To be fair, that's a BROAD generalization. There are plenty of women I don't treat as sexual objects. They just happen to be unattractive.

I think this is a control issue really. Women don't want to be treated as sexual objects, until they've selected someone to be sexually regarded by

Does this not play RIGHT into what the OP is complaining about?

I'm sure you could go the Muslim route and wear a sheet, and then you'd get exactly the same bland asexual consideration straight men give one another. Either you want to be desired or you don't. I think there is a misconception here that in an ideal world women could be treated better than men treat each other without being especially desirable.

 

I have noticed this quite a lot over the years in regards to Craigslist especially, and recently have been discussing this with a woman I met there. As a guy posting on CL, I get maybe 1 or 2 responses from 'real' women....who, even after having fantastic email conversations, tend to stop as soon as they get my picture. Now, a woman posting on CL will get tons of responses from 'real' men, and get the chance to pick and choose which one(s) they follow through with. I've found the same thing for years in chat rooms and such as well....a guy can go into a chat room and say 'hi' and not get any responses....a girl goes into a chat room and gets hit with 20 pm's before she even has the chance to say anything.

 

Here's WHy

http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person/

 

MOST WOMEN, ( IF NOT ALL OF THEM )

" base " a man on " LOOKS " PERIOD.

they say they don't. but, they REALLY DO.

you can sound like the most dearest of darlings " in their eyes ",

BUT, still get thrown to the curb. WHY ?. LOOKS.

women choose SHITTY ASS MEN, to be their lovers, and COMPLAIN
about them, all at the same time. they ALWAYS want QUICK FIX
solutions with, a " R.O.I. " in the quickest/simplist amount of time.

Return On Investment (R.O.I.)

women fall in love, ( QUICKLY ), lay on their backs ( QUICKLY ), for a
man, & get hurt sometime shortly down the road. THEN, they get all
depress, withdrawn, scorn, and so on, in why the guy ( their with )
the way he is.

women confuse " LUST " with " LOVE ". they just don't see it. they have
to CONNECT with a MAN, with their bodies to feel " COMPLETE ".

they won't tell you/us this. this where, the " NICE GUY " comes into
play. they want that " FRIEND IN NEED " aka " YOU ", to be that " EAR ".
that person who will " LISTEN "

( VIOLINS PLAYING PLAYING IN THE BACKGROUND )

ROMEO & JULIET'S THEME SONG

( SHE'S CRYING, SOBBING, SNIFFLING, HONKING HER NOSE )

telling just about all the sad details of him.

( like the ass holes some of us are )

we put up & listen, to their NEVER ENDING BULL SHIT OF A STORY.

AGAIN, being that " NICE GUY " of a shoulder to cry on. to help her
SOLVE/RESOLVE her FUCKED UP ISSUES/LIFE OF HERS.

in the END, she goes either BACK, or finds another like the one before.

in other words, BE AN ASS HOLE. IT WORKS !!. IT REALLY FUCKING
WORKS AT TIMES.

it's okay to be NICE. but, NOT TOO NICE. your seem as TOO SOFT for
WOMEN. they don't like that. be SARCASTIC at times, DON'T buy or
remember their birthdays, christmas, or whatever.

when it's ever brung up, just say very few words like :

that's nice, cool, oh yeah !, what your doing, enjoy yourself, etc.

have very little interests as possible. WOMEN, hate this. they love
ATTENTION, even when they say they don't like attention.

don't return phone calls right away, unless it's an actual EMERGENCY.
call like, a day or two later. if your going out & about, just say you
want to be alone.

some women, like for a man to take them out to dinner/movie
( AND PAY FOR IT ALL )

women also, want a guy to take them out, to a NICE PLACE, so they can
you ( and themselves ) a hook up.

WHY the fuck, do you need a WOMAN, to out on the town with YOU, in
or to find/or hook up with someone ?.

AS IF, you can't find one on your own. this another reason, for a woman
persuaying a man, to take them out, and spend money on them.

think about it. how much ( times ), does a woman/women goes DUTCH ?.
or, pays for a MAN at that ?.

something YOU & ALL MEN, should think about.