Hi xnxxrs
When do one cheat rather than having just fun and building a database for fantasy.
I know a guy whose partner wanna leave him for cheating on her.
He was just naughty chatting on social media wit other people that isn't even in the country where we are living let alone the town he's living in.

Thoughts please

 

Women and men seem to see this so differently, you don't hear many men complaining if their wives want to look at porn or naked male reviews and magazines for example? Cheating is if it's real otherwise fooling around safely or flirting online I feel is another form of extended foreplay for her or I and most would do themselves a favor by asking if it's replacing or harming the sexual relationship?

Fact is the wife is not flirtatious I however am but, she's secure (even though I've had a few mistresses) that all is well at home, in love and in bed so she sees no threat!

 

A bit of flirting through chat is ok,but once a persons cams with another that is cheating.....I don't give a fuck what anyone says camming is crossing the line

 

whatever u doing that ur partner don't know about and you know they would mind it

just simple

 

it is only cheating if you get caught

 

Yep totally agree. Though I think views of a "bit" might be slightly different.

 

True BUT

True if your partner does not know about your voyeurist escapades.

But watif

Both together on SPY cam

You get off on your partner caming. But you don't allow chatting cause you can't control what's happening.

 

true

Also anything you do that affects your relationship and make you feel guilty

 

It's cheating when you get caught!

tHINSKIN

 

I thought cheating was committing the act not discussing it.

 

I define cheating as a physical act towards someone (I'm also a man). But, That can change with affections. I believe a case can be made for having communication and you and your partner setting KNOWN boundaries. Never met a mind reader!
There is also Milos' point (and good one); what is your partner secure with, as far as actions.
Not a simple, easy answer. Too many variables...

 

Cheating is whatever your partner says it is.

 

my girl..

Cheating to my girl means sexting other girls when she's not home and deleting the messages and sending pictures then anything physical! Its not fun and for the guys that say it ain't cheating till you get caught trust me girls will find out if they suspect it they will uncover the truth:/ cheated once and never again

 

sexting

WOW
She reckon sexting is chesting
What are you gonna do when you have fun with another couple. That gonna be physical. Not a fantasy like sexting

 

What is cheating for one might not be for the other.

 

Cheating is anything that you feel guilty about or feel that you have to hide or lie about around the person you're with.

Beyond that cheating and levels of it are established within a relationship and it's a discussion that should be had, just like the birth control and sexual safety discussions.

If you have to ask... it's probably cheating, even to you.

Distance has nothing to do with cheating for me. Emotional attachment and the playfulness I share with Master would hurt me just as much for him to have with another girl as many other things.

 

Please reread what he said...i consider it cheating when I'm not home and he deletes it when I'm home its another story even then we set guidelines and when couples come into play its not just a "him" thing its a "we" thing as in we both play with the couple and even then won't happen till we are both comfortable and willing!

 

This is the right answer. Relationships are built on trust. If that trust is violated, you jeopardize the relationship, even if you think your partner is being completely unreasonable.

 

I dont hide it but dont go out of my way that im on a sex forum. I just have a feeling that she wouldnt get it.

 

Seriously this forum need a like button or something


look no further the best answer is right here

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