Well really? I got that part haha and hey..... I know some of those kind of guys lmao!!!

 

I like the way you think agreed!!

 

I have to have feeling toward the girl to make love.

If I don't, I feel it just fake and annoying....

 

Ya I agree you have to have feelings for the person. But having feelings and being in love is two different things. I don't really enjoy having sex w someone I don't at least care about cause feeling play into sex and make sex that much more intense!!!

 

This might sound strange, but I think making love is almost a precursor to actually falling in love. You have feelings for the other person if you're trying to make love as opposed to outright fuck, and I think it can be the physical expression of telling them "Hey I think this relationship really has potential."

Perhaps I'm wrong though and making love is actually your body telling your mind "Yes, you are in love."

 

You just may have a good point there. I think your body sometimes takes control and tries to speak for your mind. Hard to control that. Your body feels things as does a persons mind. Both possess a lot of power so which one is right your body or your mind? Hummmm lol

 

I finally got lucky by chance after a long cold dry spell. The SEX was great and I had a wonderful orgasim. I thought about that thrilled for a week afterward. After another bit of time I got lucky again with a beautiful man-god, we made love passionatly all night and I was in love from the moment he took off his cloths and got in my bed! Something wonderful happened to me by those two hot (my last two times getting laid in a row) I guess I'm making little sence but to share I've discovered a more gratifying climax within myself. Thanks

 

My answer to your question is very simple. I've MADE LOVE to
my wife many,many times in 34 years of marriage but I've
NEVER FUCKED her!:excited::excited: There's a vast difference.

 

That's the sweetest thing ever!!! Aawww

 

Making love...vs...being in love.

Making love is just another name for having sex. It is fun and enjoyable and shared with another person. By yourself it is just masterbation.

Being in love means you are willing to sacrifice your desires and wants to satisfy the desires and wants of another. It may or may not include sex. Ususally not.

 

I think there's different kinds of sex though. There's sex as an expression of love, and there's sex as a primal desire.

 

It is just fucking, slow or fast, if you are not in love.

 

Making love is for oldpeople. Wild uninhibited fucking with someone u find sexy as fuck is the way to go unless you are Swiss or over 55. Wheelbarrows are always a good option but can one fall in love with a wheelbarrow?

 

Making love isn't just for older people it's for people that are passionate & romantic, affectionate some guys know nothing about all that lol

 

you have to be in love yes otherwise its just getting laid

 

I'm of the opinion (as it seems are a lot of others) that unless you're in love with the person you're with you're just fucking. The act of pleasuring yourself regardless of your partner's needs. If you take her needs into consideration then you care about her and you're making love.

 

But just cause you care about someone doesn't always have to mean your in love either. It's interesting to hear everyone's views. I myself still think you can make love without being in love. Now it might make feelings arise but that can happen with sex, fucking, foreplay. Like these lyrics....I'm gonna put it down your gonna fall in love!!! Haha

 

Not that I'm an expert in this matter as I've only been with my wife sexually and I'm clearly in love with her, but I do think that you have to be in love to make love. If I was fucking a chick just purely for sex, I don't think I would ever "make love" to her. Just my opinion....but like I said...I don't have any experience.

 

The love you make is equal to love you take.

 

Look at it this way: You don't need to be in pancakes to make pancakes, do you?