I have seen this subject brought up before, but want opinions again. My spouse doesn't know I play here or chat. Would you consider this cheating? Yes I do enjoy a good play time, but that's all it is, playtime, my time.

 

I do not consider this cheating,,, I know my gf talks on sex sites, be neither one of us have cheated ,,, yet !!

 

If anything my wife considers this fun and games, is your man the easily jealous type or does he appreciate your sexuality as a plus? (and there's your answer)

 

+1

i'd 2nd that , men are different my friend here wouldn't consider it cheating on the other hand i would for 2 reasons

1- u are being discreet about it and this mean you don't trust me

2- u are getting sexual pleasure *of any kind* with other guys *whatever the way* and i just don't share

so what type of men ur husband is

 

It's not cheating if you're not meeting anybody.

 

Its not cheating, but it still could upset some guys. Personally, I wouldnt care; but I would want my wife to let me know what she's doing.

 

Not cheating but maybe approach him with the fact that you are using this site. Explain it gets you revved upped to mount him and receive all his glory. Who knows maybe he will let you play and he can fulfill your fantasy/desires in the process.

 

I am in the same boat as you

 

Not Cheating

I'd say definitely not. This site stops me cheating.
I can have fun and no harm is done.
She would be upset if she found out.
But it's better than having an affair. Right?

 

If he doesn't know about it and you don't feel you can tell him, it's probably because you know HE would consider it cheating.

If I were you, I would consider telling him. It might just turn him on.

 

This comment is so right on! If you don't want to tell him for fear of endangering the relationship well then chances are the relationship isn't as compatible as you want. Relationships that last usually see things like this as spice rather than something derogatory. And if being on this site ISN'T in your opinion, worth losing him, then you have a decision to make concerning your participation on this site. But hopefully that's just being waaaayyyy too heavy. Good luck.

 

It is absolutely not cheating, Again come on here for what I know she is not into but I am so I play. People's opinion are different so it is how you feel. If it is ok it is ok.

 

I dont feel that this is cheating, it is part of my alone time, no harm in some flirting or playful chats or pms, as long as I only touch at home

 

Who cares what anyone else would consider,, do you feel guilty receiving the pleasure that you seek on this site??


ALWAYS REMEMBER THIS;

''eatin' aint cheatin' and suckin' aint fuckin' ''

 

I've been feeling the same way, 'Is this cheating?' My husband doesn't know I'm on this site. I've done some chatting that has pushed me out of my comfort zone which he has benefitted from He's ok with me looking around at adult sites and stuff, but I know he would not like it if he found I chatted with anyone.

 

Your husband ''BENEFITED'' from it,, that's the reality.:rose:

 

I personally don't think of it as cheating. I mean really,...how is it much different than when a women is reading 50 Shades of Grey or something like that and is getting turned on? She could be fantasizing about hundreds and hundreds of men or women at that time.
But if my wife was doing this,...I for one would ask myself,..what am I doing or not doing for my wife that would steer her to cyber space for some extra fun? Or maybe, how can "we" both make this a win win for us.

 

cheating isn't just dick to pussy

 

My partners and I have a rule, if you are cybering, playing, or anything else, you have to be honest about it or it's cheating.

Why? Because our relationships started online and through words so we have to be up front and honest. Online stuff while doesn't allow for physical touch, can be more dangerous if you and your real partner aren't on a deep connection. I could talk to and deeply fall in love with someone because they are getting to know my heart, soul, and mind where as a random physical hook-up is pure lust and no love what so ever. I treat every online interaction as the real thing.