I have never had a serious problem, and I am very free in offering "benefits."

I have had sexual relationships with lots of men who were otherwise only "friends." In general, it hasn't been a problem. I am still sexually open to almost all my exes, and they seem to like that arrangement.

 

*laughing* I had one "ex" like that who perhaps carried things to extremes. He called me up very late one night, when I was asleep. I fumbled for the phone, picked it up, and mumbled a hello. He told me he really wanted to come over, and was it okay? Half asleep, I mumbled something to him that he evidently took as a "yes", and then I promptly fell asleep again. Awhile later, I woke up to find his very large, very stiff cock buried deep in my pussy.

That'll teach me to leave my door unlocked.

 

Actually babe I had a key cut.

thinskin

 

I think it's second place to what most people really want. If you're happy to settle for it, fine - but sooner or later it won't be enough, either for one or both partners. That's when the relationship either folds or develops.

 

I LOVE waking up to find a stiff cock buried deep in my pussy. Do you still have his number? He sounds fun.

 

Think I'm about to get in one. Let's see how it goes...

 

I had an amazing FWB!

Never grew feelings for her, she never grew feelings for me. It was so damn perfect. She'd text me a few times a week, and I would come over. Usually it would start by some kissing, then me stripping her and sucking her nipples, then me going down on her, she loved to tell me where to lick and how hard/fast, her favorite was me sticking my tongue deep into her pussy, getting my finger wet and teasing around her asshole(never going in) while I licked her clit. After she would cum, she would go down on me and do it exactly the way I liked it to until I came too, would always tongue inside my foreskin, lick my balls. So we both had the best oral experiences.

Then we would just sit around watch tv, and usually 30 minutes later we would have sex once or twice.

Then I would go home.

She would always send me naked pics too, her body was so fucking SEXY. She had that perfect skinny girl body! I would send her pictures of my cock too, and me cumming while I jerked to her pics she would send me.


But I do agree, normally it doesnt work out. But it did for me. AMAZING summer

 

I had a FWB for about 4 months in college. Only called her when I need to "unload". She gave the best blow job of my life. Im talking porn star shit here.

I never felt anything for her at all. As far as I know she felt nothing as well, but of course I am a heartless unemotional prick.

Anyway, it all ended when I meant my current girlfreind. I just stopped calling her and it was over. And thats all its should be. No emotion, no attachment. Only way it can work

 

Wondering here in Missouri

If I thought there was anyone near me that is serious about such a relationship then I would welcome it. But though I have been looking, I have yet to find anyone. So either there is no such thing or the group of people interested is very tiny.

 

I've thought about finding a FWB, but I know myself too well. I know that for me to have sex with someone, I have to be somewhat attracted to them, which means that I know I would want it to become more, which "violates" the FWB principle.

 

You guys talk about friends with benefits as if you could go buy one at Wal-Mart. You can't go looking for them...they just happen. You have a friend, and one day you just decide to fuck. That's how it happens.

 

We need to make up a term like friends with benefits,...but for secretive married ppl looking for some fire in their life.

 

Can't say they never work just that they may not always work. I had three that worked but only ended when one of us moved away. One that worked for many years and still would if she was around, the thing is we were truly FWB we were friends for so long, we both found each other sexy but never really wanted to date, the sex changed nothing except that we got laid way more than ever. If I say it's just about sex I mean it and I won't change so if I meet somebody that truly feels the same it will be that way until one of us wants to stop then it ends without any hard feelings.

 

I found that most people associate sex with love, and those who don't tend to be complete asses. I'm a single mom (father deceased) so I keep my sex life sa far away from my private life BUT I won't just sleep around with just any body so enter the FWB. I have to really like them and trust them enough to keep our activities discrete AND share similar sexual interests. Put all of that on top of not being able to do these things anywhere near my home town makes it hard to find a play partner that can satisfy.

 

love friends with benifits

friends with benifits good topic i love it its good to have a steady fuck buddy male or female and stay good friends with out commitment pussys pussy and dick is dick as long as u can and know how to please ur partner weather it be life partner or fuck buddy ull have a good time doing soo

 

For me, there has to be some obvious reason that the relationship couldn't be more. Both my FWB's were much younger than me - too young for either of us to consider a LTR.

 

Friends Fuck!

I think friends fuck.
Or fuck each other's partner.
well I do.

 

Just a healthy Mancunian libido!

Hi Gemma.

thinskin

 

Hi thinskin

 

I don't think there is anything wrong with having friends with benefits...