Hey,

Sometimes when I have a long drawn out wank I get a real urge to cock my hips up and spray my load all over my body and face, even in my mouth - real messy. But the immediate post-wank feeling for me and some friends I talked to (about general masturbation not smothering myself in my own cum.) is that after cumming its a pretty quick crash down to reality.

Any tips on dealing with this urge or any experiences to share?

 

I too keep it hard for some time then cum....sometimes it even hurts, but I like it!!!!!!!!!!!! as for the mess I put a klenx on the pit every time some times it not enuff...:excited: have fun

 

if you like to cum all over yourself then do it. there is noting wrong with that. i love to cum all over myself when i masturbate too. its hot.

 

Sometimes when I "edge," meaning to masturbate for a long time without cumming, I can milk some cum- not just pre-cum, out of my cock. I catch it in my palm. Then I like to taste it and smear it on my face. But like you said, when I do explode with cum I loose interest in cum.

 

Went for it. Legs in the air and aimed a load in my mouth. Felt a bit silly after and spat it out... But actually getting a bit horny thinking about it.

 

Why feel silly? Lots of guys do it. Like nazty, and others, once I come, it's over! But if u learn the 'edging' technique, then ul b able to produce loads of pre-cum, start by tasting that.
I was able to edge some full cum, before I orgasmed, and started tasting that!

I figure, if I expect a girl to swallow, I should at least b able to stomach it myself lol

Good man

 

Im like you. Afterwards it never seens a hot as it did while my orgasm is biulding up.

 

No tips since I have lady bits BUT I can tell you I'm getting all hot and bothered just thinking of you doing that to yourself :excited:

I'm sure most of us have thought and done stuff while masterbating that's made us think 'huh??' afterwards. It all depends on your level of arousal at the time as to how dirty you get.

I can feel pretty low sometimes after getting off alone but I think that's because there isn't anyone to enjoy the 'afterglow' with. Maybe that's your problem and not the fact that you like to come all over yourself? Doubt you would feel so low after if a woman had just orgasmed from watching you do bad, naughty things to yourself.......

I say just do it and enjoy it :excited::excited:

 

Well I found that after a whole month of "delayed satisfaction" the afterglow usually lasts longer the third time around. And I do mean third, for some strange reason the first two isn't that hot, the third orgasm (at least within 12 hours apart) does tend to make toes curl and a pleasant flush to remain for a longer period...

But on the other hand, a good orgasm after a long tease or like they called it "building up" especially after a while of abstaining also tends to leave a longer period of euphoria.

 

I often have the same problem. While I'm masturbating the thought of my hot creamy load in my mouth really turns me on. Or while I'm fucking my wife I'm thinking I would love to lick my cum out of her pussy. But every time I cum the urge quickly goes away.
I found that if I play with my dildos and rub my prostrate I can milk a lot of creamy cum out of my hard cock and still have the feeling of wanting it in my mouth also I tell my wife before we start that I want her to sit on my face after I cum and for her to make me eat it.
I've also did the legs over my head and came all over my face and down my throat.

 

...only realized now that I missed the point.

-facepalm-

I like to study cum, how it loses color and then finally dries out into a crust...some even landed in my mouth once and it had a nice taste to it...so I think it must be personal preference about how quickly you grow tired of cum after your orgasm

 

It'll take some practice, but just relax and try to stay in that aroused zone. Don't think about anything else other than your cock cumming, sex, and beautiful bodies. Keep the porn going and zone into it. After awhile, you'll find it pleasurable to be there with your cum on your face, watching porn, your cock starting to get hard again.

 

Its really very common to get a lot naughtier than usual when your very aroused. The longer you build up, the more "angst" you create, the father down the path of extreme eroticism you can go. Then, as soon as you cum, that angst is all released, and you lose that real erotic high. It sucks being male. Men have a whole lot of sexual fantasies that come out when our angst is high, most that wed never tell a friend( thank you internet for anonymity and a place to talk about our quirks) so what you experience is not at all uncommon. I Love my own cum when Im aroused, then am done with it as soon as I cum

My solution was to tell my wife about my little quirks, and then ropleplay a domination thing where she makes me do those things....shes had me jack off into a shot glass and then drink it, eat her out after intercourse, and even lick out her ass after anal sex. The end result was it was extremely erotic. In fact, if she has me go down on her right after I cum, I often get erect again as I do it, and can go again....not a usual thing for this 55yr old man.

 

I sense a 'post your cum on your lips' coming on - maybe LadyRaven can be the judge?

 

You guys really need to get over this idea you have that after you cum, you lose all interest in everything sexual. It's the same syndrome that causes guys to jump out of bed after they have sex, throw on their clothes and bolt out the door. Or that causes guys to roll over and go to sleep after one orgasm.

It doesn't have to be that way, and I've known lots of men who can testify to that. You need to try harder. One orgasm is just an appetizer, an hors d'oeuvre.

 

She wants seconds and plenty more till you drop dead of exhaustion.

 

Exactly!

 

I cum on myself often not all the time though. I think it makes the experience much better, than finding a tissue or something to cum on.

I have the erge to eat my cum alot when masturbating, and I do taste my pre cum sometimes. But after I have my full ejaculation I lose the erge to taste it.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with cumming on yourself or tasting your cum. Its very normal to lose interest or "regret" doing it after ejaculating. If you do it enough you will get used to it, and not think its wierd. Just dont tell your gf that you like to taste your own cum. Even though you think its hot when she tastes her own, doesnt mean she is going to think its hot when you do it. Just my opinion

 

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I usualy don't have to worry about huge loads couse I jerk it 4-5 times a day. If I'm super horny then I shoot huge loads and love it when I can spray it in my mouth

 

Nothing wrong with it. Its normal to lose interest afterwards. I use to cum all over myself all the time, clean it up and move on.