A few days ago my youngest daughter (23) had confessed to her elder sister that she'd done a threesome with a female friend of her and the boyfriend of that friend. Completely shocked by the behaviour of her younger sister she's told my wife (and that's how I got to know).

My wife told me the eldest daughter was most startled as my wife told her, well if she had fun it's OK. She'd expected her disapproval that my wife wouldn't give. Of course none of the children know the missus and I have done threesomes for many years. Anyhow when she told me, we reminisce


d about our own experiences and had a good night :excited:

But my question is, how would you react when you got to hear this of your (adult) daughter or son?

 

I'd would have been pissed she didn't invite me

 

I've told my daughter on multiple occasions that whatever she wanted to do, as long as it was not in an abusive relationship, was fine. People's sex lives are their own. If she wanted to do FFMs or MMFs or FFFs, it would be her business. I think the only thing I would caution her on are orgies---you can't be too careful with those

 

I keep thinking that if I drag my feet on the ground, I can slow the process of my children growing up.

But the truth is, I'll try to be accepting of whatever my kids do in the sexual realm, once they're old enough to make those decisions for themselves. I hope they'll be open with me about such things, and to ask my advice if necessary.

 

Liking this reply

 

I would think that was their business

 

Which is wierder?
Parents imagining their children having sex or children imagining their parents having sex?

 

Sexual exploration is a good way to learn your own self. So, I would not be upset if either my son or daughter had done it. What bothers me more is that my son is mid twenties and has only been with the same girl since 5th grade! I doubt if he has a clue what he has, missed.

 

Honestly, I'd be more concerned if my son or daughter told me they were going to get married at 18 than if they said they were having sex. I'm a firm believer in sexual exploration, even if I did kind of take things to extremes.

 

What was extreme to you, the kids might find pretty vanilla these days.

OK probably not in your case Kimi.

thinskin

 

Why do you think I lie awake some nights?

 

Not sure! Worrying or listening?

thinskin

 

Couldn't very well judge my kid for doing what his mother and I have done on several occasions.

 

She is an adult so she is old enough to make her own decisions.

 

Might ask her sister to join me and her dad if she want to know how it feels like

 

Well I would I have as good a relationship then as now, and that I am accessible to talk. But as long as she played "safe" and everyone was consenting adults I don't see how I could object. After all, those kinds of experiences aren't just part of my pleasurable past, they helped me grow.

 

If my 21 yr. old son had a threesome with two girls, I would think -

Wow.. Maybe he'll realize there's more to life than all the video games now.. Way to go kid..

 

Haha, good one. You must be joking though :excited: