I must admit that I have paid for sex many, many times. I’ve been divorced for a long time and do not want any relationships now, or in the foreseeable future. I have travel extensively and have had sex with women for CASH.
I prefer sex that way. No emotional ties, just sex.

 

You'll have to share some of your experiences with us, Paul!!! No, I've never paid for sex, in fact, it's never entered my mind!!! Emotional ties always seem to enter the mix, even if you say they aren't going to!!! They talk all this buddy stuff, but when you're with someone long enough you do become emotionally involved in some way!!! That's my opinion only!!!

 

Being male, yes it has entered my mind, but not as a viable possibility. I've no reason to do it. But yes, I can understand the appeal.

Yeah - share your stories with us!

 

I don't know what it's like with hookers in the States, but here in Korea, the hooker experience left me wanting a bit more. Mostly it's the 20 minute time limit a lot of them throw on you, which usually doesn't include the time you sit waiting for the girl to come in the room. That might be enough for the Koreans but 20 minutes is usually just the beginning of good foreplay.

You end up paying 60 bucks (in the city I live in, anyway) for about 10 minutes of relatively dull sex. And Koreans are pretty much worthless when it comes to blow jobs. I gave up on them awhile back simply because they weren't worth it. Porn is easier and cheaper.

With prostitution's illegality in the States, I've never needed sex that bad to risk it.

-S-

 

After my divorce from my first wife, I had one girl from the street, she stayed with me, I nominally gave her $20 for the first bj and fucking, after that, she gave me all I wanted and I gave her what I could for her drug habit.

Then one of the girls on the street came after me and stayed with me after the first night and was my 2nd wife.

In between I had about 3 other girls for one or two times, the rate was at least for me, $20 for a bj and screw Good ones, too. One girl got on top of me and kissed me the entire 40 minutes we were fucking, or should I say that SHE was fucking ME.

And one of them I spent a weekend with was undoubtedly the prettiest girl I was ever with, a petite blonde. I'm bragging I screwed her 9 times in 2 and half days. Wish I could do it now. We went to San Francisco, drove down the coast highway and went to Sacramento from Modesto, and then Sun night took her back. I think I gave her about $60.00.

I did get crabs from one of them even though we took a shower together first,but that's all I ever got in the way of STD.

Oh it was illegal, but the county didn't care, across the city limits tho it was a different story, I laughed when the city put a decoy girl right inside the city. She was so obvious with all new clothes, the girls all thought it was funny.

Then in the winter they would habitually arrest them to get them out of the cold and keep them in the county jail till the weather warmed up. I bailed one out a couple of times to have her with me.

And I sort of knew these girls before I took them except for the first one. She had connection with me and knew what days I was coming down to get her, without any other communication. She also said she loved me after a few weeks. When her husband got our of jail he kidnapped her from me.

 

My first time was in Costa Rica in 95’. I was living in South Florida at the time and one of my clients had a brother that lived in Costa Rica. One day he and I had a talk about why he had decided to move there. The way he explained things, it sounded like a paradise. His house cost him $12,000.USD. His maid cost him $200.usd a month, yep, a month. His property taxes were $11.usd a year. Getting the idea yet?

I decided to do a bit of research on Costa Rica and found it to be a refreshing change to what I was used to in the USA. I decided to bite the bullet and head down to see for my self. What I found was a city, much like parts of NYC, I was in San Jose, the Capital of Costa Rica. Polluted, dirty, crowded and a bit dangerous as well… The people seemed friendly enough.

There was a man I sat next to, on the plane, that mentioned the hotel he was staying at (my 2nd choice for a Hotel), when I arrived at my 1st choice, it was a let down, so I headed out the very next morning to my 2nd choice, saw the rooms and booked one then and there. Checked out of my other hotel and within the hour was settled into the Del Ray Hotel…. The Del Ray Hotel has a bar in it that has a reputation as a hooker bar (Blue Marlin Bar) and I really had no idea what to expect. Later that night I was in for a nice surprise. First off, the bar was full of male tourists. Plenty of guys there for information. Plenty of young beautiful girls as well. Average age of the girls was 18-25. My first experience was with a 20 year old girl from Nicaragua. 2 hours of bouncy, bouncy for about $70.usd up in my room. She was a very nice girl. Young sweet and “NOTHING” like the hard core, all business, drug addicted hookers in the US. I had a great time with her. I was in Costa Rica for 8 days and had sex with about 10 young girls that week.. No chance of anything like that happening to me in the US. Even by paying hookers in the US, I doubt the experience would have been the same. I know the cost would not have been.

