Early on when I was still getting the hang of things, I had a few reviews that were not 10/10 or 5-star (out of 5). They weren't bad, more along the lines of "average-to-good" or 6-7/10 or 3 out of 5. Other than the guy who tried to rape me, nobody ever said anything about not having a good time.

Honestly I'm not sure what I would have said. I did have one guy demand that I give him a freebie because he was a "well known and trusted reviewer" and that if he gave me a bad review, it would kill my reputation. I choose not to see him and posted in the local Denver forums immediately after I kicked him out. His was the reputation to suffer and a lot of other girls came out of the woodwork to confirm that this was his M.O.

 

Her name is What....you fucked up the ? at the end.

 

He was likely in excess of 10" and it wasn't fun at all. 8"-8.5" I can make work but I prefer them in the 7"-ish range with, like you said, descent girth. This 10"+ monster was about the size of a silver dollar in girth (where most men are about a US/Canadian quarter equivalent in girth). It was not fun, it was very painful, it was one of the few times I had to cancel an appointment (the next day) and...yeah...didn't like it at all. 9" was about the max I could actually enjoy but even that was a stretch and really depending on the guy. Trust me, getting your cervix punched by a meat sword was anything but orgasmic.

 

I've actually never even seen a dental dam (I'm serious). No, I never made a guy use one. I guess if he wanted to he could but I'm 99.999% positive I never even heard another provider talking about a guy using one. It was tough enough dealing with the condom issue with guys stealthing, poking holes in them, sabotaging them, etc.

Double so in my personal life and if I guy whipped out a sheet of latex and then tried to lick me through that, I'd probably ask him to leave.

 

Just a married couple and I've talked about it 3 or 4 times now.

I did a lot of duos with a handful of other working girls. Those were usually fun but also a bit insidious on our part.

I didn't do it because the risk was far too high. Just too many stories of girls including strippers being assaulted / raped. It was deemed one of the more higher risk activities that a vast majority of the girls would not indulge in. In the near future in my personal life I will likely enjoy the company of two men at the same time BUT these are men I have known for a very long time and are FWB as is. I'm hoping to get some girl balls and go through with a gangbang sometime this summer as time permits but I need to walk before I can run so doing a DP with two men is that first step (versus a man and a toy).

 

Hi baby

Thread still going strong. Well done.

What the the ideal time period for you with a client? A couple of hours or more? What tricks did you use to stop the john coming too quickly?

How often did a newbie get an attack of guilt or shame especially if he was married? How did you handle that?

thinskin

 

2-3 hours was what I preferred but that was a monetary reasoning. I charged $500/hour, $800-900/2 hours and $1200-1300/3 hours (of private time, this usually was a "date night" sort of thing with dinner and/or a show of some sort). Most of my dates were of the 2 hour variety and given that I had 3-5 dates any given week, you can see that financially it was very rewarding.

Depends on if I liked him or not. If I liked him, I just edged him for awhile but it would depend if I was giving him head, we were having sex, we were doing anal or some sort of kink/fetish. If it was head, I'd just slow down and quit licking/sucking on the tip and just tongue the shaft and/or balls. If it was sex and I was on top, I'd just slow down or get off of him completely and change the act around a bit. Anal I never really stopped them. I didn't want a guy banging away back there for longer than 8-10 minutes tops.

Never happened in front of me so I never had to deal with it. There were a few cases of performance anxiety but a handjob / blowjob usually did the trick there.

 

Excuse me in advance if this has been asked... IICR (if I can recall) you mentioned earlier in this blog that you did attempt a relationship with a client and it didn't work out main reason because you enjoyed making money. Do you ever think back into and imagine a way it could of work? and if not why?
Also if you were in a serious relationship and some how were to find out your S.O fucked an escort in the past would you think differently of him? (answer as honest as possible please)

 

There were lots of reasons why I didn't work. You had the base human emotion of jealousy and guilt on both sides coming into play. They (I tried it a few times) wanted me all to themselves despite the fact that I made it clear I was still going to work to get through school and come out w/o any debt. There were times I was just too tired from a long date earlier which means I was essentially choosing another man (money) over the guy I was dating. And the fact was, I was young, impulsive, naive and just not really in a place where I should have been trying to settle down. These were nice guys but mentally I wasn't ready and emotionally I was walled off.

