I was wondering if men enjoy the superfast mouth work of some women, or the slower, more teasing licking and sucking of others? Most porn videos show almost speeding bj's while I prefer to spend time on my man, leading up to an, I think, more satisfying finish. But, I need to know what most men feel. Opinions?

 

Fast or slow.... YES!

 

In truth, I prefer them slow. Make it last, build me up until I can't take it anymore then let me go!

 

A friend I ply with loves to suck cock, and she is great at it. I love to have her slow and fast at times.

 

Slow, usually

I like most sex slow. That doesn't mean lazy, it means appreciative. A sex act should be like a fine wine or a good steak. You take your time and savor them. I generally don't gobble a pussy, so I like to be treated to quality attention too.

Now, if it's THAT kind of night, seeing how fast you can bring a partner off can be great fun, but more often than not, I like to forget the clock.

 

I prefer slower, deeper sucking motions with the lips fully engaging my cock, especially when pulling back. Not everybody can do this well. There's also no one speed fits all. The person needs to feel the person's reaction and guage speed accordingly, it varies. Rarely does super fast feel the best to me. Steady would be a better term.

 

Definitely slow, makes the ending much more satisfying!

 

I prefer a nice slow blow job. with a lot of tongue and hands on. and don't forget the balls.

 

Much better answer than mine.

"The person needs to feel the person's reaction and guage speed accordingly...." -- that's the key to it. I like my partner to pay attention to my verbal and non-verbal cues, just like I do when I'm down on her.

 

One of my favorite sexual memories is of ONLY using my mouth on my man, no hands involved, just my wet mouth giving good suction, and hot licks up and down his cock, and around to his balls. I was wildly turned on by his extreme pleasure, mmmmm. Good times!!

 

Nice, long and slow. Lots of tongue and throat. Lick the shaft and suck and lick the head. Then when I want to pump out my cum it can be fast and deep

 

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I believe we all want that blowjob to last as long as it possibly can. The good suction you speak of is something my wife just has not come close to perfecting...but I desire so much more of. But when it reaches that point of no return, then I want to be devoured...hard, fast, and deep. I want to explode deep inside her throat until my entire body shakes beneath her.

But that's just me.

 

I find that most women just seem to go at it full belt untill the guy comes,but in my case at least,its fast at first then as i feel like i am going to cum,i like it slowed down,then it just hits the spot.At the point of coming,the penis becomes very sensitive,bit like the girlfriends clit i guess
and need the speed reduced

 

My first wife used to literally wank me off with her mouth. She set a very high bar for me and all subsequent girls that followed. No one has matched her for blow job technique.

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I prefer a nice steady pace, doesn't have to be too deep, just a good up and down motion, plenty of saliva, occasionally balls deep isn't a bad idea either

 

Slow. The longer the better. Even if time is short, I'd rather be left frustrated to enjoy it more later.
The slower the stimulation, the better the orgasm in my experience.
I love lots of quite firm pressure on the head of my cock so when a woman knows how to really orally pleasure, I'm in heaven.
For as long as she will give me.

 

Slow until I'm close to cumming, then faster

 

In bj i'd prefer the slow one but the rest of sex I like it fast , come on vome on bany ride it fast iiiihhaaaaa lol

 

Used to? She doesn't anymore?