I think you have your head on straight, BB. I see nothing wrong with using a site like this the way you use it. I have no doubt that it has added something to my own sex life with my husband.

Now shut up and fuck me.

 

Couldn't agree more, I come from a similar backround and some times come here just to get warmed up.....sometimes to explore and learn about myself. If you can see through some of the b.s. it really is a good time.

 

kimi - you are far too sexually experienced for a one person man like me to mess with

 

For me its a little different.. I look at both women and men.. I am open and honest with everyone I am in a relationship with. I am single now.. because in my last relationship.. I was cheated on. it was not a " on line " relationship " but he found someone where he works. Its all up to each relationship, the trust and what each person is about. To be honest.. I would like to get more comments from women on here then I do the men.. sometimes the men on here forget that not everyone likes what they say as their first comments.. get to know the person who you are sending the messages to before you say some of the crude stuff that is sent.. some may not like it. I am looking to get to know people first then ..maybe.. go from there.. and see what happens.. yes I love to see hot pictures.. both women and men.. and have been in relationships with both men & women & have gone to strip clubs to have a little fun and such.... Anyway .. its up to each person and their relationship on why they are here.. Be honest with each other..:excited:

 

ok - I'd honestly like you to be on your knees :excited:

 

I think the little bit of guilt that comes over us make all the more exciting. Not knowing what's gonna happen next is the best part

 

i think BB hit the nail on the head brilliant explanation BB......i do often feel guilty about it, i adore my hubby and would never cheat on him, he is the best man in the world, with the exception of my sons. i came on here mainly to read stories because i am highly sexed and they helped stimulate my mind, i then spilled over into the forum becasue i wanted to message someone about a story he/she had written, so came on board had a look around and was astounded by the friendliness of the people, not all dirty old men in flashamacks which i suspected it would be. i too have left on numerous occassions sometimes through guilt, sometimes through people getting to me, but like BB said there is something that draws me back, dunno if it is the friends i have made or just the daft interaction and flirting....in real life i suffer terribly with shyness and wouldnt flirt with anyone, but on here it is easy, it gives me a giggle and also gotten ideas for the bedroom on here so made our sexlife a tad more exciting. My hubby and i have been together 20 years, still fuck numerous times everyday, and are lucky enough to still be in love and fancy each other so again i ask myself why do i come here, hubby hates porn, so i shouldnt be here.

 

OK telem - just so you know - you're NEVER allowed to leave ok ?

 

if i threaten to would you promise to handcuff me to something to prevent me doing so lol i promise i will return the favour

 

i could cuff you to the scrabble board

 

+1...

I don't have much more to contribute as I am alike to both BB and Sully. My missus hates me being here, but I come back from time to time for a good perv at the ladies (yes... I'm a perv), to read stories (and yes, I'd like to contribute to them, but alas my time here is quite limited), to play a few of the funny word games and very occasionally (unfortunately these days) send a few 'better friends' a few naughty PM's. This is just fun and I like to keep it as fun.... just my 2 cents.....

 

For what it is worth

As a man who has flirted with some of you sexy ladies, I can truly say that I deal with guilt being a married man...a lot of guilt. Frustration and lack of sex over a long number of years creates this need to be wanted...something my marriage has lacked for a long time now. I have never cheated on my wife though, and truth be said, this chatting is probably one of the reasons for that. It does help to relieve some of the stress in my mind...yes, other places too...but mainly my mind. It at least fills in a little of the void that would normally be present.

 

A little flirting never hurt anybody. Well, maybe. But unless they tell you they are married or in relationship YOU are assuming they are. What I don't get is when a guy is talking to me trying to make conversation, his GF assumes I am hitting on him.

 

Tell me something...if you were having a drink in a hotel bar somewhere, away from home, and a girl sat down next to you and began flirting with you, making it obvious that she wanted to have sex with you, would you take her up to her room, despite all those feelings of guilt?

 

There's an old saying:

A standing cock has no conscience.

 

Exactly. That's my theory about men...that it's all about opportunity. Given the right (i.e. risk-free) opportunity, most men will overcome whatever guilt they have, and start thinking with their cocks.

 

Women do the same except that they don't even have a cock to blame it on...

 

Well for me as a single guy, I come on here to chat/flirt and read stories.
I also hold a thread of my own where I write my poems, I do however like to interact with the friends I have made, I know some are married and in relationships. I don't expect them all to be up for a naughty dirty fun time, or just some random cyber or sex talk. lol I know that's expecting too much, but I do like to know they're around to chat to and get to know and flirting is nice once in a while when you don't add anything else into the mix like trying to win their heart and so on..

I know not all females talk much or respond to PM's due to certain reasons, so it's not a loss in any case if I don't hear from the female friends I have made.. I just take it as a another day on a sex site that has a monotonous feeling to it.. lol

Which is why I rarely bug anyone and stay to myself..

 

We're all little horny fucks. its all innocent fun. I'm a single horny guy I come here to get off and to chat with Ppl I have met awesome Ppl here. Meet me in person I'm the shy type. On her I'm not as shy. I will be the first to admit I'm every perverted on here but get to know me as a person and not the perverted one. You'll have a friend for life.

 

I'm single so I have nothing to feel guilty about on that score and I've never initiated any activity with anyone here (attached or otherwise).

I have accepted offers of interaction and it's been 100% positive experience so far.
I don't ask about anyone's relationship status. Why should I?
I'm not actually having real sex with anyone except myself and I'm not here to police anyone else's relationship.
XNXX provides a good sexual outlet for many people in many different ways and the forum provides something extra that allows us to safely interact with other real people.
I refuse to feel guilt over it and so should you Lady Raven.

If someone's partner doesn't know they use this site then the act of signing up for the account in the first place was the actual cheating. Not anything you or I do once they sign up and willingly interact with us.

If their partner knows that they have an account with this forum but expect you or I to check the relationship status of other users before we interact and deny interaction based on that then they are deluded.

I like this forum and I like what goes on here (on the whole) so I will continue to do what I do and other guys can worry about what their wives or girlfriends get up to.

Alternatively, I could hang out in pick-up joints and fuck real women behind their husband/boyfriend's back.
Which do you think would hurt those guys the most?

Leave your inhibitions and guilt at the door before you enter.....