Could I have made it work? I'm not sure those were the right guys. It had nothing to do with me meeting them through my work. There actually are a lot of genuinely nice guys that pay for sex. I'd argue that most of the guys seeing escorts (as compared to street walkers...splitting hairs but the financial background, education, lifestyle, etc favors those who see escorts) were good men who just needed some companionship or a carefree / no-strings attached orgasm. Oddly enough, I do not judge men for seeing an escort. I would, however, judge a guy for seeing a street walker. Yuck!

But I don't think it would work because ultimately I didn't want it to work. They were a nice distraction, seemed to be nice guys, guys I was ok with dating casually but when it came to get serious, I just wasn't there in that moment.

Nope, I wouldn't. Unusual as it is for a woman to say this, I can separate sex and relationships / emotions. Guys have a base need to have sex. It's not even a debate. Biologically speaking, men need sex. Not want. Need. Now it's not as much as some guys think but men have a primal impulse to have sex. If they aren't getting it at home, even if it is their fault, they are driven to that point and will seek it out. We've put these artificial structures in place (aka religion) to help temper than behavior, classifying it as somehow immoral, but the base biology is there.

I have no problem with men seeing prostitutes provided they aren't being abusive, aren't seeking out victimized women (aka those being pimped / trafficked or underage) and despite my utter hypocrisy here, they are playing safe. If a guy is barebacking a street whore, his cock isn't coming anywhere near me. I'd have a serious issue with that. But if he's banging $200-$400/hour escorts (or did in the past), I'd really be ok with it provided that was his past and not his future. I'm no one that will withhold sex as a weapon nor can I imagine myself being a prude or frigid at any point in the future. Time may say otherwise but if/when I do find "that guy" (right now it may end up being "that woman" although it was only one weekend...so far) he'll likely end up being the one who has the headache or too tired long before I will.

 

Thank you for your sincerity

 

Thank you EroticaLady for this fascinating and informative thread.


First off, let me say that I have nothing but respect for women who work in the sex industry, and for the profession in general. I have known many sex workers over the years, and have found them to be good people, for the most part. Truly some of the most generous and kind women you'll ever meet. I view sex workers as very skilled performance artist and actresses.


I have spent a few years in the industry myself, as a bouncer, then a manager at several different strip clubs, and in my current profession, I interact with escorts on a fairly regular basis. (I provide transportation services to an upscale clientele.) I was also married to a stripper briefly when I was younger.


One of the most surprising revelations I had when I first started working at the clubs was the attitude the strippers had towards the customers. I had assumed that since the strippers liked money, they would like the guys who spent lots of it more than the guys who didn't. Turns out the opposite is true. The more
money a customer spent, the less the girls respected and liked the guy.


I wonder if the same holds true for escorts. Any thoughts, EroticaLady?


I want to discuss a somewhat darker side of the world's oldest profession. It's been my experience that the vast majority of sex workers are survivors of childhood trauma, typically sexual abuse, parental abandonment, or both. My ex-wife, for example, was abandonded by her parents and raised by her maternal grandparents, and was molested by her maternal grandfather. When we were together, she still had a relationship with her grandparents, but it didn't seem very healthy to me even at that time, and I was much younger and more nieve than I am now. One of the most disturbing facets of the whole thing is that she told me she was attracted to me because I reminded her of her grandfather, at least physically. She had a very high sex drive, higher than my own, and really enjoyed BDSM to my initial dismay, and although I tried to get into it for her sake, it was never something I was comfortable with.


Another stripper I dated was a single mom who had gotten pregnant at age 15 by a much older friend of her parents. She was still in an off and on abusive relationship with the guy even when we were dating. The stories she told of the physical abuse she endured were shocking, but the strangest thing is that she seemed to take pride in the fact that she was able to take a beating without crying.


All the sex workers I've dated were much more sexually adventurous than non sex workers, which is fun for a while on a physical level, but I could tell that long term emotional connections were difficult, if not impossible for most of the women.


Most of the stippers I knew were in abusive relationships, typically supporting a man financially.


I ended up leaving the strip club business because I came to the realization that the industry was damaging to my psyche, causing me to dislike, and at the same time pity these women. I also noticed that the men who had worked in the industry for a long time all seemed to harbor a real hatred towards women.


I've done quite a bit of reasearch into human psychology and human sexuality over the last twenty years since I left that job, and have come to the realization that I am every bit as damaged psycologically as the strippers I knew were, perhaps that's what drew me to the profession in the first place. (If you're interested in seeing just how messed up I am, read a few of the stories I've written.)


