One thing that puzzles me is why something so obvious can go unchanged. The solution is not to somehow reduce the male sex drive. There's a very good reason why your's still is the oldest profession.

 

Sorry, missed that one. It was pretty varied but most were white collar higher up guys. A lot of tech, a lot of oil and gas, a lot of finance. Tech guys obviously tended to be younger, finance guys tended to be older.

 

I did the brothel thing very briefly one summer in Nevada. I thought it would be a quick buck, I was dead wrong. I still made money but it was very much like a stripper gig with regards to the money situation.

I would require any working girl to get a license. I would treat the licensing no different than any other profession only it would have to be updated (not renewed for an additional fee, just updated) every 60-90 days for a zero-fee but it would require a full STD screen. Just like other professional licenses, it needs to be renewed yearly.

Much like other morality "zones", I would say that any sort of "Bawdy house" / brothel couldn't be located in a residential / school zone (which is fine, use commercially zoned or industrially zoned areas) and that individual municipalities could zone appropriately or much like the legal marijuana trade in Colorado, they could reject permanent structures used for this business. What they couldn't outlaw would be outcalls and limited single-user incall locations.

I would outlaw streetwalking. I would outlaw anything other than a registered and regulated agency to promote groups of girls but I would still allow 100% independent women to work form themselves. That way LE can focus on pimping.

I would strongly encourage community and charitable outreach to help women get out of prostitution for those who don't want to be in the life and much like we do with alcohol, tobacco and drugs, have an education program that talks about the sex trade and discourages involvement as a first choice.

I would treat taxes much like we do any other 1099 independent contractor. I would setup a baseline of protections that the women would be covered by but at the same time a system of remediation for the clients as well (in the event that girls ripped the clients off or for bait/switch). It wouldn't need to be some 500 page legal tome that governments love to do. We could probably do something covering all the above plus the legal protection / agreements in under 20 pages.

I mean I can go on ad on but it's not worth writing my own mini-novel on the idea when it won't go anywhere. Regardless, by legalizing the trade and regulating it, police could stop with the "Stings for show" and focus on the legitimate abuses within the sex trade. I also think after the taboo faded, you'd see a drastic reduction in usage as well. On day 1, much like legal pot, we'd see a huge uptick in business but then sheen would wear off, it would become a non-issue and I would be willing to bet we'd see a net decrease over time.

 

It's not even the male sex drive. It's largely American culture and our love of prohibition. One one hand, you have a culture that both idolizes yet demonizes sex and sexuality, especially female sexuality. It's ok for Robin Thicke to do a nude version of Blurred Lines (other than the most staunch conservative who gets their panties in a wad) but if Miley is swinging naked on a wrecking ball, everyone loses their mind.

In country music, if Blake Shelton sang a song about banging 100 girls without a condom and knocking 50 of them up, everyone would be giving him a high five. But if his wife, Miranda Lambert, sang a song about an 8-way gangbang and her being a total cockslut, trust me, the villagers would be out with pitchforks and torches.

And that's a problem. The existing patriarchy in America is still largely against female sexuality. There was an executive pastor from Calvary Chapel, America's largest dispensational theological Protestant "denomination" that actually criticized the female orgasm as a tool of satan, saying that a woman's role is to accept her husband's sexual advances but not to take pleasure in it, that her orgasm is a sin and a tool of the devil. Now to be fair, he got canned but he was well defended. And he's not alone. If you look at the utter stupidity of the GOP back in the 2012 election cycle around women's issues, rape, rape babies, etc and you'll see we still have an issue with both positive female sexuality and the role women have in sex. And this leads right to prostitution. These people think that no woman would ever want to or enjoy being a prostitute and that women who have a positive sexual self image are somehow evil.

This translates further into the home which is why prostitution even exists in the first place. We've just ruined sex. Men often have an unrealistic expectation of what sex should be (thanks internet porn!), we have guilted people about sex and women have put so much pressure on themselves (and it's mostly self-inflicted pressure too) that sex is the furthest thing from most of their minds. Instead of a sex-positive image, we've turned it into something seedy. Using Miley again, she did her thing for shock value. We've turned female sexuality into something shocking and it becomes a turnoff in and of itself.

If we quit treating sex and specifically female sexuality as something shameful or shocking and started empowering women to take control of their sexuality, I think we'd be in a much better place. I think we'd see less frigidity in women at home and much more open conversations about sex between women. I can't tell you how many times I bring up the topic of anal sex with a few girlfriends and the room goes silent and gets very uncomfortable. Why is that? It feels good. I'm consenting to it. Why should that make people uncomfortable? Why can't we talk about techniques to give better blow jobs? Why can't we talk about masturbation? How we like getting head? Etc. I mentioned that I masturbate a lot to some girls when we were talking sex and you'd think I admitted to murder. I mean really?

