After many conversations with partners and friends I've come to the realization that most women I know don't like giving head. Personally I simply can not comprehend this, I love giving head and I find it to be one of the most passionate forms of intimacy out there. Am I the one who is odd in this thinking? Very few of my guy's past girlfriends would give him head, and after some talking about it with friends, very few of theirs did either. I've asked other women I know and the only time I've ever gotten a response was "It's a turn off when he asks." So now my curiosity is unbearable. What is it that some women find to be disagreeable about it? I'm not judging or being condescending. I really just am very curious and want to understand. It is just about preferences, circumstances, the guy involved, or what else could be the reason? And is there any situation where you would possibly change your mind?

Thank you in advance.

 

Maybe some of them found it to be degrading?

 

I absolutely love giving head, I could spend hours doing it

 

I also love a cock in my mouth, but it's worth bearing in mind the women who frequent a porn forum may not be representative of the general population.

 

I love giving head, but I can think of a few reasons why I wouldn't. Like you smell like ass, your not gromed, and your maybe some women have had bad experiences. Of cores they might think you would blow your load if they dot want to swallow.

 

Safe to assume some of the women that are here enjoy it .

 

So true. But i figured an anonymous porn forum might off some honesty as well as insight.

 

Thank you, and you have absolutely valid points.

 

Who does not like giving head? I look forward to sucking my husband cock every night. It's intimate, it's sexy and I am in total control.

 

You are definitely not odd in your way of thinking. I cannot think of anything more enjoyable than sucking a nice cock. I could never understand why some women hate it.

 

My first wife would not give me a blow job unless I ask for one. She hated the thought of having cum in her mouth, and if I did cum in her mouth she would rush to the bathroom and almost puke as she was spitting it out.

 

I like it

If I have feelings for the guy or just like them in general my thinking is it would make me happy to make them feel good, so then I like giving head cause I know I'm making them feel good and they an repay me by fucking me after (;

 

This is probably the wrong forum for your question. I have a feeling your answers are going to be one sided

 

Because the last thing I think of when I see a penis is 'Ooh, I want that in my mouth!'. The only reason to do it is to watch guys squirm and get them to do things the would not do under normal conditions.

 

True that, at least I know for absolute certain I'm not alone in my love for putting cock in my mouth.

 

Thank you for being honest with me. I'm not trying to pry, but would you mind telling me what you mean by things they wouldn't do under normal conditions? This is the kind of thing that makes me more eager to understand.

 

I cant understand what the deal is either. It has been many years since I got given head, but from experience at both ends as it were I really dont see the problem.

My guess is that might be down to bad prior experience, a BJ should be pleasurable for both partners but if the guy receiving is disrepectuful or simply not very clean then that might not make the giving experience very pleasant. Not everyone like to taste cum and if your partner really doesnt like it then better to withdraw than break that bond of trust than cum in her mouth regardless.

I feel certain that there would be a lot more happier marriages and relationships if the blow jobs were a little more forthcoming though

OK Im probably going to get strung up alive for making that last statement but there we go I shall apologise in advance if that offends anyone on here

 

I agree degrading. But then again if giving head is such a huge thing. Why do it n tel sum1 about it.

 

Most men don't really wash their cock properly so it carries the funk of the day. Some ladies need a new perspective on bjs. Think of it as a position of power, you have control of what you want to do. If the guy says one thing do the opposite, let him know you are in control.