In the last decade, I've had business dealings with many escorts, and have come to know several personally, though I've not dated any of them. I agree with EroticLady's assessment that being a stripper is much more of a grind and a hustle than escorting is. The escorts I know only work a few hours a day, a few days a week. I don't know of any escort who has a long term relationship with a man who's not her pimp. I use the term 'pimp' to describe any man who benefits financially from the labor of a sex worker, even if he just a lazy, out of work guitarist boyfriend.


One thing both professions, stripping and escorting, have in common is the high prevalance of addiction. Drugs, alccohol, gambling, you name it, sex workers are addicted to it. I knew a very high class escort who had been an attorney, but lost her job due to her severe alcoholism, and resorted to escorting to support herself and her drinking. Over the course of the few years I knew her, she tried to date several men outside of her work, and as soon as the guys found out what she did for a living, they broke it off.


I know another escort who goes on a call, then goes directly to the casino and pisses away all the money she made on the call.


All this is a long winded way of saying that in my opinion, it is extremely difficult, if not impossible, for a current or former sex worker to form a healthy, lasting relationship with anyone. That's been the case for me personally, I haven't been in a long term relationship for years, and have basically given up trying to find that special someone.

I'm glad to read that, but your experience is rare, in my opinion.


On a separate topic discussed in this thread, I absolutely love tall women, the taller, the better. One of the few spots still open on my sexual bingo card is to sleep with a woman over six feet tall. I'd love to meet a woman taller than me, but since I'm 6' 5”, that seems pretty unlikely unless I start hanging out at WNBA games.


Thank you again for the time you've taken with this thread, and for the peek behind the curtain you've provided here.


Warmest regards,


AZMotherLover

 

I personally never looked at it that way. As I said, I hated the hustle of the strip club so I was generally pretty angry after the first month as is every night when I went home. As an escort, I didn't really judge too much if a guy wanted 1 hour or 4. Obviously I preferred the longer dates and yes, it was wholly a monetary thing but in a few cases, I did actually enjoy the company. Guys are surprisingly vulnerable and open up much more emotionally when naked and in bed with an escort than they do with their significant other.

I digress though...no, I didn't look down on those who spent more/less. Money was money and as long as we both were enjoying our time, that was the ultimate goal.

With strippers I believe it 100%. I had never met so many women with so many issues in my life. It was very depressing. Most of the escorts I knew, however, were a lot like me. Like me as in they just had a high sex drive, an appreciation and respect for sex and a business understanding that there was a demand, we had the supply and there was very good money to be made selling pussy. It sounds raw and degrading but let's face it, if you could make $500 banging chicks, a lot of guys would be all over that gravy train.

Now some of my fellow escorts were there by circumstance (financial need, few alternatives, etc) whereas others were like me and there by choice. I didn't have to sell my body. Never. I choose to because I figured I could do both something I already really enjoyed and leave school with no debt. The final damage was in excess of $100k for my undergrad and 1st masters. But instead of that bill I left school with almost $150k in the bank, a house, a car (paid for) and a good job waiting in the wings. But others didn't have that luxury. They were going through a divorce, they lost their job with few or no alternatives, they wanted a higher standard of living, etc. There were lots of reasons but that's still very different than the girl who had to endure nightly abuse from her father or brother or uncle or whatnot.

But I will agree that a lot of girls have had a bad go of things in the past and while they use sex work to "regain their sexuality and control", it just perpetuates their being a victim and doesn't really solve anything.

As far as girls being more adventurous, you have to remember that those walls most of us build up were completely shattered in their cases. I can't explain my openness when it comes to sex other than, for a woman, my higher testosterone levels. But for a lot of girls, those boundaries are gone and in the case of violence in their past, taking a dick in the ass or swallowing a load is a pittance compared to what could happen. That and again, sexuality becomes a way to cope with the past abuse. It's their way of controlling the negativity of the past and also how they might associate relationships and what is "normal". At least that's "normal" for them.

I did, however, see a lot of girls supporting a man who was riding her coattails and benefiting from her work. That was frustrating. I don't understand why a woman would put up with that. I guess some of them felt they couldn't do better or something despite the fact that any and all working girls have had romantic overtures from well-intending clients and there seems to be this idea that once a whore, you may not be worthy of a "normal" (is there such a thing???) relationship. I don't believe that myself and I certainly haven't had that mentality.

I think it depends on the girl and her circumstances. It seems you dealt with the stereotype of women in the sex industry and I admit that is the majority of women in this space. I admit that I am an anomaly as were the immediate circle of women that I had gotten to know. But there was a lot of addiction the further down the scale you went. Higher end girls tended not to fall into those traps because escorting was a business and a means to an end. Lower end girls were trapped in a cycle and whatever their addiction, it was an escape from reality. Or as you pointed out, selling their body was a way to feed their addiction. It then becomes a feedback loop where one necessitates the other. It's sad actually.