So while prostitution is the subject, the bigger topic is sexuality in general.

 

What's the dirtiest fetish you have been payed to do? Did you enjoy it?
Did you ever do something you didn't want to?
What were your rates?

 

Answered on page 4 but a guy had me urinate into a funnel that was inserted into his ass and later on after some CBT, face sitting/smothering and other femdom activities I put a nozzle into his ass and watched him drink it. And yes, I wretched multiple times. That was foul. He also paid me $2000 for 2 hours. As long as it wasn't me drinking it, that was fine.

Nope. I had my boundaries. There were certain things I wouldn't do for money and I proudly stuck to those guns. There were activities I wasn't super happy about (like the above) but if I was the do'er and they were the do'ee, I was ok with it. Other than scat play. That never was going to happen. Utterly gross.

$500/hour but I would give discounts on multi-hour dates (like $800-900 for 2 hours, $1200-$1300 for 3, etc).

 

i hear that if a client brings an unopened box freshly purchased from the store and presents the receipt that it is acceptable by most providers. one of the escorts i saw used really thick condoms and i couldn't feel anything, though she was very petite (4'8 and me being 5'11) she was very tight.

i also don't get this whole 'white knight' thing, it just seems like a desperate ploy to lock someone down... which is kind of dumb when you think about the whole situation. you are seeing an escort after all, if you want to knock up someone get a girlfriend... i wonder why it is so hard for some men to understand. you are seeing an escort to fulfil some fantasies or to get your rocks off.

very true, the more friendly escort i saw seemed very happy when she undid my pants to find a very fresh smelling cock. i haven't been asked to take a shower yet, though the other escort did give me a handjob with a wash cloth (probably had some lint trapped under there from boxers) but that was temporary, till the condom came on.

it was strange with her though, the sex was great, she led with changing of positions and what not and it felt like she like getting fucked that way, it was just that i think she didnt expect me to want to finish with a handjob, instead finish inside the condom during sex. i had fucked her for probably 45 minutes, almost ran out of time. has that happened where a client just lasts too long? or he just can't cum from sex and needs a manual finish?

i believe she seemed to enjoy what she did, she was very sweet, as she was my first escort i ever saw. i had trouble staying hard as i was very nervous and didn't book enough time with her. she at least gave me a great blowjob finish with a swallow. i still think about that finish, it felt amazing. i think she was happy that she managed to finish me i didn't want her to think that i didn't find her attractive or she wasn't good at her job.

you are in the higher range, where i live generally the top end escorts charge around $350/hr and upwards and these women are very pretty in my opinion though their services/menu are varied. the mid range usually are 200-250/hr and are either agencies or independents, still plenty of pretty girls in that range too.

what was your worst client and how did you handle the situation? (sorry if it's been answered already, again too much to read through)

 

So here is a question for you. Many of the adds I have read on the websites you referred to ask for references. What exactly is a reference and how does one go about getting them? It seems very much like the old problem of getting a job. They all require experience in order to qualify for the job but you cannot get experience without getting the job. A classic paradox.

 

I will depend on the girl. Most of my "friends" when I was working would never accept condoms from the client. Ever. I can tell you some horror stories about condom tricks that guys pull. The worst of the bunch is the insulin syringe and microwaved Vaseline. I will never use a condom from a guy, even in my personal life. I always offered up the thin / barely there condoms. I know a lot of guys hate the industrial ones and I don't blame them. Even the thin ones still felt like I was riding a Glad bag at times. I did offer the female condom as it came into popularity near the end of my working days but while guys liked it, it felt really funny and looked really bad, like a zip-lock bag was coming out of my vagina.

It happens but it was very rare. If it did happen, it was from nerves, Frankencock (aka viagra) or he jerked off right before the session as in literally 15-20 minutes before and he hadn't properly recovered yet. Sometimes the chemistry just isn't there. I know it's just a business transaction but if you two aren't at least somewhat into each other, psychologically it will fuck with you and no amount of stimulation will push you over the edge.

There are lots of pretty girls in the $200-$250 range. I won't argue that at all. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and some guys just want straight up sex and probably a blowjob. I was an all inclusive girl. Where a lot of girls in the $200-$300 range will upsell for anal or letting you cum in their mouth, that was part of the package with me (provided I didn't have some major objection to you and I stated that all activities were at my discretion but I rarely said no to the standard suite of things). I just wasn't big on the upsell. Again, at the risk of sounding like a narcissistic stuck-up self-centered bitch, I had/have a look that kept me in extremely high demand. I'm not a huge fan of the comparison but when I was working I was told I had similar facial features to Paris Hilton. Not a spitting image but definitely passable as a 1st cousin or even 1/2 sibling. Regardless, I'd like to think that I offered a much more complete and believable encounter / fantasy than the cheaper girls. Still, that was the price I demanded and I had no issues keeping my calendar booked at that rate.

