I'm trying to get my girl into a lot of stuff from someone watching us fuck, getting her to do threesome's or even online fun

 

its hard to get them into it, i got my ex into it slowly got guys to watch us on skype while she wore a mask, take it slow find the right people and she will open up!

 

It will take time,but show her the good parts of these things,and take it slowly.Even if she refuses after a while,keep your cool.After sometime,she'll be down for a few things.

Source:Own experience.

 

That's a tough one. some people will NEVER be into that stuff.

I, myself, am only just now even beginning to contemplate doing anything with another woman. For all my life it's been a turn off for me. I didn't even "experiment in college" as most seem to have done.


I would say the biggest step in my slow and steady progression from quite literally freshly deflowered to the practicing submissive cock craving slut who at least does 3somes online while she works toward real world application is porn.

I was 100% against porn my whole life till hubby bet me one day (over cards or monopoly or something) that if he won, I had to watch ONE porn with him. I really thought I had him. So I agreed with the condition that I got to pick the porn. Low and behold he won and next thing I knew, we were standing in the XXX room of the local video store. I can't say it'll help. Some people can't stand it. But I picked out a Hentai. I've always been into anime. So I thought maybe the cartoons would be less intimidating. And to this day, it's still my preferred sort of porn. But many people can't stand the voices or the fact that most of it is censored.

ANYHOW, it was my gateway porn, I guess. I went back for more (because most are several episodes so I wanted to know how the story ended). But more than that, the story lines intrigued me. There's a lot of rape, exhibitionism, D/s, coercion, blackmail, etc. And, a personal favorite, the transformation of a sweet and innocent girl into a cum guzzling sex slave (which mimics my RL transformation so closely it's almost scary).

But these were things that I believe were always within me. Even back when I was just reading stories on XNXX, that's the sort of stuff that I was drawn to.

So I would just suggest starting slow. If you push too hard too fast, you will freak her out. She needs to discover on her own what her sexual interests are (with, perhaps, a little guidance from you). And then she needs to feel that you two have a comfortable atmosphere for her to discuss them with you.

But, finally, and maybe most importantly... keep in mind that even if she does blossom sexually and discover she's a kinky freak her kinks may not be in tune with yours. And you will both have to decide if you want to have a realtionship where you just don't do something the other is uncomfortable with it. Or if you go ahead and do it with the understanding that some day the other part will have to do what they're uncomfortable with. Or perhaps explore those things separately either in an open relationship or perhaps online with other people.


Hope this helped. I think perhaps I rambled too much lol

 

Work on one thing and slowly introduce others but if you do get her doing one thing don't rush her onto the next she maybe spooked and refuse all u ask

 

Thanks for the tips

 

First of all, patience is the keyword, never push the issue.

Watch some porn vids with your lady, see what excites her, not what she says but what she responds to or seems aroused by.

As to threesomes, it's a mixture of chemistry and circumstance-situation, when it comes together you'll know.

 

Alcohol

 

Not much that hasn't been said

Never give up if she's willing to hear you and be patient, my wife isn't even close to where I want her to be (a very self conscious thing) but it never keeps me from trying and she's a long way from where we started.

 

I hope u get there darling

 

THANK YOU

Luckily there's a lot of fun along the way, win or lose I win

 

thanks

I'm hoping to get her joining me for online fun and so much more

 

Don't listen to whoever said "alcohol". That's a good way to get her extremely pissed off. And it's just wrong.
Just be patient and start with little things. Have her write down a list of things she'd like to try, you do the same. Compare and see if she's willing to do anything, or work towards anything, on your list. Work on her list too.

 

Question:
Has she ever been to an Anne Summers party.

If No:
Get her to one asap. They are what created the generation of happy promiscuous Milfs we all know and love, and love and love in oh so many ways today.....

If yes:
Talk to her about that. There will be so much information already available to you and almost certainly a Rampant Rabbit tucked away at the back of a drawer or cupboard.

They sell 2 million a year in the UK from retail stores alone......

 

Thanks for ideas

 

Anymore

 

I think the reason you're seeing so much of one particular suggestion is because it works. Get her to watch porn.

Nothing makes a woman more interested in trying something than seeing another woman have a REAL orgasm from that very act.

 

I find a bottle of gin and a Rocco Siffredi porno movie really helps.:excited:

Thinskin