Again, I think this is a segment observation. Most of the escorts I knew were in otherwise stable, healthy and long-term relationships at least the older girls were. The college and early 20-something crowd like myself (at the time) were much too carefree as far as relationships went. I'm still very good friends with a half-dozen or so working girls and some of them have been with the same man and/or married for 10 or so years, one of them for 15+. And if you didn't know she was an escort, you'd assume that they were a stereotypical "nuclear family".

I'm glad you've enjoyed it. My whole goal from the start was to educate people and shine a light on one aspect of the industry. However, as you've pointed out, I'm just one of many voices in this space and I'm sure another woman who has worked this life would have a completely different take and story.

 

You have certainly educated us all, EroticaLady.

While perhaps you didn't see your role as educator of the men you met, did you have any repeat visitors who initially didn't know how to handle a woman but with time and your ministrations learnt how to give pleasure?

 

I'd say there were a few guys who were very inexperienced, came to me be it to lose their v-card or bone up (no pun intended) on their technique. They were a very small minority of clients as again, a vast majority of the guys I saw were married and their wives were allergic to blowjobs in particular and sex in general. But yes, there were a small portion of men who could be socially awkward, maybe not the most physically attractive men or just lacked confidence in themselves and wanted to learn or just wanted companionship (which in turn led to increased confidence as well as understanding how/where/what on a woman's body to touch and please).

 

I just wanted to say thank you for a great thread.
My wife was an Escort when we first met and there have been a few questions I would like to have asked her, that you have given answers to. It's not that I couldn't ask, just never felt the inclination to at the time.

Something I hope comes from this thread is that it helps people realize that just because a woman has worked (or still works) in the sex industry is that she is still a human being, with feelings, emotions, dreams, goals, needs, desires etc and still deserves the respect that others in more mainstream professions get.

I have great respect for "ladies of the night" << Always liked that term for some reason and believe that the profession holds an important position in society.

 

Fascinating thread...however...

I would take exception to the stripper beliefs overall. I dated and married a stripper and maybe it was just the time period...30 years ago, but she had no issues, no molestation or abandonment issues, nada. She had a great family when I went back East to meet them when we announced our engagement. Of course they thought she was a bartender but other than that...nothing.

The clubs she worked at were in San Diego and as such we got to be friends with a great many of the strippers and I think we only met one who had been molested by her father but by her own admission she sloughed it off and it stopped when she was a junior in high school. She really didn't have any nightmares, psyche issues, nothing that we could see over the course of 2 years we were living in S.D.

The one that did have problems was Tiny, her boyfriend was a complete asshole, domineering and a control freak. It was a year before that ended, but other than that the girls all seemed to have lives away from the clubs and other than the usual boyfriend problems, nothing out of the ordinary.

So maybe it's different today, but in my experience for the 6 years or so my wife was a stripper, no problems that we could see.

Not saying there were no girls without problems but we rarely ran into them. Usually the biggest problem was boyfriends.

As for escorts I only know one personally and she has so many problems that a stint in Bellevue would be recommended. She is an older woman in her 50's now and we briefly went out in the 90's(after my marriage went bust after 9 years)and she seemed to have a problem with her self esteem needing to be admired by men all the time thus leading to the breakup after a short while. Sex was great but other than that....nada nothing no emotional connection at all. Her father when I met him was somewhat distant to her although he appeared to love her and her mother was a trip but didn't seem to have a problem with relating to her daughter. Dad owned a small resort between Tijuana and Ensenada on the beach and did quite well but would not support her at all. So I am not sure what went wrong there for her other than a distant father

I did work in the adult film industry for several years and know that many of the girls there, not all by any stretch of the imagination but quite a few worked as escorts but I knew few of them on a personal level other than through work.

Nonetheless this has been a very very interesting subject.

So in my limited experience I would say considering the vast array of women in both the stripping and escort business, it would be hard to say one size fits all.

Oh and by the way AZ? Love your stories. We need a part 2,3,4 of the nudist camp.

 

Thank you for your honest response. Before I reply, I want to stress that what I'm saying is not meant as a personal attack against you, although it may come off that way. Rather, I want to inform others reading this thread just how wrong your claims are regarding the mental wellness of anyone in the sex industry. And I include myself in that group. I was damaged before I entered the industry, and was further damaged by my time in it.


