Why is it that I have very detailed fantasies, that i cant create into an actual thing lol

 

That is what makes it a fantasy. If you have enough money I am sure you can buy you someone to play them out for you.

 

give it time and if your passion is truely there for the fantasy you will at some point make it happen

 

lol yes a hooker! lol jk and i know it takes time, its just that when they come, they come with force lmao

 

Maybe no one else has the same fantasy as you do.

 

cute...but I didnt mean a hooker ..unless thats one of his fantasies lol

 

Some fantasies are not meant to actually happen. It can be dangerous, for example, to be gangfucked by the local Hell's Angels chapter at the local roadhouse.

 

lol yea thats pretty dangerous but sexy lol

 

lol no, no hookers and im a lone wolf lol

 

You want to create something into a thing, you say, Dr. Frankenstein?

 

yes, lol it sounds wonderful

 

The devil is in the details whether such is a sexual fantasy or planning the overthrow of a small government in the tropics.

 

Fantasies are a great way to explore your desires. And turning your fantasies into a detailed story is a good way to share them with your potential partners.

But actually expecting them to come true in all their details is unrealistic unless you have written them out as a play and hired players to act them out...

My wife and I have wanted a fulfilling threesome with another man for years now... but in each instance we had a male partner... you have 3 person's desires , likes and dislikes, and personality all intertwined and none of them has yet actually gone particularly well..( which is why we are trying to find someone to be a regular playmate we can get to know, not just a one time thing).


Assuming your fantasies involve more players than just yourself, you will have to find like minded willing partners and depending on fate to bring you the chance is not very reliable. The alternative can be uncomfortable for a lot of people... instead of waiting to meet someone you like, romance them, and then explore together in a secure relationship.... you may have to actively seek out strangers interested in your same desires on a site like AFF. And then try to develop a relationship...
Its backwards from what we "normally" do but a lot of people seem to make it work for them... My wife and I are currently meeting people this way, but haven't gotten comfortable yet with the idea that we are picking a stranger for a possible sex encounter first and getting to know them second...

and of course you weren't specific about your fantasies either... can only assume they are reasonable and actually possible LOL

 

..lol..oh boy and I know them boys I was married to one for long time

 

drew the line at the gang banging though..was not the favorite biker chick at the club

 

How would your husband have felt about that?

 

There's a fine line between the thought of the fantasy powering the orgasm versus actually carrying it out.....either it's a fetish that isn't quite mainstream....or in some cases illegal like public sex or masturbation and it's just not possible or so difficult to pull off that it remains a fantasy.

 

Well the problem is that to play out a fantasy you need two people normally, or more.. Perhaps less.. But heres the thing, fanatasy is not real life and you can control your fantasy in your head but real life has its own agenda. So if your fantasy involves more than just yourself then you need to be communicating with the other person and ensuring you are singing off the same sheet for it to have any chance of working

 

well as a club member it did not go over too well..wives are not allowed to say no...but if you have noticed most hells angels members have quite a few guys called tiny that aint so tiny body wise haha I just couldn't see doing them ...eventually led to our divorce though that was not easy either

 

I am curious to know what your fantasy is though since you brought the topic up mcnutty