I'm a 22year old guy. I'm in a committed relationship with my amazing girlfriend of 2 years. My sex life is completely straight.

With that being said, When I'm often looking for porn to jerk off to, I find myself always scrolling over to bisexual and gay porn. I don't find men pretty. I'm not emotionally attracted to men. But something about an athletic body with a nice cock and tight arse... It's just sexy. I believe it started when I first started working out and sort of envied the more toned athletic guys and would almost study their bodies and work out plans to try and attain certain attributes. But I think that just opened the door. Growing up, I'm and English boy in a north american city. I was left to feel rather insecure about my penis early on, being that I was uncircumcised. So once again I feel I may have paid some attention to the cocks that the women would be sucking in porn. Eventually I'd find myself studying them throughout the porn, the curve, the circumcision mark, the shape of the head, All of it.

And then to top that all off I started getting into anal porn. Thank you Lisa ann!! After probably a year of my teens watching alot of anal porn I eventually watched mmf scenes, then bisexual mmf scenes, then eventually full on gay porn. after a while of reading stories and watching gay porn I eventually got up the balls to try playing with my ass a bit. I did and it felt great. Still to this day if I'm horny enough I'll jump in the shower and jerk off and finger fuck myself to an intense orgasm.

I think what I'm trying to get at. Is I honestly don't know if I would ever act upon the thoughts of jerking/sucking/fucking another guy, or if it's just another hot taboo fantasy sort of thing... and if this makes me more bisexual or still just curious?

And how many other people are in the same boat?

 

I am 45 and have been on the same boat, probably from your sort of age. I am happily married - sex life has died down a bit. I regularly think about hooking up with a guy - just for cock play. I love cocks. I watch gay porn to see them. I cruise beats just to see other guys' manhood. I dream of a 69 with a hot guy and I dream of having a cock cum in my mouth......... But, I am married and don't want to cheat and don't want to bring some disease home. How I would like to try before I die!

 

Variety is the spice of life. I think more men are open to experiment today than years back. But being stereotyped and labeled bi is still holding men back. That's why I think the taboo part of it is what also makes it hot. Being a naughty bad boy doing something we were brought up to believe and taught was wrong. But is it wrong ? No fuckin way. It's still something you're not going to run around telling your friends about. But what's wrong with enjoying your life. Your still young my friend. Whe I was young it was confusing for me. The guilt I felt after sucking prick. Because I got so worked up and in to it . As soon as it was over i felt sick to my stomach . But now I'm older and know that there's nothing wrong with enjoying a good stiff prick around my lips. Enjoy my friend before you look back later on and regret the opportunities you let pass by.

 

Dating & kissing men is not for me but the idea of being
In a orgy/gangbang getting fucked by multiple cocks is a huge turn on

 

You are bisexual. Period.

You don't have to act on it; you can stay committed to your girl and only have sex with women, but if you think about sucking and fucking guys, you are bisexual. You CHOOSE.

 

I don't know about you. It's what goes on in your head and in your dick that counts.

I wouldn't classify Myself as truly bisexual. Heteroflexible is probably the most accurate. I really didn't ever see the point in drawing lines on who I could and couldn't be attracted to. I've felt true sexual attraction to two people, though one vastly deeper than the other.

I can't imagine in my head ever being with a woman as in JUST with her.

 

thanks for the replies. Im ok with being a closet bisexual. I do find cocks, arse and general male physiques sexy. But I'm way more attracted to women, I love to dominate and control my partner, push her to her limits as I fuck her senselessly. I can't see myself doing that with a guy. It's nice to fantasize about. But my heart and cock both belong women. So closet bisexual it is

And if anyone wants to kik me, pm me

 

I'm in the same boat. I don't find guys attractive, but I love watching a hard cock get serviced, and when watching straight porn, I judge not only the girl, but also the guy's cock and find myself aroused by both.

But, for some off reason, I can't watch guy-on-guy. It's doesn't turn me on, really. I've been with a guy (oral only, and that's how I plan to keep it) but watching 2 guys just doesn't do anything for me. So weird, lol.

 

This is me exactly. I love fucking women and licking pussy but I also like sucking a cock on occasion. I have no emotional attraction towards men.

 

don't stay in the closet with it...try to experiment with like-minded guys ...... my number is......****chuckles*

 

Charles07, you're 22. With the realization that you are at least curious about having sex with men, I bet you will experiment with guys eventually. And you will love it. You may be like me and many on here where you will "fall in love" with women and love hetero sex but there is that side of you that needs to please/take cock. Enjoy life.

 

I'm kinda in the same boat as toons... the wife and I want to bring other people into our sex life both male and female... I find the thought of a guy fucking me in the ass extremely hot but I don't find my self attracted to guys... not to mention the wife really wants to see me get my ass plugged by a guy

 

I was in this similar situation before me and my gf separated. And about a month after we had broken up I met a young guy like me on craigslist. Keep in mind I had never done anything with a man before (like you) He was infinitely more experienced than me (pretty sure he was full blown gay) and it was amazing, I definitely wasn't disappointed in the encounter. I accepted that I was bi and now I play with guys and gals sometimes at the same time

 

I speak from experience when I say "plus one to this." After my ex-wife found out about my fantasies, she never slept with me again. She figured if I had fantasies, then I was living them out and she didn't want any diseases. Although this was not the reason for our divorce, it put a huge strain on our marriage. It didn't matter that I wasn't acting out, what mattered was that she thought I was. She figured if I was keeping my fantasy a secret, then I was keeping acting them out a secret as well. I was married for 3 years...did not have sex for 1.5 of those because of this.

If you ever tell your woman, you need to find out how she feels about it through some creative means and milking her view on that out of her without sounding any alarms. I can't tell you how to do this, because every woman is different.

 

curious

I love watching two suck and suck each other. I am older and one day think I will do the same.