Before you say to yourself, “Who does this asshole think he is? He doesn't know me.”, I'll stipulate that I indeed do not know you, but I have known hundreds of you. I'll also freely admit to being an asshole.


You and I are more alike than we may want to admit, I just have a few decades of self reflection under my belt. Twenty years from now you may look back and say, “That asshole was right.”

Hate to break it to you, but the surprising vulnerability you percieve from your clients is as much an act and a deception as your behavior towards them is. You'd want to move to a deserted island if you knew what those men really thought.

So, you admit that sex work is raw and degrading, yet you still express an interest in doing it. Sounds like a perfectly healthy attitude. And you agree that 100% of strippers are messed up psychologically, except for you. Everybody but EroticaLady.


I do agree with your charactarization of the strip club industry as 'very depressing'. The phrase I use to describe it is 'hard on the soul'.

I'm not claiming that it must be the result of nightly sexual abuse, but your replies all over this thread remind me of a typical caller to the show, 'Loveline', with Dr. Drew Pinsky. People would call in and have some kind of messed up sexual or emotional issue, and Dr. Drew would ask about their childhood. The caller invariable says they had a perfectly normal, healthy childhood with no abuse, sexual or otherwise, but after a few questions, it becomes obvious that their childhood was anything but normal, the caller just thinks it was normal because they assume that everybody was tied naked to a chair and whipped bloody with an electrical cord when they misbehaved. Perhaps an extreme example, but you get my point. Something happened to you, or to someone close to you, that caused you to think sex work is an acceptble thing to do, you just don't know what it is.


Take my situation. I'm not a survivor of childhood sexual abuse, but I was traumatised by my parents' very messy and acrimonious divorce. So much so that instead of wanting a monogamous relationship, I seem to prefer multiple casual encounters that never lead to any level of emotional intimacy. Even during my brief marriage, I was as promiscuous as I could be. The whole reason I worked in strip clubs was to give myself access to multiple sexual partners. I'm not proud of that, but it is what it is.


As for the money you made, you could have gone and worked as a truck driver in the oil fields of Saskatchawan or South Dakota and made plenty of money, but no, you chose to sell your body.


Regarding the old saw about 'paying my way through college', let me quote a passage from a wonderful short story I'm writing about a stripper who's also a serial killer.

It's called The Black Widow, An Erotic Crime Drama. if you're interested.

A lot of girls, but not you. Everybody but EroticaLady.


I do wonder what is driving your stated desire to return to escorting, even though you claim to have no financial need to do so. I'd guess it has something to do with your personal sexual power dynamic, but whether you think escorting gives you power, or takes it away, it holds an appeal to you well beyond the merely financial.

Plenty of women have high testosterone levels and high sex drives, and most of them don't end up as sex workers. You use your high T level as an excuse, even though everybody else had “those walls most of us build up were completely shattered”. Did your walls never exist? Or are you just unaware of exactly how they were shattered and keep going back to your high T level as a convenient rationalization?


You can't explain your openness when it comes to sex, but I'm sure a good psychologist could.

Again, everybody but EroticaLady. The damage that causes a person to be a sex worker needn't be physical or sexual. It could be something simple like the death of a cherished pet, or witnessing a family member's life spiral out of control at an impressionable age.


The casual way you mention allowing a complete stranger to sodomize you for a few dollars is very disturbing. And very telling. Any mentally healthy woman would recoil in horror at the mere thought of doing such a thing, even if she enjoyed anal sex with her partner.

You don't have to believe it for it to be true. I'm not saying your not worthy of a normal relationship, just that your not capable of having one. Your choices are either to accept a lower quality of man, one who's not bothered dating a woman who's willing to suck dick for money, or hide your past from your partner and pray that your secret is never discovered.


You express a frustration with girls who sold their bodies to support a man, but later in your response you make this claim:

Every one of those relationships, no matter how healthy they may appear on the surface, is extremely unhealthy. A man who would be cuckholded in exchange for money is no kind of man, and any man with a healthy psyche and the ability to support his family would never tolerate his wife selling her body to strangers. Never. Every one of your friends' partners and spouses are nothing more that pimps, plain and simple. You'd be doing them a favor to point that out to them. I have absolutely zero respect for these men, and that comes from my experience of having been a pimp myself.


Regarding the stereotypical "nuclear family", just imagine when mom shows up for career day at little Johnny's school. LOL


And yes, there is such a thing as a normal, healthy relationship. Not for people like you and me, though.

