First up I KNOW I am not going to be every mans cup of tea.

Anyhow, last week I got talking to a guy on an adult "dating" site I'm a member of we arranged a date now on that site my pics make it very clear what I look like naked!

So we had a date last Thursday night then went back to his place got a bit hot and heavy but we didn't have sex because I had my own reasons for not being able to that night (which I had told him about that morning), anyway we arranged to see each other again on the Monday night but as it turned out he called me on the Saturday night instead and asked me over so I said yes.

After we'd had sex he told me he would still like to see me again on the Monday night as was originally arranged. On the sunday afternoon we exchanged a few texts but I sensed something was not right. So I said to him if you've changed your mind let me know.

He texted back with: "I enjoyed last night however we are not a match no sexual attraction when naked"

I just do not understand men I mean for fucks sake he seen my photos he knew fine well what he was getting. The sex was crap he came (a lot I might add) whereas I just could not "get there".

Still though why fuck somebody if you are not attracted? He could have been honest as soon as he seen the photos. Plus HE messaged me! He wouldn't leave me alone kept sending messages for an entire week before I replied.

Probs doesn't help he is a vocalist on and off so he has that type of ego.

Sorry just venting

 

Hmmmmmmm.

Just a quick question before commenting any further....

Are you coyote ugly?

 

No

 

Maybe post a couple of pics and let the men (and women) of xnxx decide for ourselves?

 

Face it, Julie...you just became another notch on his bedpost. He waited until AFTER you had sex with him to tell you he wasn't attracted to you.

But he was attracted enough to fuck you...once. He would have been attracted to a ripe watermelon too, most likely.

 

Albums freely available on my profile

 

First of all, and I cannot speak for all men but I like to fuck a girl who is dressed for sex. There is something overtly sexual fucking a girl in her underwear or with her skirt hiked up but maybe that is my fetish.

The problem here is being nice after casual sex. Next time while you are giving the guy a blow job just slip your finger up his arse. If he shoots right away then he is probably yours to do with as you please for the next couple of hours. If he is into it then you have a potential mate and if he rejects it then it should not be too much problem getting him out of the door. I promise you none of them will be nasty after sex.

Did Kimi just call you a ripe watermelon. I think she means good enough to eat.

Thinskin

 

Hmmmmmmmm.

One more question before I comment any further....

Are you still breathing?

 

I was hoping their was a compliment in there somewhere but who knows? LOL

 

Glad to know i'm not the only one confused by that.


I'm afraid Kimiko may be right here Its never good being rejected for whatever the reason but unfortunately people can be dicks. Sometimes applying logic to human behaviour is like trying to shove an Elephant through a letterbox, extremly difficult and not worth the hassle. Just gonna have to move on and not let the experience drag you down.

 

I guess that didn't come out quite right.

What I meant was just that he was looking to score, and having done so, was finished with you. Not flattering, I guess, but I didn't mean it that way.

 

Julie,

I was just kidding around earlier.

The truth is that we dudes will pretty much fuck anything that has a pulse. (Some even will fuck things that don't have one. )

Are you really going to let dudes such as myself have power over you by turning to us for any validation of your "sexiness"? Because if you're going to do that you need to realize that deep down dudes such as myself are sick fucks who don't necessarily find the same things to be "sexy" that women do....

https://forum.xnxx.com/showthread.php?t=320927

In other words...that dude probably just wasn't attracted to your anal rosebud.

:mrgreen:

 

he probably messaged you a lot because men are horny fucks and him having someone to release all those thoughts on worked for him. it was all just psychological ...sorry that happened to you, guys are jerks, but don't worry about it anymore. men will always be attracted to women that way

 

The guy was just a user scumbag, Julie, don't take his actions or statements as any judgement of your looks or worth. Guys will promise you the moon and stars to get laid then after cumming say, "oh, yeah, I can't reach them."

 

What, you fuck on the 2nd date and you expect some kind of respect or commitment? Honestly, if I fucked a girl on the 2nd day, there probably wouldn't be a 3rd date. I mean, how many other guys did you fuck on the 1st, 2nd or 3rd date before you met him?

No attraction when naked can mean a number of things but to me, real, physical attraction comes from getting to know somebody, not by looking at their pics on a porn site. Get real. You go to hook-up websites, you got a hookup. To expect anything more is unrealistic.

 

Not Me..

Julie: Sorry this guy treated you this way, Sorry but hes an Ass Hole. Not all guys are like this, and all he wanted from you was to, Well you already know that.

Just forget the Ass Hole and move on with your life...

Meathead:

Julie check your PMs.

 

It's not you, it's him. Like you said, he knew what he was getting into.

 

You seem really sweet, and I just had a look at some of your galleries and you got me like a rock in about 2 seconds flat.

No sexual attraction.. was he gay, or actually dead??!

Come to Australia one day (insert down under jokes here). I'd love to hear your voice...

(I really hope that didn't come off as creepy )

 

Please dont take this the wrong way but he was only interested in having sex with you, probably because he thought you would be an easy lay ( which clearly you were). Once he had got what he was after it was time to move on.

Not all guys are like this and I hope you find someone who loves your body and loves you for who you are and doesnt see you as just another notch n the bed post.