Aww, thanks Shadow. ;-)

I have to say I really like that idea. We've played with blindfolds before and I think it would be fun to use that with another person. I have a feeling he'd be able to tell my blowjob from another's, but you've got me wondering about that. :excited:

 

Unless she's mindblowing, it would be easy to tell. I wouldn't mind giving it the ol' college try. I do like the blindfold aspect. Actually, any form of sensory deprivation is a go in my book!

Thank you shadow for the kind words, as always

 

I've noticed a few other couples here. Feel free to chime in. I don't mind my thread being hijacked by other couples' experiences :excited:

Besides, me and Fiery Cuffs have questions of our own

 

Hi both

When it comes to arguments or tension between the two or you, do you ever use sex to resolve the issue? Obviously communication is the first thing on the list but it's not always about a difference of opinion, it could be a bad feeling over a misunderstanding or something similar.

 

Hi there LadyRaven.

Adagio can read me like a book, and I can always tell if he's upset. We haven't had anything big enough that we couldn't resolve with a talk. There have been times where sex helped me release some tensions, but it was always from an outside source and not caused by him.

 

1) Have you ever told anyone from your inner circle that you use this site?

2) Do you prolong your sexual escapades with each other? By that I mean do you set a specific amount of time before you can engage in sex. When the time comes it is just pure animalistic, dirty sex.

 

Well put my love. I don't remember ever being mad at you. I've had bad moods or a disagreement or two, but nothing that wasn't resolved with a 5 minute conversation. If the situation ever arrived where we did get in an actual fight, I think hate fucking could quite fun

You always know how to relieve my "tension" :excited:

 

1. No one but you guys know we use this site eventually, I would like to change that, but for now, that's the way it is.

2. Yes. Almost daily. Well, sort of. We enjoy teasing each other all day by sending each other text messages or sexy gifs of people doing kinky things. There have been days where I have been walking around with a chubby and a permanent wet spot in my pants. I could not get home quick enough.

 

I'll add to this too.

1: What he said. Lol. I enjoy talking about sex and it would be very cool to be able to talk to everyday people about this forum, I have a feeling some of our friends could use some of the advice and openness of this place.

2: Last year Adagio had a job that was out of town and we'd have to wait until he could get back to have sex. I think the longest time frame was around three weeks, but every time he got back we had "I need you to fuck me now" sex. We get pretty animalistic now just waiting for the day. I enjoy knowing he's at work, horny, and unable to do anything about it. :excited: I love sending him long winded texts about what I want to do to him or vice versa. It can be very distracting when he has to concentrate. Lol!

 

1. So true! I can think of a certain neighbor, and good friend, along with his fiancée who could benefit from this forum

2. Those weekends up north were not only stressful, but kept me from you for what felt like an eternity! I remember returning home to you one evening, I didn't get there till about 1am, and we practically stripped each other's clothes off right there in the drive way. I was so worked up that I think I lasted about 5 thrusts before I came. You felt so damn amazing! You always do.

Then round two commenced and I was back to my normal self.

Yeah, you certainly know how to keep me on edge all day at work. There are times where I have to walk away from my work just because I cannot concentrate. You can be such a bad girl at times. Sounds like someone needs a good, hard, pink-assed spanking! :-E

 

We have been receiving a decent amount of PMs thanks to this thread. Most have been very thoughtful and informative, Particularly in regards to swinging. Being new to this as we are, I just want to thank you all openly for your kind words, your wisdom, your words of caution, and for the overall love that has been extended to us. Warmest thanks to all who have helped guide us through what ought to be enjoyable evenings to come. You all know who you are

 

I second this. Having other's advice has helped us consider options I know I hadn't thought of. I know we both appreciate it. To those who have sent me pm's saying Adagio is a lucky guy, I just want to say that I'm the lucky one.

Adagio: My ass is in need of some extra attention. Just letting you know.

 

That simply will not do :-E

 

Have any of the swinging couples been with, or considered escorts to get their feet wet? Besides the financial impact, there are a lot of pros to this option.

 

Bump

 

A question for the both of you. Do you do scenarios where you try to become another person ie change your voice and/or appearance and go out in public? You watch from afar as people try to hit on you and they come and whisk you away.

 

Not exactly. We plan on having costume date nights in the future where we pick out clothes for each other and then we go out on a date wearing the outfit the other picked out.

I know it's been done before, but we want to go to a bar and pretend we've never met and pick up on each other.

 

What are the limits to your kinkiness? What line can't your cross?

 

It's ever changing for us really. So far our limits are no piss, no scat, and no animals. Other than that, we're up for it.

 

For Fiery Cuffs. Have you ever fucked Adagio with a strapon while he fucks/sucks another guy?