These aren't stereotypes, these are truths. Stereotype assumes the possibility of an exception. My position is that there are none.

Again, everybody but EroticaLady. I see a theme developing here.

My experience runs the gamut from the lowest crack-whore, to the highest level escort. As I said in my previous post, I provide transportation services to an upscale clientel. I don't know if you're familiar with Paradise Valley or Scottsdale, Arizona, think 'Cherry Hills Village', but for rich people.


The alcoholic former attorney I mentioned was in her mid thirties and still able to command $400 per hour. Hell, she paid me $100 per hour, and I got to keep my pants on.


And speaking of addiction, you've admitted in this thread to being a regular user of alcohol and marijuana, along with other psychadelics you desire so much you are growing cactii at your house. Again, perfectly normal, perfectly healthy.

Your whole goal with this thread, in my opinion, was to convince youself of something you subconciously know to be untrue. If you keep saying it over and over, you might be able to convince yourself.


“Look at me! I'm the world's only well adjusted and sane prostitute.”


You also seem to enjoy bragging about the money you made. There's an old saying, 'If you want to know what God thinks of money, look at the people he gives it to.', or a more recent sentiment, 'Money Can't Buy Me Love'.




I'm certain that if you were to spend some time with a therapist you might discover why you still feel compelled to put yourself in danger by working as an escort, especially now that you say you have no financial need to do so, not that money is the driving factor, there are plenty of ways for smart people to make money. Perhaps it's something as simple as an addiction to the adrenaline rush I'm sure you experience when you see a new client for the first time, not knowing what's going to happen, and yet knowing in the back of your mind just how dangerous these encounters can be. Maybe it has something to do with your admitted narcissism, but I suspect that's merely a symptom of a deeper psychological issue. Perhaps you simply fear the intimacy that accompanies having sex for free, but you aren't willing to give up the sex.


I doubt you'll see a therapist anytime soon, because as we all know, the first step to getting help is admitting you have a problem. And you don't have a problem. Every other sex worker has a problem, but not EroticaLady.


Please don't put me in the category of 'Captain Save a Ho.' I frankly don't think there's anything wrong with what you did and may choose to do again, I just think you might want to better understand why you do something so far out of the range of normal behavior, especially for someone as obviously intelligent as yourself.


And please stop telling civilians that it's possibly to be a sex worker and not have emotional problems.


That's all I have to say on the matter, I just wanted to clarify a few things for the good perverts here at XNXX. Now if you'll excuse me, I have important work to do. I'm currently writing a companion piece to a lovely little tale about a mother who gets sexually aroused by sniffing her son's soiled jockstrap, titled Not your typical panty sniffing story if you're interested.


Warmest regards,


AZMotherLover




PS. All that aside, the most fascinating thing I've gotten from this thread is some thoughts on the effects of testosterone on women. I've been with several high-T women, and every one of them had a high sex drive, were very adventurous, and very orgasmic. I love what testosterone does to a woman's genitals so much, I wrote a story about it. It's called Mom considers labiaplasty, get's a second opinion from her son if you're interested.


I started wondering how different the world would be if every woman had the same high level of testosterone.


Say if you could flip a switch and suddenly every woman had a high sex drive, what would the world look like a week later? A year later? I'm pretty sure the market for escorts would shrink, if not dissappear. All the married guys who currently hire escorts would be too busy banging their now horny wifes, or their secretaries, or their neighbors... There would be a lot of messed up hair and unmade beds, but not a lot of work would get done. There might be a dirty story to be written about such a thing. Hmmmm....

 

It's a money making business, not a feel good business. You don't go into it to please people, otherwise you'd be giving it away.

 

Those posts ought to put an ignominious end to this thread. If you can post a respectful reply to them, you're a better person than I want to be.

It was fun, and incredibly educational while it lasted. But who knows? Maybe there are more legitimate questions to be answered?

 

Damnit man. I bet you are a blast at parties. I couldn't give less of a fuck about your opinion of EroticaLady or her opinion of herself, but what makes you the authority on what is considered "healthy and normal?"


Exactly what is your qualification to tell me that if I have a pot plant growing in my closet I am not normal. Or if I knowingly engage in some self deprecating acts, or so on and so forth.


You're coming off as a SUPER fucking pretentious blow hard. This thread is a shits and giggles kind of thing; not a fucking case study about the psyche of hookers.


This kind of pseudo-intellectual bullshit that runs rampant on this forum is SO fucking annoying.