I liked it so much, I decided to go back as soon as possible. As soon as possible turned out to be about 3 months later. I stayed for 10 days this time. Yes you guess it, this time about 15 young girls and never the same one twice. Never got to see much outside the city but I was not there to sightsee. All in all, I like it so much I decided that Costa Rica was where I would move to. Before doing that, I visited it about 18 times in about 3 years. Lots of women, lots of money, spent well “IMHO”. If I tell people that during those 3 years, I had easily had sex with over 150 women, they look at me like I am full of shit.. If you have the money, you can rent whatever you want. I wanted young women, young hard bodies, as many as I could afford.

I did not wind up moving to Costa Rica due to a series of unexpected events. I did however, find an alternative, that in my opinion was far better for me in 1999. I did finally leave the US in 2000, and am very happy where I am living now. Plenty of young hard bodies and the prices are in line with what I can afford. Hence the number of women I have has sex with, is now in access of 600 young women “PAID FOR” in the last 12-13 years and still counting. J OH, I forgot to mention that being well over 50years old now, I have never had sex with any woman older that 29.

I am always careful and get a blood test here by a doctor every 3 months or so. I always use condoms and so far so good.

 

All I can say Paul is: I envy you (if I can ever spell it right)

 

Wow Paul. You've got your system down. Please continue to use protection and get checked, we don't want anything bad to happen to you while you are looking for your simple enjoyment.

 

I've heard many many stories of the Philippines that are similar to Paul's stories of Costa Rica and was planning on going there myself this year. The tales I heard from that island boggle the mind and tease the balls. They'll remain simply tales for me though, I'm returning to the States to have a family.

-S-

 

Damn straight.

Oh and to stay on topic, I've never paid for sex. But lets face it, I'm female, which means I dont have to! There is never a shortage of men who will have sex with a willing female.

 

Just one more thing that men got cheated on. Is that why some men want to be women?
( I am happy being a man, but continually frustrated)

 

Leila, that is very true . . . but what I have found is that men don't want to give AFFECTION. They're free with sex, but not full-attention affection. At one point in my life, I really needed male attention in a DIFFERENT way. I could illicit sex from men very easily -- always could. But what I needed was someone to just HOLD me . . . without the demand of sex at all.

I found that this was very hard for any of the men around me to do.

So, I and a couple of my girlfriends who also needed this type of undivided attention decided to pay an "escort" to give us AFFECTION with no sex. I did this for about six months. The guy was very understanding . . . I bet he was very relieved that I was not asking for more like his other customers. It was very nice, actually. And it was nice to know that I was getting what I craved without ANY obligation to recipricate with sex in the future.

So, yeah . . . women do pay for "it", it's just not the "it" that men pay for.:grin:

 

women ive slept with, one was my gf, three former fucking buddies not at the same time, it would be great if it was, the remaining 42 were all hookers, yeah i was adicted to sex, so back then whenever i felt the urge and ive no one with i paid for sex, i stil am a sex adict its just that im broke nowadays, thats when porn does it job, for free, yeah im a broke loser and i dont mind at all, i like the freedom, yeah right

 

Hey girls I HAVE LIVED LIKE THAT for more years than I can count. (uh lets see 11 plus 16, yeah, thats 27, I can count it) I don't have to have the sex, it's just nice, but the affection we show is much more important to me, and if that makes me a weird guy, I don't care, I am no macho horney bastard that wants to stick it in every hole he can find. Sex without affection or love is not worth much.

(Maybe I should consider being an escort, I need more income anyway)

 

I've been propositioned twice...and turned both down.

 

Hmm, twice? It's sunday where you live now, isn't it? You must not be counting those from before last week. But I don't think you want others feeling jealous! Haha

 

But these two were willing to pay me!!!

 

Isn't that what the traditional dinner and a movie is for? Just joking. I never paid for sex. At least not yet.

 

They're lucky your so generous as to not rob them of everything they have! Haha, such a high class broad! Wasn't there a song about that?

 

Dummy me...I always gave it away!!!