it's not the destination but the journey that makes it worth the whole trip. slow slow by all means slow

 

You got to mix it up or else it could become boring. If its just the same motion over and over again it becomes boring

 

slow take your time the longer I'm hard the harder I cum!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

That looks perfect. I'm in heaven just watching and imagining.

 

Well since I only see her once every couple of years let's just say the frequency has gone down considerably!

thinskin

 

slow and steady wins the race. fast can be good if it has to be a quickie though.

 

Most guys I've known liked it slow and steady, like the man says.

 

I prefer it slow, it feels more intimate and like my partner wants to ly back with pleasure for awhile, not just get a fast one out.

 

Fast and sloppy, I like feeling the inside of her throat

 

She's got that whole lip-caress thing down.

 

Fellatio connoisseur

Sorry to resurrect an old thread, but I've been away awhile, so these are all showing up as new for me.

I have very strong feelings on this subject (not surprising I suppose considering I have a cock!) But its partly because I think the majority of porn videos miss the full potential of what oral can be...

My view is this: I can provide a woman with alot of pleasure with my cock inside her, but manual stimulation is a completely different sensation. I have eight fingers and two thumbs, and far more dexterity and control with them than I have with my cock. I can, for example, have two fingers inside her, massaging her g-spot, while my thumb circles her clit and her nipple is being rolled and pulled by the fingers of my other hand. I can't do that with my dick! In the same way, I am able to provide an entirely different level and type of sensation with my lips and tongue. Each activity has things to recommend it, things that make it unique.

What I see too often in porn is fellatio reduced to no more than...well... mouth-fucking. I'm not saying that doesn't feel good. I've felt it, and yes it does. But...sigh. If you want that hard, fast, intense sensation...why not just have intercourse? What makes oral unique is its potential for teasing, tantalizing, exquisite sensation. I love the way it feels, but strange as it may sound, I'm not usually able to come that way! Maybe because I've just been with women who's technique wasn't exemplary, or who were eager to move on to other things. But the point is, it feels fantastic, feels like every single nerve is brought to life, but I can stand it for much longer without reaching the point of inevitable orgasm.

In the same way, I can give a woman head for...a very long time...just paying attention to her body language and varying the intensity so that I bring her right to the edge, and then back it off and bring her back again and again. Its hard to have that level of subtle control with non-oral. And I think that's what people miss out on when they use this head-pistoning, throat-fucking technique where their hair is flying back and forth like a heavy-metal drummer! Don't get me wrong, I'm not judging if that's your thing! And no question it can be exciting. But I guess I'm saying, if you like to chug your beer, you should still try sipping your champagne.

A picture is worth a thousand words (and I'm pushing that number!) so I looked for a video to illustrate what I see as the perfect blow-job. This amateur woman from Germany, who goes by Klixen I believe, has become justifiably famous. You'll see why. I have to say with some sadness that I've only received this kind of oral in my fantasies...

http://www.xnxx.com/video1115800/slow_cum

 

slow.. gazing up at me. lots of tongue!

 

i like it slow but if my dick is in a chicks mouth and she sucks it fast I don't care

 

It depends on how good the bj is.
A very good one I like it slow.
If it isn't the best I prefer it to be fast.

 

Hell any bj would be great to me.

 

I used to think the same way. Thought the same way about fucking also.
I learned better. There is such a thing as a lousy fuck and bad bj.
At least with a fuck you can fake it. Not much chance with a bj. You just try to get it over as fast as possible.

 

Fast or slow doesn't matter got a bj anyway .

 

I like it slow and deep. Buried down her or his throat balls deep and milking my cock off with their throat.

 

Agree100%, definitely slow.~love~