It was a mere 6 or 7 posts ago, lol. A guy tried to rape me, he got his ass kicked. He didn't know that I was a black belt in both Kempo and Akido and the fact that I was much more physically fit than I let on or that he would have observed.

 

Not really. As long as the client smelled fresh and had a shaved face or groomed facial hair and kept his man parts groomed / cleaned, I was ok.

I will tell you what was horrible though. Guys, clean your fucking ass crack. It's not gay to soap up your shit hole when cleaning up. I'd be giving guys a massage and I'd work my way down to their ass and thighs and if I mistakenly parted cheeks during the rubdown, I'd get straight up bitchslapped in the face with ass funk and it was never pleasant. Just letting water drip down your back in the hope it works its way into your ass crack doesn't work. Fucking part the Red Sea and let the shower head do its magic. Then take some mild soap, run three fingers over your manhole one or twice, rinse everything off, there, the world is a much better place for everyone.

 

Reference refers to another escort that has seen you before and generally in the past 6-12 months (depends on the girl). The trick is, if you weren't memorable and only saw the girl once, she likely can't be a reference for you. The jist of this is to prove you aren't a cop and/or you aren't a rapist. It's not foolproof but it's the system the girls have to work with. Some girls just flat out will not see you w/o 2 references. That's why sites like Room Service, Date Check and P411 were born. You get an anonymous client ID, after you see a girl she can "ok" you on the site and you don't really have to worry about it too much.

Trust me, references are actually a good thing. If a girl is checking references, she's likely legit and cares about her craft. It protects her, gives her peace of mind which in turn helps both of you have a better time because she'll be more relaxed with a higher degree of confidence that you're not there to harm her or arrest her.

Sadly, if a girl requires references and you don't have any, you'll have to choose someone else. Some girls will do alternate screening (calling the switchboard at your work and get xfered to your VM and no, they don't say they're a whore, they usually do the doctor's office receptionist bit as one example) but guys are understandably nervous and unwilling to yield up that info. For good reason. Some hookers are bad news sadly and will abuse that info. And reason #666 why the US prostitution laws are bad for everyone.

 

Would you consider it good form to ask an escort to meet for coffee prior to the actual "date" to discuss specifics like special requests, boundaries and limits, likes and dislikes etc.? Sort of a chance for both the escort and the client to conduct an informal interview to determine if it is something they are both comfortable proceeding with?

 

It's actually another not-uncommon thing that has risen in popularity since I quit working. That being said, a lot of girls still charge for that. Obviously a very reduced rate like $50 or something but it does happen however it's more of the higher end girls. More discounted girls that work on volume and numbers won't tend to engage in that because they might miss another full session client.

 

Was there a lot of small dicks?

 

ya ya ya

I just wanted to say that I think its very cool of you to do this thread first off . But I just can't resist the urge to say that your level of intellectualism understanding of the power you have is absolutely so damn sexy. I'm not a sub type guy by any means . But I love a girl that is capable of at least a half intelligent conversation and knows how to work a man up. just throuhhing a compliment out there for you dear. Sorry to break the "keep it business" request but I just couldn't help myself .

 

If you had to categorize your clients into dom, vanilla, sub or switch.

What would the proportions be?

Still a great thread.

thinskin

 

There were a lot of dicks period. After awhile, you quit judging. There were some small dicks (less than 5"), a lot of average dicks (between 5 and 7") and a few big dicks (bigger than 7"). it was mostly by sight, it's not like I had a ruler out but the sight test has been a good indicator in the past.

True story, when I was early on in that career, there was a less than endowed gentleman who was a real sweetheart but poor guy just didn't have much. Anyways, he was fucking me doggy style and screaming out, "TAKE MY HUGE COCK!!! TAKE ALL OF IT!!! I'M GONNA SPLIT YOU IN TWO!!!" and I failed to hold in a giggle. It was totally unprofessional and I feel horrible today about it because I know that having the penis he did was not a huge ego boost at all. But he was really hurt. He pretty much ran out. Left the money though. Still, it was just too funny hearing that out of his mouth.

Still, guys with smaller dicks, don't make it more than it is. Just use what you have. Most women will be just fine with you but if you set unrealistic expectations, it's gonna get awkward.

 

No problem. I'm glad you enjoy it and thank you for the compliment.