OK guys this is the situation I am engaged getting married in one week. I am very happy but he is staying out of town and me here in illinois ok to keep fuck buddy here in illinois who is also married or what.... Help I know some of you old fashioned guys would say stay faithful no matter where he is but others would say get what you need so what do u think??? 5'5 140 brwn/brwn 36 C and shaved hmmmmm and very open to anything.......

 

get what you can while you still can not married yet so enjoy.

 

THIMK, you should know what your fiance thinks. Is he keeping a fuckbuddy, too? If he was would he tell you? Wouldn't it be ok with him for you both to have one, and would it be ok with you?

Screwing around with others when you are engaged with most men would kill everything.
But if you are both open to it, it shouldn't be a problem.


But If YOU want to do it and not tell him, and he somehow suspects or finds out, he has grounds for a divorce and even an annulment possibly.

If you are really open to everything, fly to Las Vegas and screw ME once a week, I really need it.

Really you absolutely should discuss it with him. If you haven't before; open it by saying something like I know while you are away you must get very horny, and would you like to find someone to substitute for me? That should let you read his feelings pretty well.And if he says well I just get off myself, you should really consider doing the same. Of course if this is intended to be a temporary marriage, then feel free to get laid as often as you like and by as many as you like. Hopefully you or him won't get something to give to the other that is bad.

My best wishes to you both.:rose::rose:

Shirley

 

Hmm Interesting

It's nice to know that people think so differently. I dont think he has anyone and the guy i fuck satisfies me on a friendly screw basis where that is all we both want. So who says i cant have my cake and eat it too.

 

Hi Sexxycurve, good to be adventurous sometimes. Take care to keep the marital trust intact and fuck away. Nothing like a good long deep fuck. You are not jeopardizin your shared bond are ya?

 

Nothing wrong with a friend with benefits! I've had several over the years and they can keep you sane. Specially when the significant other isn't around, or when you travel. I travel a lot in my job. All of US and Canada. Sometimes, I feel like a sailor - a woman in every port. But when you travel 80% of the time, the hand gets tiresome...

 

cant miss what you cant measure

 

glad i aint marrying you

 

Re; getting married........

What part of IL I drive thru the northeast part all of the time.

 

Bang twenty guys at once.

 

I am married and so is my 27 yr old girl friend. Neither of us has any intention of leaving our spouses and believe that our "secret" relationship makes life more exciting and our married sex lives more interesting.

 

and they wonder why husbands kill their broads...

Lol, you deserve the same fate.

You're going to get married in one week for fucks sake, does the word marriage mean anything to you? Apparantly not. Hope he does find you in bed with some other punk and bashes your skull in with a lamp, he'll be my hero.

 

Wow, can't he just dump her....must he bash her head with a lamp?! Is OJ a hero of yours?

 

Hi sexxycurves71, i hope you find what your looking for. Pity i live so far away from you, i'm in England! You sound so sexy. Have fun, stay safe and i hope your wedding goes off without any hitches and is a fantastic day for all.

love kevin

 

That's fuckin' low.

 

If your libido is such that you need a lot of good fucking,to keep you satisfied you are the kind of woman any man would want. Your openness to sex is also much to be admired but the question uppermost in my mind is why you still find marriage a necessity. To what purpose would it serve either of you. If he is aware of your proclivities, that is one thing and is not bothered by it, if he is not, he is in for a bad time with a bad wife.

 

Wants and desires

You should tell him exactally what your wants and desires are ... if he can't handle that then you shouldn't be getting married. It will lead to problems down the road ... don't bottle things up inside thinking your feelings will change. That will only make them stronger over time and end up causing trouble for your marriage down the road.


Honesty will set you free.

 

yeh.. glad its not me.. love to see this ho smashed with a lamp

 

Girl. You're the true definition of whore. I don't mean that in an appealing way either. Someone get the lamp. - Detroit

 

what part of IL. im only 20 but i love older women