I met someone from online last week and it was good. However, I have pretty bad social anxiety and although I would love to, I can't bring myself to go down on him. The most I did was handjob. I am meeting him again tomorrow and although we sit in a parking lot, I want to do more. Any tips would be appreciated.

 

Just undo his pants and start sucking...he's a guy...he won't argue

 

Just do it. No big deal, just do it.

 

You sit in a parking lot? Thats all? Do something like go for drinks, relax! Go somewhere more comfortable.

 

I cant drink or eat in public because of my anxiety. It makes me sick. I was comfortable laying in his car with him.

 

Well okay first a question would you feel more comfortable going to his place or perhaps taking him yours? That way you are not in public and you guys can chill build up to a BJ and go from there. Now if this is first time doing BJ ya don't need to go nuts and throat his dick lol just take it slow: kissing, licking, sucking, etc etc. Since you already got the handy J going just try to go from there. I hope that helps I work with a surprising amount with people with anxiety.

 

I was thinking the same thing. You are young, take your time. There is no hurry to give him a BJ. You need to be enjoying this too!
Also, how public is a parking lot? You really need to go somewhere you can really relax!

 

I look at dicks as a challenge,
just grab hold and think what you want and can do and do it bitch.

 

You can't drink or eat in public?

Sweetie, this is a problem that goes WAY beyond your willingness or unwillingness to suck a guy's cock. You need to get some professional counseling.

 

I totally agree with Kimiko, a counselor would help a lot.

 

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If your having bad anxiety just try to relax and maybe instead of going straight to a bj just maybe as your stroking kiss lick the tip of his cock and go from there.

 

Is easy!! Lick and suck and cover with saliva
Make lots of dirty noises too. You will love it

 

I have considered it, but I sadly still live at home and would prefer to wit until I move out, if I do choose to seek more professional help.

 

Cool Whip, make it more palatable.

 

Appeal had no affect on anything.

 

Anxiety is a horrible thing to deal with. Does he know of your affliction?

If you've already given a handjob, you're halfway there. A blowjob uses the mouth firstly and the hands secondly. You basically focus on getting the guy to come in your mouth regardless if you are going to swallow. There is a greater sense of urgency involved. You can tease the shaft by sliding your slightly open mouth (preferrably moist with saliva so it moves smoothly) along the sides and bottom before you try and take him in your mouth. Use your hands around the base if you want to limit the depth and feel free to work them in tandem with your lips.

 

I believe that you guys need to get a room or something. The fears of getting seen by others can only intensify your anxiety. Personally sex in vehicle is way down on my favorites.

 

Keep one thing in mind: there is no such thing as a bad blowjob. No wrong way to give a blowjob, whatever you do down there will be appreciated. And no big need to rush it, let it happen when you "feel it".
Ok that's three things, my bad lol
~love~

 

I beg to differ. There have been cases where someone took the word "blow" job quite literally and the results can be quite disturbing and painful. Also, teeth can be a real issue.