I just red a thread about a guy who can't cum or last too long and it annoys him and while reading the virgin in me started to wonder would i have the same problem ? or would i cum too fast , or would it be like masturbation i can control it from 1 min up to 2-3 hours, u know the over thinking type

ANYWAY


my questions are , how long is too long ? like how much a lady expect a guy to last?

and for u guys , how long do u last ?

 

The first time i didn't, now i depends on her.

 

I'm a virgin as well but I have no idea how long I'll last. The only reference I have is when I got handjob and lasted for five minutes. How much is too long, I guess it depends on what the person wants within that time frame. Do you want to experience everything sex has to offer or just fuck without a care in the world. I think you're overthinking it as you have stated.

 

lol..I can keep cumming many times so he can get off as fast or slow as he wants cause i don't mind taking over while he rest a few.Be playful and erotic and do it again there is no time frame

 

When I start channel hopping with the remote is a clue.
But don't stop on my account...

 

There's no set time but, it can become really frustrating for a partner and even insulting if they feel there is something wrong with their efforts that your not cumming?

 

i guess , but that wasn't my question tho sir

 

OP. Typically male virgins or just about guys in general that haven't had sex in awhile may worry about premature ejaculation over, say not cumming at all.

If you are young and healthy, I would recommend not worrying about it either way.

If you do cum too quickly, there are ways to take care of your partner if they wish to continue. For example, if they continue to move their hips and you lose your erection, you can use your hand and fingers. Sometimes, you can ejaculate, stay hard and put on a new condom and keep going. Or take a break and resume. Or sheepishly get dressed and leave. lol. Kidding.

There are a number of factors for not being able to climax as well but, my recommendation would be to enjoy the experience, discover what you both enjoy and then see how it goes.

 

I have this problem too, not sure if it's from jerking off too much, getting older, or bored with sex with the wife. For me too long is the point where I'm just exhausted - too tired to continue banging away - most often 1-2 hours. My wife has started taking it personally. I have stopped all masturbation to try and "build up" the sexual desire.

 

It would seem by "How long do they expect us to last?" I've answered the question quite well, maybe I missed the underlining hidden message? LOL

 

oh no in that case u're good , i thought u were talking about the 2nd part of my post

 

Redemption Cool!

 

Where in hell do these 20 something virgin guys come from??? I was sexually doing things at 9 and no longer a virgin at 14. Most guys fuck before reaching 20.

 

not that i couldn't get some , it is just a matter of believes so yep there are 20+ virgins

 

Don't point fingers and snicker when you consider that between all of the diseases and bad relationships, being a little older and a little wiser before sex may not be a bad thing!

 

+10.

 

once my hubby enters me he doesnt even last a minute sometimes he doesnt even get to enter me before he shoots his load, but as he says its the best 10 seconds i ever get lol, and he is fab at foreplay so its all good

 

x 10 :excited:

 

Of actual penetration, I like my guys to last around 20 minutes.
He spends some time on foreplay, I can get off 2 or 3 times in that time.

 

20 mins , i am kinda surprised , i thought the ladies would ask for 1h+ , idk how hard it is for a guy to last 20 mins but it seems alright